@tialevingswriter: Potty Training in Chrisitan Homes: Yes, in Christian Patriarchal homes, bathroom access is controlled. Everything is controlled. But if you’re envisioning charts, that’s not quite it. ⏰ Elimination timing, ⏰ going on command, ⏰ a refusal to be excused, ⏰ asking as disobedience, ⏰ time so scheduled and structured that there’s no room for natural, random, spontaneity for anything ⏰ “d1e to self” training to shut down personal needs in favor of serving others It’s like any other conditioning to ignore your body’s needs or responses. Bathroom access, underwear, privacy, etc are all tools of control in the patriarchy—-which is why they’ll also deny us other autonomous freedoms, like healthcare, voting, contraception, and education. It’s not so much about the vice or virtue of each individual issue but one of control over your body, heart, and soul. Women and children are objects, vessels, weapons—-not human beings with autonomy or needs. The bathroom control is just a manifestation of that. Listening to survivors will give you a glimpse into what it’s really like to live that way, and how extreme it becomes quickly. Preorder A WELL-TRAINED WIFE in hardcover, audio, or ebook anywhere books are sold. #christianpatriarchy #fundies #duggars #quiverfull #dominionism #smashthepatriarchy #underhiseye #gilead #highcontrol #cult #culty #tradfamily #tradwife #tradwifelife #eliminationtiming #totrainupachild #religioustrauma #moth #christianhomeschooling #joelwebbon #dougwilson #michaelpearl #nancycampbell #highcontrolgroup #awelltrainedwife #pottytraining #toilet

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ladymamabear
Lady Mama Bear :
How is this not considered child and spousal abuse?
2026-08-05 18:22:33
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rescues3647
rescues3647 :
All 3 kids are girls. 😭
2024-08-27 04:49:59
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nursemomtms
Teena Snyder :
I’m 60 and I still occasionally feel pangs of guilt if I go into the kitchen to get a drink outside of meal times. I made damn sure my kids never experienced that.
2024-05-04 18:03:01
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starlingswallow
StarlingSwallow :
My ex husband controlled my bathroom habits, and would even RAGE if I yawned. YAWNED! 😳 Ughhhhh....
2024-07-12 12:40:16
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honeystatic1
🍯 static :
I was terrified to flush the toilet at night because my dad would freak out. If I coughed, he would scream at me
2024-05-06 11:19:38
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america.we.need.to
America We Need To Talk :
@Tia Levings I’m assuming he wouldn’t approve of Tulsi Gabbard and Kristi Noem or any female being in these positions of power?
2025-05-07 00:56:56
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elineukar
K :
I was so proud of myself the first time I asked to go to the bathroom in the middle of a dentist visit.
2024-05-03 23:24:39
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mburtwrites
Marissa Franks Burt :
💯💯💯So many 🚩
2024-05-01 16:16:10
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kelseynelson58
Kelsey :
I forgot about this. literally had accidents at school because I was not told to go and I could not ask
2024-05-01 19:17:35
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bublykity
user2022311147641 :
soo what is the difference between what R Kelly went to jail for and what these people do?? power and control is the same in rap or in the evangelical world!! people need to see this for what it is control!!!
2025-09-22 20:13:29
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marshmallowmoonbeam
marshmallowmoonbeam :
I grew up in this kind of environment & my partner literally had to sit me down several times and tell me I'm allowed to just fulfill my needs when I need them. I've been out of that kinda household
2024-05-08 14:29:20
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tracylostinnb
tracylostinnb 🇨🇦 :
I choose 4B thank you.
2024-05-07 19:42:21
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azsli2
azsli2 :
Yes not allowed to get up but also not allowed to wet the bed
2024-05-02 21:03:23
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christinerichett
ChristineAllAlong :
They are saying the quiet part out loud!
2024-09-19 21:40:34
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jenneferjohnsoncurls
jenneferjohnson :
I grew up in a super watered down version of this, but the spine is the same.
2024-05-03 00:32:30
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beingtrueself
OnaJourney :
My ex used to blow up at me if I ate dinner with the kids before he got home from work, which was late… during kids bedtime routine… So I’d stay hungry until after the kids went to bed…
2024-05-01 21:55:29
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felis_dingus
carin :
That’s so terrifying that it hurts my head to think about it. I’m so sorry
2024-05-22 00:25:07
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patace
patace :
Personal experience! Forced to sit at the table for hours to eat foods i couldn’t stomach. In adulthood discovered I have sensory issues and allergies. Yet my mind still tells me to eat foods anyway
2024-05-02 18:58:27
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tawny_dragon
Tawny Dragon :
making decisions, even the most small ones, was so hard for so long. like, i have to make a decision!? wait what will gos/men/church/elders think!? it took years to heal this
2024-05-01 15:18:52
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jduncan17
J Duncan108 :
Atheist family a d Dad was obsessed with us not showering to save water
2024-05-07 07:56:39
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jjm2154
jjm2154 :
This reminds me of an episode of the twilight zone
2024-06-07 16:08:37
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colleenpell
colleen :
I just ordered your book🥰 I couldn’t imagine living like that. You are so brave and strong.
2024-05-02 23:36:09
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tree__midwife
Treesa McLean :
Remember that baby book by Ezzo-Babywise!
2024-05-01 17:52:03
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makemistakes89
LoveLearning :
A woman (part of this community) I knew used to wake her new born to feed them on her schedule and let them cry it out if they woke up and cried when it was off her scheduled time to feed. 😢
2024-05-02 17:27:35
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__ooooop
-…- :
Just found your profile today and bravo for calling all of this out 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
2024-05-20 18:51:46
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