@dralexhoward: Could you be hyper-independent? Hyper-independence is often developed as a response to trauma, wherein individuals rely too much on themselves and avoid asking for help from others. This coping mechanism may stem from a lack of trust or fear of depending on others, providing a sense of protection after trauma. Individuals who are hyper-independent often feel overwhelmed by trying to handle everything on their own, leading to increased stress. Hyper-independence can also lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness, as individuals may struggle to form meaningful connections with others due to the reluctance to seek help or rely on them. . . . #childhoodtrauma #traumaawareness #traumaresponse #traumahealing #traumaresponses #trauma #emotionaltrauma #emotionalneglect

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unavailableuserone
Unavailable User One :
it's exhaustinggggg. been like this since 13 yrs old. I'm mentally tired. my soul is tired.
2024-11-06 01:19:55
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icequeengd
IceQueen :
Just don’t want to owe anybody anything. That’s why I don’t ask for help
2024-06-30 07:59:19
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t.h.elady
t.h.elady :
this can't be fixed who am I going to depend on if is not me. there is no one.
2025-04-16 02:05:21
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hale_m99
Hale :
I asked for help and didn’t get. After that they asked me for help again.
2024-11-21 15:25:25
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teaticketturtlelady
The Three Amigos :
If you live with someone who does nothing, you must learn to do everything yourself. I destress by being by myself. I will continue to be me.
2024-05-26 21:15:17
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ricekristi8
ricekristi :
You're awesome. Thank you.
2024-05-13 18:40:48
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mnsuper22
BillieJo K :
It’s me, hi…
2024-05-27 01:58:52
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lotsoberrie
lotsoberrie :
Problem is that people constantly let you down. Not worth asking for help anymore.
2025-03-09 10:00:26
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bunnyfamily101
Mummy bunny :
55. Was doing well till last year when anxiety lead to massive flatlining. Now numb and fearful daily. I dont recognise this person.
2024-05-14 19:22:41
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gulayaslan290
Aslan gule :
Really true
2024-05-14 21:32:03
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sazzalou9154
Sara :
I used to ask for help. Until I learnt it was about as useful as asking fire not to be hot, or ice not to be cold. Learnt the only person I can depend on is myself. I'm not getting let down anymore.
2024-07-08 21:21:16
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cerribooth
Ceune :
But when we do ask, we truly need help and then we don't get any help. 😒
2024-06-27 08:08:41
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jozo030
Jozo03 :
I tried asking my mom for help. Was told it was ridiculous to ask for help and I needed to sort these things out by myself. I'll stick to hyper independence.
2024-07-08 12:48:50
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quavonjones
QuaVon Jones :
Why am I learning more about myself on TikTok, than any therapist could😭
2025-06-11 19:26:00
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official_kd2.0
kdtoo_real :
I just don’t want it thrown in my face so I decide not to ask for anything from anyone and asking family for things taught me that
2025-03-07 16:53:39
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its.me.evi23
It’s.me.Evi :
Hey😅 it’s me 🙈
2024-05-13 18:58:49
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deldeccc
deldeccc :
this resanates so much with me
2024-05-13 21:21:32
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lizrandle66
Liz MJ66 :
It’s me 🥺
2024-05-13 20:16:52
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alized30
Ali :
I don't ask for help because I'm always getting let down. so you do it yourself
2024-05-17 22:28:14
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lesleyfindlay8
Lesley von stroodlehoffen :
ME it’s the let downs I fear
2024-05-13 21:36:47
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bnbpopta999
bnbpopta999 :
Terrifyingly on point.
2024-05-14 04:14:32
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mammag07
mamma-g70 :
This is so me ♥️
2024-09-12 17:25:47
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waynesteven983
Misty rose :
I'm very hyper independent NV ask fr hlp even while ill
2024-07-30 10:28:50
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catherine.68
catherine.68 :
That’s me for years iv gotten better as iv aged only because I can’t don’t it all myself anymore
2024-05-13 23:49:02
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kimmillard446
kimmillard446 :
I've helped people all my life. Just can't ask anyone for help. ie: Do things myself.
2024-06-03 00:03:37
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