@dr.alinakastner: Commitment issues- let’s talk about it. If you repeatedly find yourself dating people with commitment issues then you need to start looking at the pattern. You need to ask yourself why am I attracting these types of people? What is it that I am doing? Do some inner reflection and ask yourself these questions. #commitmentissues #dating #lackofcommitment #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #reflection #commitment #couplestherapist #psychotherapist #dralinakastner #alinakastner
Yes, my commitment issue lasted for over 2 decades. Many hours of a psychotherapy and self analysis helped, but it was really really hard to "wake up" and overcome that fear of a commitment.
2024-05-12 11:52:02
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Jer Yang653 :
I do have commitment issues. I want commitment, but when I get it, I self sabotage and get out.
2024-05-15 19:04:14
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MangoPurring :
Nooo, problem is they talk of commitment and effort until all of a sudden they withdraw
2024-05-12 08:07:27
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diana katsarska :
All my problems in one TikTok video
2024-05-12 13:54:56
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daniellesdiary :
Anyway, this is exactly what I do. But I know I do want a relationship and I want to be intimate. Why am I still doing it to myself?
2024-07-08 02:18:12
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Ekaterina.🐈⬛ :
I feel attacked...😭😂
2024-05-11 08:50:11
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Eolk Inc. :
didn't expect to be attacked like this...
2024-05-16 12:32:27
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Farah :
So what’s the solution? How do we break the pattern?
2024-05-11 00:36:46
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Nataly de los Santos :
Wow, definitely feel the shots thrown. I have realized I have commitment issues. Thank you 😩🤣💆🏽♀️
2024-07-20 05:52:08
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Su LA :
Perfectly explained ✅
2024-05-10 19:19:15
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Emily Stone4240 :
No because he said he wanted serious then changed his mind
2024-06-18 22:05:12
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fuzzie_princess09 :
Oh my gosh, why is this true and then I run away from the guys who actually want to take me seriously
2024-06-20 23:28:14
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Francesca Grasso :
Exactly what my therapist told me last session. Well not whith this whole explanation, but she said: you’re the one with commitment issues 😳
2024-05-12 13:05:40
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🌻 :
Self awareness and self accountability are so important
2024-05-11 21:01:43
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Châu Thiên Kim :
When I heard that you attract who you are. Then i asked myself why the fork I attract commitment issue guys? 😳 Then I realized that I’m also the one who has commitment issue.
2024-05-15 14:12:28
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Ok_zoomer :
What if they did want relationship but their actions aren’t matching words. Is it being manipulated or commit issues?
2024-05-11 05:24:25
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Loyalty✨ :
This made me think a lot , but deep inside I know it’s true . But how to get rid of these commitments issues?
2024-06-23 17:46:51
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R. Felton :
I'd never be able to survive being married to a psychologist 😂😂 everything gets analyzed 😂
2024-07-11 06:06:25
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mooretofollow :
I feel personally attacked 😅
2024-05-11 17:00:07
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Madelyn Freya :
On the first week, they want something serious. Second week, something serious. Third week, oh I dont think I’m ready for something serious
2024-07-13 09:17:31
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saintcag :
damn. this hit home
2024-05-12 11:50:04
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Alessandra :
Wow great perspective. Why don’t we want commitment though? I always think I do.
2024-05-20 12:16:03
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CDR :
Amen girl 👏👏👏 spot on explanation. We all need a real reminder like this.
2024-07-02 00:50:28
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Andrea & Bobi :
What about the fact that I feel like I want to prove to them that I am worthy ? I feel like this is true but that game of me feeling like I need to fight for their love, how is that connected to my commitment issues
2024-07-17 11:40:22
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