@msjoymbakwe: Sometimes we can’t let children simply be children. For whatever reason, adult responsibilities are forced upon them from a young age. When this child grows and SPEAKS UP, we should listen to them and offer an apology if necessary - gratitude should always be on the menu. #fyp #parentsoftiktok #teacher #adult #community #africa #africantiktok #nigeria

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ironfistschair
Your mom 🇵🇸 :
parents' ego is literally the biggest problem
2024-05-08 10:34:02
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esgetitlord
Robbie :
parents don't like being told that they made a mistake or hurt you
2024-05-08 10:28:41
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mavethemum
Mave The Reader :
Expected to cook clean wnd raising your sibling and them taking ALL the credit.
2024-05-08 12:53:26
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bakyardboxa
Bakyard-Boxa :
Do we thank our parents for discipline and guidance?, some of us would be in jail right now without it.
2024-05-08 23:16:23
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_mochicorn_
Mochicorn :
Not only that, but they also be mad we’re talking adult to adult, as if we were not treated like for since the age of 8 💀
2024-05-08 12:58:42
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cal04de
caleb mac giollanaomh 🌚 :
irish parents do this too😔
2024-05-08 10:42:07
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linahmercy
Linnie🍃🍉 :
The mad thing is, you'll essentially raise your younger siblings and they'll have the audacity to say "Leave them alone he ain't your son" Then why have I been changing diapers and cooking them dinner
2024-05-09 07:20:19
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kvriaax
Ky ♡ :
When ur a kid you’re ‘grown’ enough to raise your sibling but when ur an adult your too ‘young’ to do certain things but when u start making money you’re grown enough to contribute like what
2024-07-22 17:59:14
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kittyeve52
Alliance 💗🧛🏿‍♀️ :
I'm the eldest daughter so l RELATE SO MUCH
2024-06-08 18:40:15
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oalexandra1504
Sandra :
As a child, I was convinced my parents had me just to do chores for them 😭
2024-07-09 17:57:06
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that.girlthatstol
JK :
the oldest siblings is a boy and I am a girl and the youngest and I am expected to know how to cook and do everything while my brother is just their
2024-05-30 13:08:34
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nkechi_vivien
Nkechi-Vivien :
As a first born I am mindful of this and I beg my first born to relax, I can do it but I now see it’s a natural trait as eldest seeing your parent work hard and want to help.
2024-05-08 13:50:12
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kimyah_mat
Kimyah_Mat :
I love my mother but I swear she has amnesia when I start telling her about all the chores I had to do 💀💀💀😂😂😂at one point I felt like a mum. I knew too much about babies at my tender age
2024-05-08 12:53:21
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healthy._mom
healthy._mom :
I was that child 😫 I refused to do that to my older daughter. it is never children's job to carry parents responsibilities.
2024-05-08 15:02:27
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thereal_mamabear
thereal_mamabear :
Yup my age gap was 11 months. Even in adulthood I am asked to still play that role. Both parents are now deceased and the younger siblings still act like I’m their parent 😒.
2024-05-08 15:11:31
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ebsnflows
Ebsnflows :
Or in the case of adultified children that grow into burnt out adults that subsequently experience ‘set backs’, their parents will never take accountability for their hand in it.
2024-05-08 10:54:26
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chiomaalade
Chioma :
it's the 'that didn't happen' for me 😂😂😂😂😂
2024-05-08 16:35:32
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iamarchr
Iam_EVA :
WE ARE NOT READY FOR THIS CONVERSATION!
2024-05-17 08:05:19
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_sweethelenax_
Sweethelena🇺🇬|🇹🇿 :
I thought I was bugging!!!! The gaslight is real
2024-05-08 16:01:05
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gna_xoxo
Gigi :
Yes 👏 It gets worse when their now adult kids need help with their grandkids and they don’t see the need to help them.
2024-05-08 14:34:49
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suenobong
MsBeccaaaaEno :
This was me and mind you I was only 2, 3 and 6 years older than the people I had to mother
2024-05-08 12:50:17
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nubian_silk
Nubian_silk :
Looool big facts 😂😫
2024-05-08 13:31:12
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shuttlebug2
shuttlebug2 :
so should parents not ask older children for help with household responsibilities? and occasionally helping with siblings?? especially if the parents are doing other things to better the family??
2024-05-08 10:53:45
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5lindss
lindss💋 :
waking my 17 year old brother up for school??? pls when i’m in uni im happy
2024-07-20 06:53:08
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firstladybella
+ ⋆. 𐙚˚࿔ bella876 𝜗𝜚˚⋆ ♡ :
This 🎯
2024-05-08 14:10:51
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