@thebiggersthebetter: who wants the tips next? ๐คญ PS: this is 100% NOT to detract from consent, autonomy, etc. You donโt owe anybody anything. But itโs perfectly reasonable for your partner to need a satisfying intimate life with you ๐ซถ๐ป #girltalk #realtalk #relationshiptips #marriedlife #intimacy #girlytips #womanhood #postpartum #momlife #parenting #postpartumlife #momtips #momadvice #wordsofwisdom
I think what Iโm struggling with the most is Iโm still expected to do the deed, but donโt get the dates, and bonding time bc thereโs no one to watch the kids. I still fill his cup but mines empty.
2024-04-29 16:47:17
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ShaBarrian_M :
After my son was born, it took us 7 months to get back intimate but my husband also is a corn addict so that made me not want to be intimate with him even more. Still a struggle 2 years in now.
2024-04-29 18:50:55
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Kal :
But Iโm soooo tired
2024-04-29 20:16:26
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Phoebe Riley :
No wait we need the tips
2024-04-29 17:51:55
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kt.454 :
Donโt be shy, post the tips.
2024-04-29 19:04:00
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caracargill :
I wish more people would talk about this going the other way! I want to be intimate with my husband post birth, but he has no interest.
2024-04-29 16:31:24
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Emmajanee5 :
My issue isnโt him itโs me! I feel so unsexy now and I constantly think about the way I look or feel to him when we are intimate๐ and I know he doesnโt care!!!!
2024-04-30 23:16:05
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amber_healerwitch :
I wish I saw more people talking about this! Absolutely correct ๐ I did not get married just to be a roommate. ๐คท๐ปโโ๏ธ
2024-04-29 18:05:32
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louise.lately :
I think Iโm a weirdo because Iโm a month PP and I actually want to be intimate again with my husband ๐ฉ but my body is not nearly healed enough for that so we will def wait a while longer!
2024-04-29 18:32:13
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Lorraine Barcco :
โOver the humpโ ๐ ๐
2024-04-29 16:35:39
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UVB_347 :
So I got pregnant my first month off BC. Super complicated, anxious pregnancy followed by a traumatic birth March 20โ and a PANDEMIC. I have an actual fear of getting pregnant again.
2024-04-29 18:19:32
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veerronicaxo :
What if your husband is just clueless on how to fill your cup with intimacy like i feel like i always have to guide instead of it coming from him
2024-04-29 18:51:47
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taymo14 :
Honestly, feeling obligated actually makes it even less desirable. ๐
2024-04-29 19:02:44
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User4948363729 :
Weโve also had the best intimacy of our lives after a hard postpartum period - I think we just value it more now
2024-04-29 20:24:01
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Erin Bruner :
Girl! This only applies to supportive partners. If a partner is not being supportive in postpartum, this mindset would be very toxic!
2024-04-29 22:40:49
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Marie ๐ฉท :
Buckle up for a while ๐ mine are 16,13,9,5. There were years it was great thatโs why we have 4 kids lol ๐๐ฅฐ but now that we have teens itโs been challenging ๐ณ
2024-04-29 19:30:34
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karabarreras :
what about the pain after having a baby๐
2024-04-29 22:05:29
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Minty :
How do you navigate that with PP rage though ๐ my poor husband
2024-04-29 16:17:24
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Claudiascutiess :
This is so important and also why I refuse to have a monogamous relationship.
2024-04-29 23:13:30
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Erin :
We kind of go off a rule that it gets weird after three months so just go for it. This is after postpartum healing which took easily 5-6 months. Usually it picks up.
2024-04-29 17:52:28
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Magen :
Ok but can we talk about the reoccurrence years into having kids? I feel like I want to but then I can be good for weeeeeeks. Kids are MUCH older
2024-04-29 16:51:58
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Alyssa Harrison :
I had not even realized it had been 2 months and when my husband told me I felt bad I now try to bee in the mood more at least 1 times every week and we do other intimate things more frequently ๐ฅฐ
2024-04-29 18:32:47
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๐ :
Spot on. Itโs absolutely wild that so many women donโt understand this.
2024-04-29 18:02:13
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Kayla Elizabeth :
almost 17 months pp and still not interested. so hard
2024-04-29 18:03:15
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