@thematthewhussey: Breakups are hard. Really hard. Especially if you didn’t do the breaking up. You’re left with questions about your own self-worth. You punish yourself for your deficiencies. You retrace the steps of the relationship like a detective on a mission to find out where you screwed up. You wonder if (and even hope that) they’re in as much pain as you are. Some deep part of you fantasizes that their pain will lead to regret, and that their regret will reach a crescendo. And then, just like that, you’ll receive that 11 p.m. call, begging for your return. You know, the one where you get to tell them “go fuck yourself”? Or at least have the option to. Not only does this not happen, but you wake up one day to “the news.” Delivered to you by a friend, or just as likely, by some shameless algorithm on instagram that they’ve found someone else. They’ve moved on. You have neither the satisfaction of their groveling return nor the rush of knowing someone better is already in your midst. They beat you to it. It’s like going broke with someone because of a decision they made, not you, and then finding out that two weeks later they won $1 million in the lottery. You don’t even get the reassurance of knowing that at least they’re broke now too. Cue slipping into a sinking, woozy, heart-stabbing fever dream that begins not once you fall asleep, but every morning when you wake up. And so we meet Roy, the subject of our video today. Now you know Roy’s story. What can he do to wake from this fever dream? Let’s find out. Tag someone who needs to see this video.
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trxshalou :
He looks so broken. Those words of wisdom meant so much to him. ❤️
2024-05-10 21:32:09
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Potato :
so proud of roy for being vulnerable enough to ask the hard question 👏👏👏
2024-05-10 23:03:20
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Caleb Steinhauer :
The fact that a man came to seek guidance from another man is insanely brave.
2024-05-12 21:26:17
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SanFranCici :
Asking that question alone was the first step! Self awareness 💖
2024-05-10 22:31:36
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Dean James Beal :
Roy def showed strength in his vulnerability and Matthew absolutely killed it with the empathetic and inspiring wisdom. Awesome.
2024-05-11 10:44:38
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ashlie_christine :
“You’re not grieving the loss of the love of your life because that person hasn’t come to you yet.” ❤️🩹
2024-05-11 01:48:07
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patriciaberrios74 :
A standing ovation for this Man. That is HARD to do….and to do it in front of a large crowd….WOW! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
2024-05-13 20:28:09
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Holly Skinner282 :
thank you
2024-05-14 11:53:15
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Rick Murray :
🔥. Brilliantly said and hit me hard
2024-05-11 13:21:16
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David Sevigny :
I really needed this in this moment.
2024-05-11 00:16:51
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Roxxanne_O :
This is the very first video I saw ft. Matthew. It has stuck with me more than any other content out there. Love this!
2024-05-12 19:34:06
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BKEmpress1 :
Proud of him for being vulnerable and I hope he heals what is broken because he is worthy of happiness.
2024-05-12 13:20:43
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Mel :
Thank you! Amazing
2024-05-11 15:56:33
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Bobby Dunlap :
I feel ya, Roy! A great message 💯
2024-05-12 22:52:47
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Jadee :
we all need to marry someone as emotionally intelligent as Matthew 🥰
2024-05-11 07:10:02
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bo-evie :
Literally gave the analogy of the good news and example we have in Jesus in his answer.. it literally has pulled me out of so much negativity
2024-05-11 15:51:00
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LookForTheGood :
What if your adult child doesn't choose to be in your life?
2024-05-11 06:51:55
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Christian King 🐦🔥 :
El Roy que se paró en frente de todas esas mujeres para decir que tenía el corazón roto… ahí empezó a crecer 😊
2024-05-19 04:03:27
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Orlando Friol :
thank you 🙏
2024-05-12 01:59:41
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Wafty Charles :
It’s very rare I watch one of these videos and it truly resonates with me. The experiences we all go through, the loses and the heartbreaks only creates a stronger version of you! YOLO live it!
2024-05-12 21:52:44
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Katie Pitner :
What about the flipped…a woman with zero ego? I’ve already been through hell and back. M not challenging, just wanting to know how to get through it. As a woman.
2024-05-13 23:22:36
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Yankstime5 :
That would be the same question i would have asked! Thanks Roy! Need to hear this today
2024-05-11 16:33:52
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ismael3709 :
thats the shit you need too hear
2024-06-09 08:15:50
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almalarsen882 :
Mathew! Great way to answer! I’m sure this man went home feeling so much better. It’s true we learn so much every day and often is from broken heart.
2024-05-12 14:28:03
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Sweet blonde :
5/6 years and no marriage maybe commitment was the problem
2024-06-10 15:02:26
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