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YEET The Rich!🏴☠️ :
What do we do in the case where it's their complex trauma making them react this way? As a man there's a lot of fear and shame that makes healing feel impossible how can I help as a partner?
2024-05-11 12:57:14
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Mercedes Andrews :
Omg, this!!!! I drove myself CRAZY trying to say things in just the exact perfect way. Nothing, short of letting him dictate everything, was ever right. Constant hypocrisy, but I was the difficult one
2024-05-08 01:22:17
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canvea 🇳🇴🇮🇸🍉 :
I actually started wondering if he had aspergers or something because he seemed to struggle so much with understanding me. So confusing.
2024-05-14 06:24:46
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brittsuewho :
I left a week ago, I still feel like I’m crazy. He told me I can’t articulate in conversation so maybe I should write him a letter. I was VERY clear, he just wanted to confuse me and run in circles.
2024-05-08 11:45:48
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beecoily :
But why are these people like that? It’s just so frustrating
2024-05-08 04:38:27
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Nekoeeve :
see my ex never exploded. but I spend hour trying to get him to grasp a simple complex till I exploded then he was like we will talk when your calm. it enraged me.
2024-05-08 15:53:33
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Lil'bit :
I even had my ex's hearing checked because he kept "misunderstanding" me
2024-05-08 10:20:49
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macc :
Parents do this too sadly :(
2025-02-06 13:34:35
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Kat Elizabeth :
this is so true. my therapist now repeatedly reminds me of my ability to articulate myself. 🥺
2024-05-08 15:27:18
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Sara Basgier Bolling :
circular conversations... the same things for over a year... didn't matter what I said, how, how many times, said I understood...round & round it went
2024-05-08 18:17:09
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t :
i wish we could get justice for the abuse they’ve put so many of us through
2024-05-08 01:53:49
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CrackDon McLeod :
is it possible that there are two abusers in a relationship? Because the deeper I crawl into this whole the harder it is to identify who the agresor is.
2024-05-23 10:39:56
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carol :
What if they made you feel like your questions were just assumptions leaving you to continually be the problem
2024-05-23 00:53:55
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Regina Phelange 👑🇨🇦 :
My husband is always listening to react to something so then I’m the bad guy, and it never feels like it comes to a conclusion. Last fight was two hours. One before that was 4
2024-05-08 02:19:35
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milksheikhie :
The worst is when they weaponize the use of questions to keep you explaining yourself in circles under the guide of “empathy” to distract from their apathy
2024-05-08 18:48:39
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Ms.Madera :
What if my mom does everything about this except for being abusive. Like deliberately misunderstand me, refuses to ask questions to clarify, and just doesn’t care about my feelings? No abuse.
2024-05-12 20:11:12
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Bryce_Quinnlan13 :
Omg yesss!!! I didn’t even know this was abuse until it was over. Talking in circles, I felt crazy. All he wanted was for me to say “ok you’re right” - not actual discourse or resolution.
2024-05-08 22:51:33
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user5431061913921 :
Thank you for sharing, I spent years in therapy refining my communication skills until I finally realized it was never me
2024-05-08 12:44:21
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Jessica :
I'm dealing with all of this right now and have been staying at my daughter's house since this past Saturday.
2024-05-08 01:45:42
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Dekko_licious :
Mom's too
2024-05-08 01:31:48
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JessleVessle🇵🇸 :
How does this interact with the power dynamics present in parent/child relationships? Does this change for step-parent/step-child relationships?
2024-05-09 19:15:08
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