My bf life revolves around gaming, watching gaming videos, have groups talking about gaming, is all about gaming, such a turn off, I see him as a child, I can’t see him as a man. I’m trying to talk with him for 2 years but is destroying me. Never going for a gamer guy again
2025-05-01 09:27:11
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Nikki_watkinss :
It will never change
2024-05-08 16:35:49
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MK :
Spent 11 years with a gamer and he never changed. Wouldn’t have if we had kids either. When I started dating again, I wouldn’t even consider someone who gamed. It was insanely triggering for me.
2024-05-08 17:29:03
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Andrez Franco :
It would be over, that’s straight up incompatibility
2024-05-08 16:29:14
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Ann Johnson679 :
I married and later divorced a gamer. It was worse than what she’s imagining
2024-05-08 17:21:46
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schins5517 :
As a gamer dude, i appreciate when my wife likes to be in the same room while i play, but at the same time i understand that there has to be days where i spend time invested in her. Balance is key
2024-05-08 19:33:37
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Cpark :
If he plays 4 hours more than twice a week tho you def should be upset
2024-05-08 19:34:58
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SierraEllis89 :
This was me and my husband. He went from playing nonstop daily to time boundaries and he’s naturally repriortized as our lives evolved. Communicate girl! You got this!
2024-05-08 18:20:13
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emopastelblonde :
There has also be a balance. If you’re playing video games all day everyday it shows your partner where your priorities are.
2024-05-08 17:20:55
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j8728393 :
I think I found the only man that doesn't game. It took me ten years! Find an elder millennial folks. Do NOT date a gamer.
2024-05-08 18:35:48
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jezkuhhh :
I have a friend who married someone like this and was told he would get better after kids. Well, he got significantly worse with gaming after kids because he’s “stressed out” as a father. 👎🏻
2024-05-08 16:39:20
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court :
Yeah no the game is an escape from his reality and I don’t want to be with someone who has to escape reality
2024-11-29 23:05:01
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Yasmin🇹🇷🇺🇸 :
Definitely a dealbreaker for me
2024-05-08 16:45:01
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t🧚🏽♀️ :
If he wants to make it work, he will. My husband and I decided together on a “schedule” for when he can game. Yes he loves it, but he loves me more and he doesn’t want to make me uncomfortable
2024-05-08 17:48:32
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Telisa messer :
She should run! I’m 13 years in 4 kids and he’s still like this. I also still feel like he’s hurrying through everything in life to get back home to games.
2025-04-27 22:19:11
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Anna :
I used to do everything alone. Down to even grocery shopping and even going to Disney. It did not work out for us. All he did was game.
2024-05-10 21:48:00
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Heather :
it will always be a problem. I'm learning my lesson the hard way and now we have a kid
2024-05-08 17:27:19
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Victoria :
He won’t change .
2024-05-08 17:37:30
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Lucindabeth :
My husband only plays at night when both me and our kids are sleeping &&& it’s worked so well for us!
2024-05-08 17:39:13
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Julia K :
huge turn off even in a marriage honestly.they make it a damn priority
2024-11-03 03:51:43
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McKenzie Black :
dated someone like this, would almost never plan thing with me or friends but you bet at 8pm he'd be raiding
2024-05-08 17:53:29
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cyn ✨ :
It won’t change, deal breaker take it from me I married my gamer ex and divorced about 2 yrs later they don’t change. Leave babes ✌🏼
2024-05-08 19:40:04
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Jess, Chicagoland REALTOR® :
I was with someone who did this. I left because nothing changed. This is now plays a factor of who I choose to date in the future.
2024-05-08 18:25:11
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Fitgeek92 :
It's not even about video games. Some people are workaholics, gamblers... You can add any activity and it can be toxic. It's all about finding the balance. A girl that won't let me have a few hours to
2024-07-28 18:09:56
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Vadeem Khomenko :
I used play video game everyday till my wife told me she doesn’t feel like I give her attention so now I get two day out of the week for some video games
2024-05-08 21:56:55
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