@theconsciouspsychologist: Do you ever feel like you’re living two lives? #consciouspsychology #theconsciouspsychologist #browntiktok #indian #desi #southafrica #browngirl #MentalHealth
The disapproval that you get from family makes it difficult. Especially the "what will people say" family. I think a good start is learning that your worth is not tied to people's opinions of you.
2024-05-03 18:00:51
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Elise :
They say there are 3 versions one for family one for friends and one for yourself the true you
2024-05-04 04:05:20
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Laki :
It’s taken me 40 years to know I’m enough. Having adhd and a narcissist blood family isn’t a good mix. Going no contact is the best thing I can do for me
2024-05-04 05:11:13
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devzgp :
spot on! Ifeel it to b very toxic & draining! Like every relationship in life, an honest&intentional ongoing conversation has to b had!
2024-05-03 18:25:35
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Dianne_the_Divine :
I think not repeating this cycle is the only way as changing our elders beliefs is just not going to happen. setting boundaries with our elders is also important
2024-05-04 11:48:08
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karthia.creates :
That ✨Hannah Montana✨ life 😭
2024-05-04 05:43:02
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Glambot :
That's because family don't accept you as the person you've become, instead they have you in a box. Judgment is real.
2024-05-04 04:22:57
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Rona 💜 :
Middle Eastern families too 😭😭😭 I've came to a realization that sometimes our parents cant accept that we are actually grown adults , and only see us at a certain age 🤷🏻♀️
2024-05-04 00:34:58
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Bronwen Van Der Merwe :
Easy, i just dont give a hell what my family thinks anymore. I am me, you dont like it then there is the door go.
2024-05-04 07:15:35
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🤍Tasneem🤍 :
🤣🤣🤣 Yes absolutely I been saying this for years - but for the last few years I've been slowly incorporating living for me (it's a process)
2024-05-04 03:09:49
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Ivette :
No contact. Stop trying to control me with fear, obligation, and guilt. My authentic self being free makes me happy. No more withdrawing into a shell. This is me take it or leave it.
2024-05-03 10:30:31
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ItzAsh :
Be yourself always
2024-05-03 11:56:26
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wonderful words :
Im grateful iv bn authentic with my family since my teens lol they have made peace with me now 😂
2024-05-03 19:17:03
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Flaco :
My dad is super religious. I’ll go to church with him when I visit and let him pray over me cause it makes him happy but I am agnostic
2024-05-02 19:20:24
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Shevon Namchunder :
@Trystan_Namchunder
2024-05-04 16:04:01
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Tums The Narrator :
Yoh. Tell me about it.
2024-05-04 11:11:48
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Lenny :
Middle eastern here. Oh very true
2024-05-04 08:38:14
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✨K4v1t4✨ :
once you've been labled the 'blacksheep' and accept yourself authentically; you are free! also, when you see them for who they are, you don't respect nor value their opinion anymore 💁🏽♀️
2024-05-04 04:05:16
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Kirsten :
This is absolutely true.
2024-05-04 03:30:54
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BenY RW :
By recognizing that both those two selves are part of you. You aren't the same with your friends partner colleagues family so rather than feel conflicted jus see it as everyone knows part of the whole
2024-05-03 22:48:22
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Silina :
@IMAN 🇵🇸 girl
2024-05-03 22:19:22
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deen5761 :
Off topic but i love your accent! Is that a south african accent?
2024-05-02 20:17:41
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Lannce300 :
By Art of not giving a Fuck. Lol
2024-06-21 04:49:51
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tequilasunrise80 :
100%
2024-06-09 19:25:28
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Not Spongebob :
i see my fam 2x a yr because its exhsusting pretending...
2024-05-16 11:24:10
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