His income is 85% and she thinks he’s supposed to stay home??? What is she smoking?😳😳
2024-05-02 17:36:45
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Sugar-Cookie :
Tell her you’d be thrilled to be the SAHP, you’re sorry and agree that it was sexist. Then ask her to sit with you and put together a budget for how you will make ends meet on her income. Short convo!
2024-05-02 17:54:06
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ghstgrl04 :
Does she not understand what bills are
2024-05-02 14:40:50
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Stephanie Ann :
don't put your next paycheck into the account, let her realize what it looks like without that income and only hers
2024-05-02 15:08:54
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Miller :
Wife has felt self conscious/guilty about the pay disparity the whole time. Its bubbled up to the top
2024-05-02 20:42:13
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Krickitat :
Tell her fine, you’ll consider being the stay at home dad if she can find a job that maintains your current lifestyle
2024-05-02 16:02:39
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JenRedT :
It's just math, and reality. The person making the most isn't generally the logical one to pick to stay home.
2024-05-02 14:48:10
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loki_boomer :
“What makes you think I would be the one to stay home?” Uh… it was YOUR idea. What would ever make her think HE would want to stay home?
2024-05-02 19:34:42
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Mila :
Honestly just tell her to go do her math and have her plan to budget around her sole income and see how that goes
2024-05-02 15:26:01
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Sara B :
I thought I would be on her side but yeah she's not thinking straight
2024-05-02 16:01:27
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Harshmellow :
Well, run a test. If she believes her finances are capable, take your income, put it in a seperate account, so her pay is the only one going towards everything, live off it for a month, then do the
2024-06-01 02:08:16
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JBee :
NTA. That’s wild and definitely not sexist math. That’s logical math. 🙄
2024-05-02 18:34:48
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anxious_bunny6 :
Dellutional to think that was a sexist issue and not financial issue 😂😂
2024-05-03 12:00:28
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b.bekgarcia :
Nta. She’s living in a fantasy world.
2024-05-03 02:41:47
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HeloiseClark :
the person with the higher income works otherwise, get daycare.
2024-07-24 13:27:20
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mkzylp :
I feel like there's more to this story....? can't be right
2024-05-12 18:44:08
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Cube Brik :
I don't think I could be with some one like her. Some of you are gonna take that the wring way, so I'll clarify. I have no room for stupid, if he's telling the truth about this, she is lacking brains
2024-07-22 23:03:59
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RyBo :
the husband should not have to jumped to any conclusion. it should have been discussed first before making the claim. the current situation is no gauge for future possibility
2024-07-29 09:47:24
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cne :
Leave her.
2024-07-31 11:24:31
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Hennessy Price :
this is grounds for divorce. You married a moron and didn't know it.
2024-07-26 21:04:35
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Stephanie Batton :
She's out of her damned mind.
2024-07-23 04:09:39
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dukington2 :
Yikes. Get out dude. Major red flags
2024-07-22 07:53:03
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Boston John187 :
Take a month off and stay home and let her see the bills pile up
2024-05-02 15:19:43
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KnattyBurd :
NTA. Start putting your money in a different account and let her start budgeting on what she has alone.
2024-05-02 15:34:04
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Workingstiff01 :
That woman has no clue.
2024-05-02 14:38:58
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Dream Walkers Author/Artist :
The wife is in the wrong.no discussion needed, hell at 85% of the income I wouldn’t even discuss the big purchases.
2024-05-02 18:34:15
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Zerologic256 :
I think it’s a good time to lay out all the bills and daycare cost. Maybe it would surprise both of you. Don’t give up try to be calm
2024-05-02 16:10:21
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GummySnacks :
I make more than my husband and had a better schedule than him. He because a stay at home parent for 2 years because that’s what made sense.
2024-05-02 15:57:37
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Jonathon :
give her ALL the bills and tell her they have to be paid with her check next month.
2024-05-03 09:13:06
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your french dbw :
how is that's sexist math? it may be sexist that she earns so little but reality is that's what she earns and it's not enough😭
2024-05-02 17:33:13
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Gasparka572 :
No, he's definately NTA and I really like how much respect does he have for his wife :)
2024-05-02 18:42:30
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Therapon :
NTA time do separate account and let her pay the bills for a few months with just her income and let's see if she can make it work
2024-05-02 16:58:37
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David :
she will be divorcing you
2024-05-02 17:23:39
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Audrey :
Nta it’s the most logical solution and has nothing to do with gender
2024-05-02 14:32:01
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Blue :
bills are sexist too. be a voice for her, let her pay them
2024-05-02 17:12:30
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Charlene Mcculloch :
NTA you were thinking logically and what would work. She will get a huge reality check if you stop working. X
2024-05-02 15:24:08
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Shelbie Clyne :
I want to have what she is smoking
2024-05-03 20:11:26
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zuyayapi :
easy.. open a new banking account, change your direct deposit and let her try and pay the bills with her newfound income limit
2024-05-02 21:57:53
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Flaws_and_Folly :
maybe something else is going on cuz otherwise her reaction is super odd and illogical
2024-05-02 20:02:13
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GenX_nation :
Call all the creditors and see if they’ll take “feminist ideals” as payment. 😂🤣
2024-05-20 04:05:23
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Michael Love :
I would take every hour of PTO, unpaid. take a month or three off. tell her you quit. watch her PANIC
2024-05-03 00:50:47
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Rebecca 🇵🇷🌺 :
Was she just looking for a fight??! Its regular math, not seggsist 😂
2024-05-02 15:10:08
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Kay :
That wasn’t sexes math that was accurate math. Of course you’d expect her to be the stay at home especially when she’s suggesting it
2024-05-02 14:57:51
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_marlanaaa :
NTA. She the type of woman that purposely makes things complicated, just to feel better about herself .
2024-05-02 14:40:09
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CaseClosedAcrylic :
From that simple interaction, I can see why she hasn’t progressed her job lol. 😂
2024-05-22 21:56:53
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Heather Elizabeth405 :
NTA makes sense person making the most keeps working
2024-05-02 15:33:08
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They call me nanny :
Stay working but put your money in a separate account for about 6 months,allow her to try and keep up bills on her pay.
2024-05-02 15:24:33
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heath proffitt :
She sounds shallow and clueless.
2024-05-02 14:39:39
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Natasha Price :
... She might not be too bright...😬
2024-05-02 15:32:07
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Lynae Hudson :
tell her fine. you'll quit your job. she can figure out how to pay bills. she's just upset that her job isn't as monetarily equal as yours. give her time.
2024-05-02 15:16:42
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marks :
this just makes women look bad not all are flipping clueless
2024-05-02 15:31:43
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Spangler’s girl :
NTA
2024-05-02 14:31:29
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Jessica Karen :
She sounds like she doesn’t know what the bills are in the house and doesn’t know what the actual expenses are😂
2024-05-31 11:59:01
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Ana :
Nope
2024-05-22 15:56:35
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Smfker :
She’s living in delulu. He sounds amazing
2024-05-19 05:33:40
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✿Lynne💫✿ :
Have them do a test run. OP still works but not contribute to any expenses in the house for 3months and see if the wife can handle the expenses with the pay she has. that will give her a wake up call.
2024-05-17 08:56:18
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Ana :
She’s the AH
2024-05-11 01:38:04
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