Coach Ryan
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Drewseph :
Why can’t we call it secure leaving avoidant too. I wasn’t anxious but I knew I wasn’t being watered staying where I was
2024-05-06 17:19:27
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H.Naaz :
Sometimes the anxious has to end it with the avoidant for their own sanity and peace after they tried everything to make it work.
2024-05-06 13:58:18
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tiktok.teddy :
I miss my avoidant so much tho 🖤
2024-05-06 15:24:31
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me :
me. I did that and my avoidant won't speak to me. acting the total victim. I'm done.
2024-05-06 14:34:35
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Kaycee Deen :
The end just felt like punishment. I left, but I didn’t have a choice.
2024-05-06 18:33:16
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camilo casadiego :
How the heavens tiktok knows exactly what is going on in my life????
2024-05-06 22:07:17
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JC :
Even though I technically broke up with the avoidant, she basically forced my hand. She left me no choice after I tried so hard to make it work.
2024-05-06 21:00:18
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Renia :
1.5 year in & me, the anxious finally just had enough! Hardest decision ever but just exhausted. what's next
2024-05-07 01:51:58
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Kell :
I turned off..I told him what I needed..he didn't or couldn't Deliver. I told him to never call me again. 2 1/2 years. I never talked to him again. I did not cry..I was angry. Emotionally turned off
2024-05-06 19:06:30
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keithmcc0709 :
It took me longer than it should have but I left her. Best thing I could have ever done. The mental torture was intense
2024-05-06 16:29:01
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Rina B :
I needed to hear this, I’m always feeling guilty for cutting him off but I mean it this time. Tired of the cycle.
2024-05-08 15:22:53
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Nancy L Taylor :
I left… and I have been through a roller coaster of emotions… I just couldn’t feel used any more… I hope I can learn what true love feels like.
2024-05-07 02:48:58
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Entela :
everything is so spot on, I was the anxious and said enough is enough, felt so guilty but with time it gets better 😊
2024-05-06 21:47:17
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patriciataylor1321 :
For an avoidant less is more, but for an anxious, less is less
2024-05-07 06:09:16
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Fia 🍉🍉🍉 :
thank you for this 🥲🥲
2024-06-24 17:15:30
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Ok_zoomer :
I held my boundaries and I was discarded or made to leave (it felt like a forced discard)
2024-05-06 14:32:14
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Andrea Shepherd :
me. that's me. I'm anxious and ended things with an avoidant. I couldn't stay bc no needs were being met. but no guilt bc I want what I want
2024-05-08 22:20:24
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mina :
I have an avoidant attachment friend, and we recently cut off ties—she cut me off. She didn’t even tell me the reason. Btw, I’m the anxious attachment friend haha.
2024-05-30 16:25:09
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Amy :
Yep this is me, I’ve cried too much, been crushed
2024-05-07 01:55:38
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Tam Survivor :
That was me. I broke it off. It took 3 tries. But he seemed sorry and trying. I felt like it was head games.
2024-05-12 01:43:14
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Chef Carti :
Seeing this two weeks after I left her...asked her to respect that boundary for 6 months and she found new ways to neglect me every week
2024-05-10 18:14:08
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Amy Jo :
One of the hardest thibgs I had to do.
2024-05-06 20:00:22
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reymartregidor882 :
the answer i need 🙂.
2024-05-07 03:23:28
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Kailah Grace :
I'm the anxious style person and finally ended it w my avoidant style person, and immediately afterwards met my soulmate 💗 Finally making the harder, right, decisions for myself and paying off ✨
2024-05-09 20:27:26
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Alen :
🥰🥰🥰🤝👍
2024-08-31 14:30:57
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KyKashi671 :
The timing of this video is spot on
2024-05-06 14:00:47
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Ibeth Rivera :
Avoidants pull away DO NOT discard
2024-05-07 11:38:58
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🇬🇧 Soraya 🇬🇧 :
I was secure and became anxious with a DA. After many attempts to repair, I walked away and of course I was the bad guy. Please leave these people alone
2024-05-06 14:36:39
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Afaf :
it's been a year and half & i still feel emptiness and overwhelmed because of how i tried really hard to a point i can't even take care of myself, i lost hope of healing i will try to live with
2024-05-06 14:54:04
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Lree :
I left and I don’t feel any guilt. Sadness, but no guilt.
2024-05-06 16:34:32
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pharcyyde2 :
When I broke up with my avoidant (countless times) every time he’d a) find me more attractive and b) BEG and love bomb me. He’d PLEAD with me to not leave him.
2024-05-06 14:04:52
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Kevin :
I’ve had to walk away after 6 years of trying. She’s the girl that can’t be loved 😞
2024-05-06 17:52:59
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𝓖eorgia🌙 :
Can you please talk more about anxious attachment I wanna grow on me I think I’m one and how you talk and say about avoidant can you do more videos on anxious to understand both and me please
2024-05-06 16:39:37
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Rachel Mohler :
This is so true 😭 I feel horrible I just couldn’t take it anymore
2024-05-06 16:21:17
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Stampede Coffee Company :
Thank you brother I have been struggling with leaving her.
2024-05-06 16:15:52
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Colette Edwards869 :
Coach Ryan your very good at explaining these relationships and have helped me so much. Thank you.
2024-05-06 16:03:56
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ingajjj :
I did it yesterday... I made a decision. And yeah , I feel guilty but enough is enough
2024-05-14 05:41:25
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Penny :
THIS. Nailed it once again.
2024-05-07 00:39:47
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AmyMichelle.P :
I ended mine last night for my sake.
2024-05-06 20:02:34
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America777 :
My avoidant keeps going all over the place and I had to put a stop. While I’m sad he probably doesn’t even care about me. It is what it is…
2024-05-06 18:48:48
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Kimberly Thompson :
This is all true 😩
2024-05-06 17:29:20
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munchkin042 :
I’m the anxious - have told him to leave after 35 years of avoidance and cheating, I can’t take many more.
2024-05-06 13:57:26
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corey :
Maybe I’m more secure than I thought because I don’t feel selfish or like I did anything wrong.
2024-05-07 11:48:17
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Yakthungma :
that's actually what happened to me.i gave n gave n he just left me as if I m nothing when I expressed my emotional needs.
2024-06-24 13:39:50
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asdfjkl; :
The last time we talked he only said that he wouldn't make me confused anymore but didn't see any change so i decided to stop talking to him at all.
2024-06-17 12:42:35
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Mia :
How to set boundaries? We work together. We love bombed me, then pulled away when things got serious and he got scared. Also he didn’t want to leave his partner & the comfort of his life for me 1/2
2024-05-31 21:48:52
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France Gee :
Thank you for this.
2024-05-18 12:26:00
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E :
Please make a video for avoidants and how they are with the sex at the intimate monogamous relationships
2024-05-17 17:29:31
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urfavgirl✨ :
Thank you for this. This is me being anxious and him as DA 😔🙏🏻 u gave me clarity. 😌
2024-05-17 12:30:09
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Aaron Rodriguez :
me.. but after a few months I try to make up
2024-05-14 09:48:18
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Kim D :
Thank you
2024-05-12 15:51:48
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Brandon Pollard :
I chased her for 2 years. I walked away today. This video hits home and boy I needed it.
2024-05-06 21:43:21
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