@miahniycole: Reflecting on my 3 1/2 year journey of abstinence, here are four lessons God has taught me on so far ! š 1. Self-Control:True self-control isnāt just about resisting temptation; itās about understanding that just because something is available doesnāt mean itās right for us. Itās about learning to say no to what harms us physically and spiritually, and embracing the freedom that comes with it. 2. Emotional Regulation:As women, navigating emotions can be a rollercoaster, especially when it comes to relationships and intimacy. Learning to regulate our emotions by anchoring ourselves in Godās word helps us find peace amidst the storms, ensuring our actions align with our values and beliefs. 3. Patience:Waiting for Godās timing isnāt always easy, especially in a world that promotes instant gratification. But patience isnāt passive; itās an active trust in Godās plan, knowing that His timing is perfect. In the waiting, Heās shaping us, molding us, and preparing us for His best. 4. Self-Worth:Society often ties our worth to external factors like appearance or achievements. But true self-worth is found in our identity as children of God. Engaging in premarital sex can distort our sense of worth, but Godās love reminds us that we are valued, cherished, and deeply loved, regardless of our past. Through these lessons, Iāve experienced Godās transformative power firsthand. Each day is a step closer to the person Heās calling me to be. May my journey inspire and encourage you to seek Godās wisdom and guidance in every aspect of your life. #AbstinenceJourney #GodTransforms #LessonsLearned #blackwomeninchristianity #christianity #godlovesyou #christiantiktok
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Wednesday 08 May 2024 23:25:19 GMT
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Gabby :
Abstaining until marriage had me see men as well as myself so differently. Thank you God for clearer vision
2024-05-10 14:55:27
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Rawbeauty22 :
7 years strong and donāt regret it. Yāall got this !
2024-05-09 20:09:05
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Megane17š¦ :
Haha,God is really wonderful. The algorithm really corresponds to my life. š„°
2024-06-03 05:17:57
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Shakira Rogers :
Been abstinent my whole life waiting for hubby
2024-05-10 23:54:05
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Iamsugeike :
8 months in has been a journey.
2024-05-09 06:42:57
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JustFannese :
Itās been 10 yrs for me. I never intended to abstain for so long but I donāt regret it. I donāt feel like Iāve missed out on anythingš¤·š¾āāļø
2024-05-09 00:43:39
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Courtney Brown :
I made It to 2 years, repented and moving forward. Had to forgive myself
2024-05-09 02:13:24
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Charnet :
Recently broke celibacy after 3.5 years and I swear it is not worth it nor the spiritual warfare
2024-05-15 23:52:29
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lawanda :
this is true
2024-06-19 22:27:58
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Lou531 :
Everything becomes clearer, especially Gods voice.š„°
2024-05-09 06:43:20
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Clo :
2 years had a relapse now going on 6 months
2024-05-09 19:55:52
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user2186099929031 :
It took exactly 12 months for God to break a soul tie between me and my ex. Wen it broke my eyes opened and..
2024-05-09 19:02:55
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Mina :
yaaaas cone on self control! I abstained for 4 yrs and I met my husband! I got married last November and I have NEVER been loved like this before. To God be the Glory!
2024-05-28 03:56:39
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lovelylilcee :
Starting my journey as of today. Shared with my partner were on the same page. Newwww challenge š
2024-11-10 03:14:11
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Phambi :
5 months in and soooo grateful for deciding to go on this journey.
2024-05-09 17:04:15
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itsdarab_ :
13 months , still learning and healing !
2024-05-09 01:58:44
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Gem In I :
Clarity. Spiritual growth. Self control. Emotional growth! Plus I learned how to be happy with just me!
2024-05-11 03:14:00
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plantladybug2 :
Come on with emotional regulation!! This is a super power!
2024-05-10 00:07:18
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ShayAndtheCity :
I couldnāt focus because youāre gorgeous š„°
2024-05-09 05:09:06
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Learn With Legacy :
Iām struggling with āday 1ā like I keep putting off starting this journey.
2024-06-17 02:25:52
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PurelyDLeah :
1 year anniversary in 2 weeks ššš¾ idk how I was out there just doing that unmarried
2024-05-10 17:08:25
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Kelah Cash :
1. As someone who has always practiced abstinence, I don't quite emotionally experience the gratification of the before & after. I know it's a good thing to not have experienced the negative
2024-05-13 03:51:08
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Tshepiso Gaopalelwe :
been trying, how do you keep away from temptation
2024-06-07 17:33:49
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ABBM107660 :
This is so admirable š„°
2024-05-10 22:20:02
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