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deescozycrafts
deescozycrafts :
I wish I could send this to him but he’ll never put in the effort to read every slide just like I did..
2024-06-09 18:30:21
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horchataconpiquete
racks :
The problem is the mental load is not only reduced to managing the household. I feel it’s very present in the emotional aspect of the relationship too. While she’s trying to build and better it, he ju
2024-05-23 03:59:25
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eeeduhh
ida :
What can i do when he says he wants to help but expects me to tell him what to do? 😭 how can I make things easier for the both of us?
2024-05-05 14:49:42
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dangernoodl.e
noodle :
He claims he has no time to do anything around the house because of work. I am constantly behind on work because the household takes up entire days of my week. My career will always be steps behind.
2024-07-11 14:16:52
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lisa_rbc1
Lisa Rbc :
Just let the house deteriorate. Only pick up your own stuff, clean your own messes. Suddenly he'll notice everything, especially if he has his friends, co-workers or boss over.
2024-07-09 21:22:02
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crispl91
Pug Lover :
This is so real and exhausting
2024-05-03 23:01:26
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eeeena_n
eenuh :
I ended my 5 year relationship with a guy who I couldn’t rely on when it came to the little things like this - house chores and all. I was scared to have a baby with him and suffer even more 🥺 -
2024-07-08 23:33:54
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the_life_of_loulou
The_life_of_LuLu :
I’m a single mum and it’s actually easier!!
2024-06-10 08:12:29
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torag101
TotesCannySing :
I just had it today. gave him the silent treatment and then voilà he did it. which means he is capable but prefers me to tell him 🙄
2024-06-09 18:42:40
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venus.lim
Venus.Lim :
I am so tired
2024-05-27 17:24:35
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miaa.fafa
mira 🎀 xyz's baby 🎀 :
Thank you to the 4B movement, I wish to not go through all this. i see how my father refused to take on the mental load even for dinner HE'S going to eat and not even have to cook. like?? NO THANKS
2024-05-27 04:09:15
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lindadickson97
lindadickson97 :
This hit me hard. If I sent it to him, he wont watch past the 1st 2 slides then think im criticising him 🙄away to clear the table🙄
2024-06-10 18:20:54
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l.cianciolo
L.cianciolo :
I agree completely with the mental load being so exhausting and never ending. In my situation I have a partner that helps a ton around the house. I still have the stress of managing the household
2024-07-09 13:50:15
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thewellnest
Anya ✨ Functional Nutritionist :
This is SO well articulated.
2024-05-23 12:31:55
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shushufeifei
Chan Shu Fei112 :
This doesn't just apply to household chores but to planning dates in the relationship as well :< Imagine being the one keep thinking when is the best time to have a date to where and what to do
2024-05-25 03:09:49
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annebeesting
Anne Beesting :
I've got a baby doll toy for my son with it's own miniature toys exactly because I read a long time ago it helps develop empathy - He is SO GOOD with real babies, he's 2 and learning how to redirect
2024-05-03 14:17:03
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millacoco2
cocomilla :
my husband started helping more the moment I told him he is not a guest in his own home and to stop acting like one. things need to get done. he needed to start acting like a member of the family.
2024-05-03 12:45:58
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shrfnadq
shrfnad🍉 :
this is the best slides yet. i had a little convo w husb about mental load and oh boy its hard to get it all very clear. thanks ive sent to him. we need this
2024-05-10 15:03:21
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oaklisjewellery
Oaklis :
I feel like I married a unicorn! My husband truly contributes to the household and household management ❤️
2024-06-18 18:33:30
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leemikaela
Asfa :
You are putting this so accurately. Thank you, i’m sharing this to others
2024-05-05 09:08:15
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ajkslagscissors
f*male b*tch :
my assistant said she had so much to do this weekend.. turned out it was cleaning her brother's room and doing his laundry. I just about levitated
2024-05-10 21:41:10
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lolamina231
Lolamina :
I wish i could the Perspective of Single dads who also work and take care of kids and the Household . How has their Perspective changed ?
2024-07-06 20:21:39
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daisies.oasis
trixie /trik·see/ 🌼 :
I live with out youngest brother (we’re both adults) & I experience the same. I talked abt it to my mom that part of it is her accountability so every time she visits us I remind her to refrain (1)
2024-05-15 08:23:42
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epp1514
epp :
This is my current wife, experience it here the otherway around, what can i do?
2024-07-03 09:09:31
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