@dralexhoward: Could you be hyper-independent? Hyper-independence is often developed as a response to trauma, wherein individuals rely too much on themselves and avoid asking for help from others. This coping mechanism may stem from a lack of trust or fear of depending on others, providing a sense of protection after trauma. Individuals who are hyper-independent often feel overwhelmed by trying to handle everything on their own, leading to increased stress. Hyper-independence can also lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness, as individuals may struggle to form meaningful connections with others due to the reluctance to seek help or rely on them. . . . #childhoodtrauma #traumaawareness #traumaresponse #traumahealing #traumaresponses #trauma #emotionaltrauma #emotionalneglect
it's exhaustinggggg. been like this since 13 yrs old. I'm mentally tired. my soul is tired.
2024-11-06 01:19:55
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IceQueen :
Just don’t want to owe anybody anything. That’s why I don’t ask for help
2024-06-30 07:59:19
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t.h.elady :
this can't be fixed who am I going to depend on if is not me. there is no one.
2025-04-16 02:05:21
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Hale :
I asked for help and didn’t get. After that they asked me for help again.
2024-11-21 15:25:25
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The Three Amigos :
If you live with someone who does nothing, you must learn to do everything yourself. I destress by being by myself. I will continue to be me.
2024-05-26 21:15:17
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ricekristi :
You're awesome. Thank you.
2024-05-13 18:40:48
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BillieJo K :
It’s me, hi…
2024-05-27 01:58:52
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lotsoberrie :
Problem is that people constantly let you down. Not worth asking for help anymore.
2025-03-09 10:00:26
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Mummy bunny :
55. Was doing well till last year when anxiety lead to massive flatlining. Now numb and fearful daily. I dont recognise this person.
2024-05-14 19:22:41
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Aslan gule :
Really true
2024-05-14 21:32:03
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Sara :
I used to ask for help. Until I learnt it was about as useful as asking fire not to be hot, or ice not to be cold. Learnt the only person I can depend on is myself. I'm not getting let down anymore.
2024-07-08 21:21:16
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Ceune :
But when we do ask, we truly need help and then we don't get any help. 😒
2024-06-27 08:08:41
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Jozo03 :
I tried asking my mom for help. Was told it was ridiculous to ask for help and I needed to sort these things out by myself. I'll stick to hyper independence.
2024-07-08 12:48:50
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QuaVon Jones :
Why am I learning more about myself on TikTok, than any therapist could😭
2025-06-11 19:26:00
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kdtoo_real :
I just don’t want it thrown in my face so I decide not to ask for anything from anyone and asking family for things taught me that
2025-03-07 16:53:39
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It’s.me.Evi :
Hey😅 it’s me 🙈
2024-05-13 18:58:49
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deldeccc :
this resanates so much with me
2024-05-13 21:21:32
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Liz MJ66 :
It’s me 🥺
2024-05-13 20:16:52
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Ali :
I don't ask for help because I'm always getting let down. so you do it yourself
2024-05-17 22:28:14
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Lesley von stroodlehoffen :
ME it’s the let downs I fear
2024-05-13 21:36:47
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bnbpopta999 :
Terrifyingly on point.
2024-05-14 04:14:32
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mamma-g70 :
This is so me ♥️
2024-09-12 17:25:47
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Misty rose :
I'm very hyper independent NV ask fr hlp even while ill
2024-07-30 10:28:50
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catherine.68 :
That’s me for years iv gotten better as iv aged only because I can’t don’t it all myself anymore
2024-05-13 23:49:02
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kimmillard446 :
I've helped people all my life.
Just can't ask anyone for help. ie: Do things myself.
2024-06-03 00:03:37
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