when I graduated to avoidant attachment I realized it's still anxious attachment, but like "you can't fire me bcs I quit first!" 💀
2024-05-09 00:06:19
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♡♡♥︎ :
im detached if they like me more and anxious if it’s reversed 😍 it’s hell
2024-05-06 21:11:47
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kaylie :
i would PAY to have avoidant over anxious ik id feel like the cool one
2024-05-08 02:17:11
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lena :
only to realize it’s equally as tortuous
2024-05-06 17:53:34
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Sriracha Sydney🍉 :
It’s healing! You usually go from one extreme to the other in order to gain the balance of security 🙏
2024-05-07 01:02:06
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TheExperimentalEmpress :
doing this and convincing myself I’m the powerful one now
2024-05-07 00:55:25
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amber🤠🫶 :
hurt me so bad i became him😩
2024-05-11 09:22:26
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jenny ☆ :
disorganized attachment here too 😭 it's miserable both ways!
2024-05-07 05:04:20
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Tommy :
God damn it, I’ve become what I’ve hated the most
2024-05-06 17:32:31
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yelle :
you either die anxious attached or live long enough to see yourself become fearful avoidant
2024-05-28 02:45:14
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J.vxi 🇬🇹 :
Unfortunately I’m both so I switch back n forth so often you can call me a light switch
2024-05-06 23:30:32
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shhh :
avoidantly attached to friends anxiously attached to partners🤝
2024-05-07 15:32:35
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- :
How bout we all just get some good ol therapy? So we can fix our attachment styles and I don’t feel like I’m never gonna find love in this generation
2024-05-07 16:11:06
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jas✨ :
went from foaming at the mouth bc she wasnt answering to now NEVER chasing anything ever again bc it will come to ME when its ready
2024-05-08 19:16:08
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graveyardbbyxo :
Avoidant attachment then back to anxious when you’ve realized you’ve run off your crush by being a bitch trying to protect yourself. 🙃
2024-10-19 21:51:55
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kaylachilders :
yeah i’m cooked
2024-05-07 03:57:40
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V :
Sigh. Being neglected for so long = stay away from me
2024-06-12 07:16:47
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Olivia Martinez :
It is the worst. Especially when you find the love of your life. You start off as an avoidant and then when they make you comfortable and safe, you switch to anxious the first instance they make you f
2024-05-09 13:41:38
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ana🫶 :
happened to me 2-3 years ago when the person I trusted the most replaced me for no reason and I learned never to trust again🤗
2024-06-18 07:29:43
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MaryKate 👼🏼✨ :
Fyp eating today
2024-05-06 17:28:00
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Mei Bee :
I’ve always been disorganized, but I started out as extremely avoidant and now I’m anxious. Being avoidant makes you feels so much emptier. I’d rather feel something than nothing
2024-05-09 15:09:30
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☆ :
i’m at the point where it’s become unbearably painful to have to keep playing the nonchalant game like WHERE ARE MY FELLOW CLEAR COMMUNICATORS/GOOD FRIENDS AT??
2024-05-08 09:03:35
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