@stephanne221: Replying to @Steph the Attachment Therapist welcome to part 2 on how emotional neglect wounds might be unexpectedly showing up in your life! The healing process of emotional neglect wounds often looks like finding what appears to be very small ways that you are being nonresponsive and neglectful to your own pain and discomfort, and denying yourself the support you need to grow and heal. Being a relationship therapist, I focus on all relationships, to include the ones we have with ourselves. And what strikes me is how folks can internalize the way someone important emotionally neglects them, and in turn, then respond to their own pain with the same neglect a parent or loved one showed them. Which can feel wild considering how much they hated the way they were treated!! Which brings us to: what kind of relationship do you want with yourself? How do you WANT to see yourself respond to your pain and discomfort? This is your growth edge. #emotions #emotionalneglect #neglect #healing #healingprocess #SelfImprovement #selfgrowth #trauma #childhoodtrauma #scarcitymindset #healingtrauma #chronicillness #adhd #neurodivergent #disability #disabled #therapy #therapytok #therapistsontiktok #MentalHealth #mentalhealthmatters #fyp #foryou #adhdtiktok

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loubug19
allieoop :
Definitely need to know more about the overlap of emotional neglect and ADHD.
2024-05-08 00:22:52
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iliyalovely
iliyaLovely :
my negative inner voice is my mom's voice.
2024-05-08 02:50:38
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casskat96
Cass :
this also applies to physical pain. I'm chronically ill and pain is a huge symptom for me on the daily. and I often don't use any of the things I have to make it better. it doesn't even occur to me. I have had to ask friends and my husband to remind me to use the meds or topicals that I have when I'm hurting. it literally isn't a thought in my brain.
2024-05-09 11:10:35
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liloleyla
liloleyla :
when an item I need for my personal hygiene is almost finished, and I KNOW I need a new one, I put it in my shopping cart, but I can't get myself to order it, until it's too late and I'm out ofproduct
2024-05-09 12:34:28
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doedeedoe
DoeDeeDoe :
yes please, more on ADHD and Autism and emotional neglect wounds!
2024-05-08 00:45:01
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leticiamonet1
Leticia :
I was read for absolute filth.
2024-05-18 00:06:33
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turnberi
Erica Lynn :
Please make all the parts. This is so important. Being able to identify when its your parents voice in your head vs your own is a game changer!
2024-05-08 11:25:52
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kiffenly
Kiffenly :
I’ve turned my own wants & needs off for so long it’s been very hard to fix it.
2024-05-08 04:38:35
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jwolf_13
Jaime626921 :
Okay I definitely would love to hear about all three lol but I think the adhd would be good for the next one ✨
2024-05-08 00:35:33
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yellowindows
Yellowindows :
The call is coming from inside the house. I’m buying a shelf okay 😭
2024-05-08 03:53:34
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samanthakennedy92
Samantha Kennedy :
Got a new phone and the next day ordered a charger for my car. The previous one has been broken for MONTHS but I couldn’t rationalize replacing it 😅 progress I guess lol
2024-05-08 14:26:40
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awildviking
Awilda :
The shelves!! I'm speechless! I literally said the words out loud about a year ago(after loads of therapy) "huh I've never hung anything on my walls where I've lived before." is this why! 😭
2024-05-08 09:53:48
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peacefullyrelaxed
Charle’s Perspective 💜✨ :
Ugh, me with my laptop, it’s making noise and has a crack that’s traveling down the screen and is bleeding black yet it took my husband to say something for me to even consider replacing it😭
2024-05-08 03:12:13
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skiptomyloumydarlin_
Tati :
Wait, what if you have poverty trauma combined with emotional trauma in relation to use expired items??🥺 How does this affect me?
2024-05-08 02:00:58
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obsolescenteffervescent
obsolescent :
to be fair, expiration dates for dry medicine is designed to make the consumer pay more. like the effectiveness might fall off by a % or 2 but it might take over a decade for it to be noticable
2024-05-08 01:56:37
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_cass4ovo
Cass💋 :
C… but really all of them. I’m just here crying about how all of this is me. 😭😭😭😭
2024-05-08 02:21:00
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sarahkathc
Sarah Carnes🌵📰💜 :
D all of the above
2024-05-08 11:14:56
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kermitmaddie
Kermitluv🐸 :
Well that was eye opening 😳 my adhd brain 🧠 is exploding I suffered so bad abuse as a child it’s still hurting me
2024-05-08 04:28:16
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pattysuttle
Patty Suttle388 :
Now I know why I haven’t taken care of my teeth, or better clothes ect…..
2024-05-08 01:59:38
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twofoxesstudio
Kimberly Hutsal :
Yes to the adhd video. I see that emotional neglect wound in myself. I’ve been living out of boxes for years instead of buying myself a dresser.
2024-05-08 09:08:49
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lolingllama
one sleepy girl :
I always apologize when telling my husband something he said hurt me. he always reassures me that he's grateful I tell him so he won't hurt me again, but it's never going to leave me
2024-05-08 01:43:22
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monicaelizabeth706
monicaelizabeth706 :
Before you mentioned ADHD I wanted to ask about the overlap!
2024-05-08 01:05:36
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thegreatgaskey
James 'thegreatgaskey' :
dang it, Steph 😂 you busted me again 🙃 especially with the stacks and clusters of stuff 😬 I vote for deep psychology of emotional neglect wounds next. Thank you! 🥰💜
2024-05-08 02:34:06
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michelegreene985
Michele Greene 🇺🇸 :
Watching this as I stare at my mound of partially clean/might wear again clothes…
2024-05-08 05:45:07
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croissantbetty
croissantbetty :
HOLY —-
2025-05-29 19:34:00
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