It’s cool…their silence gave me time to really realize how messed up they did me and gave strength not to look back again
2024-05-03 08:44:12
10264
Tara Azzara :
I don't reach out because they didn't understand after explaining 10x's and I won't waste my breath on the 11th 🤗
2024-05-02 19:42:55
15347
Kayleigh Cleveland :
Or sometimes the friendship just doesn’t deserve the time and effort anymore. People grow apart. People also realize why the distance started.
2024-05-06 20:54:44
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T A Y L O R :
Accountability doesn’t exist in a lot of people it’s scary.
2024-05-26 21:05:54
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💜⚡Danielle 💫💜 :
💥💥💥 just remember the disrespect was your closure and move forward! 💜
2024-05-03 16:35:30
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B.Well :
I do miss my friend, & often want to reach out. But then I remember that's not them anymore, that's the idea I had of them. Wish them well but the things they did to me & said about me won't change
2024-05-05 11:51:11
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Frankie :
I don't speak to them because I don't need their toxic behavior in my life or my families lives. It is much better this way. I cut them off.
2024-05-04 23:54:47
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Sonder :
Let them 😊 I’m enjoying my peace
2024-05-03 06:07:58
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ur daddy :
what if i don’t reach out because im worried im only doing it to help my guilt and make myself feel better when in reality they’d maybe rather not hear from me at all
2024-05-06 16:46:35
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z :
okay but being the one that messed up - I think about them everyday and carry immense guilt and shame for how I treated them so I think it's unfair to reach out when I've already caused so much harm.
2024-06-02 14:00:06
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zulugail :
As a therapist I totally agree with this statement however, I also agree time is something one should cherish and you need to choose what time you have or want to fix this.
2024-07-02 18:55:19
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KobeandGigi :
That. Or maybe we don’t reach out because we know we won’t get anywhere and it’ll interrupt our peace.
2024-06-04 07:07:02
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Nell Danger :
sometimes I want her to act like she wanted me in the first place but most of the time I'm just happy to be free. life is so good when someone isn't trying to sabotage it all the time
2024-06-19 10:29:46
5
Hailey :
Sometimes. And sometimes you stop reaching out because you can’t keep talking to a wall that is committed to misunderstanding you.
2024-07-01 00:17:04
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bruce.flowers :
also true: some people are no longer worth reaching out to. sometimes the problem was you
2024-07-01 05:40:52
1
Stephanie :
This healed me. Thank you 🥰
2024-06-26 03:16:29
1
feliciamcgee617 :
that's exactly right, just move on now
2024-07-01 06:16:25
1
🦋🧚🏻 Karma 🧚🏻🦋 :
idk i tried to reach out (mind u we didnt even speak often) and somehow there was a big issue where i was playing “victim” WHEN WE DIDNT EVEN SPEAK/she just invited me out of state for a event
2024-09-14 05:01:27
0
📱Kelly Digital Marketing Mom :
Yes!! This! 💯
2024-08-20 09:28:26
0
Lucy :
@sophia hm who is this
2024-07-25 05:54:07
1
ImBatmanBtch :
@fivefourgrim
2024-08-26 00:22:22
0
Posty🖤 🧿 :
muexpress na po @gwenchana
2024-07-05 11:33:20
0
Jon's :
kindly inbox me with your zodiac signs now because I'm feeling something special about you and it's very important to your life and future💖
2024-08-20 19:04:43
0
Danielle LeBron :
& over & over they will lie on you & lie about you when the lies they tell about you are only the truth about them. And they will paint you out to be this terrible person when everyone around that has
2024-06-05 07:21:09
0
6’sComputer :
The bith who did this to me had the audacity to make herself the victim
2024-09-28 00:41:27
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Spooky Munson :
I’m the one who disappeared because I was sick of being under her thumb and being an emotional punching bag, with her refusing to take any responsibility for how she treated me.
2024-05-05 14:11:10
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amyover50 :
Not when you’re friends with a total narcissist who will never look inward. Only thing to do with that is walk away and don’t look back.
2024-05-07 01:21:28
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zoe bonnett :
and then they want u to apologize for the narrative in their head
2024-05-08 15:07:20
539
Nona :
some people just aren't worth explaining to anymore.
2024-05-22 08:54:12
302
Josh | Psychology :
Who can relate? 🙋♂️
2024-05-02 18:45:25
204
nina :
That’s a 2 way street
2024-05-02 21:21:38
141
L.thebexx :
My ex husband telling ppl l had an affair and trying to smear my reputation because I moved on after we split. We split because he was emotionally and verbally abusive. He can’t stand accountability
2024-05-02 19:03:32
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Martin :
instead they will ignore u and play victim😭
2024-05-05 18:04:11
92
Jenmwho? :
So am I immature for letting them go because they lack an ability to acknowledge? Should I just get over it?
2024-05-03 11:54:13
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Savannah :
If that’s what helps them, then I can accept it. If you want to paint me the villain to make yourself happier, just don’t send anyone my way
2024-05-03 03:34:09
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LittleMan.KidPool :
now the fun part both parties did something and neither know what
2024-05-02 20:53:58
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Valvixyn :
someone who I considered a soul best friend did this to me and we haven't spoke in 7 years. it still blows my mind I never even got an apology.
2024-05-09 19:37:17
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Morgs🤍 :
doesn’t matter how wrong they did me. i always wish them health and happiness. I just wish people did the same thing for me sometimes that’s all
2024-05-26 13:08:11
56
Tiana__Dior :
I don’t reach out because they disrespected my boundaries time and time again.
2024-05-08 21:57:43
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Sk8 M8 🍉 :
What are you talking about? The people who do awful things are the ones who are going to come back and talk to you 1 million times over trying to do it over and over again.
2024-05-07 12:07:22
34
Madelyn René :
For some people, this definitely applies. And for some it doesn’t. Wild the people getting defensive in the comments
2024-05-07 14:15:10
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𝖌𝖎𝖆 ✝️ :
No bc what I found out during the silence was insane 😃, I’m better off without them
2024-05-09 10:56:24
30
☆dysaミ*´・ :
put this video on his fyp, not me
2024-05-03 15:51:49
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🤍leannah🤍 :
and some ppl are too immature to have a conversation w you and don’t understand that life is life and ppl have things they need to do 🤷🏼♀️
2024-06-01 14:00:37
23
Jaye 💘 :
My literal friend from elementary school. She was wrong, but refuses to admit it. So I’m mourning the loss of our friendship because of her pride.
2024-05-05 12:00:03
16
Peace 🍉 :
Adding to that, horrible people don’t try to be better. If you realize your mistake and learn from it, you’re already doing better than they are
2024-06-01 06:07:39
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bai_watch03 :
for some reason they always come back and think apologizing is just going to make all the things they did to me go away. like thanks for being self aware but that’s your new journey that has
2024-06-12 17:12:17
12
Joe :
it's really sad, especially when kids are involved
2024-05-03 19:27:11
12
tayltayl :
I would hope that 4 years later she’d realize 🥺
2024-05-02 23:53:38
10
H🪩 :
Wish he could see this
2024-05-02 20:52:16
10
Juanita :
when you tell them all the things they do and they respond to the most insignificant part 🤦🏾♀️like alright you really don’t gaf ✌🏾
2024-06-10 00:07:31
8
BP|L U X U R Y on a Budget ✨💕 :
!!! Literally had this conversation with someone and all they could did was circle back to past events or things that they think I did and held no accountability for their own actions - keep
2024-05-29 01:46:45
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kelsi :
the silence has given me the space to realize without her i am happier than ever and i shouldve been this happy the whole time 🙏
2024-05-10 15:09:35
5
Katie :
say it louder for the people in the back
2024-06-19 18:32:46
4
PhatNewbomb :
Would rather never speak to me again than admit they all messed up a lil it was crazy
2024-06-16 19:37:36
4
Jess :
I don't reach out because they've moved on, they've healed from what I've done, and I don't want to pull them back into what I did just to give myself closure.
2024-05-09 19:45:20
4
Francesca DiFrancesco :
If I disappear on your social media randomly, I chose peace.
2024-05-09 10:54:43
4
Chey💖 :
I want to reach out. I just don’t know if I would interfere with the healing they’ve likely done within themselves. All i want is for them to know i truly am sorry.
2024-05-07 20:51:07
4
Sarah :
Yepp I know I'm the villain in his story and that's fine 💯
2024-07-29 17:39:34
3
sickomode_sky :
Real
2024-06-19 18:32:18
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