Jimmy Knowles
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SuspiciouslyOrdinary :
I like set boundaries like this and the narcissist told my entire family I was weaponizing my therapy against them. 🙂
2024-05-18 13:14:40
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LouLou :
If you go no contact with a narcissist they will tell everyone it was their idea because you’re now the villain in their story. It’s a game I like to let them win.
2024-05-18 13:57:39
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Ami :
Went no contact. Also knew my family enough to know they would call the cops once I did. Went to the cops first in person and explained the situation. An hour later the chief called me back (1)
2024-07-08 21:22:04
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Julia :
I think one of the reasons people have a hard time with this is an unspoken understanding there will be violence or retaliation if they don't take abuse from the narcissist.
2024-05-18 20:38:04
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JeremyC :
I can admit I am a narcissist and I sincerely want help with this issue. I didn’t even realize I was doing these things. I’m seeking counseling through church and other means.
2024-06-27 09:42:07
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Tab :
leaving doesn't work. they attack back. narcissist can't be reason with. I dated one for 6 years.
2024-05-21 12:22:25
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hanna :
Can you make a video that explains in a way that is targeted to the narcissist? I want to explain this to my mom, but I know that the narcissism label will be the only part she focuses on....
2024-05-19 00:56:40
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NadineBaugh :
You can set all the boundaries you want but a true narcissist will trample them everytime. Even when going no contact, the narcissist will cross that line time and time again.
2024-06-27 01:33:44
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ananpinn :
Good video 🥰🥰🥰🥰
2024-07-02 07:39:21
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Jimmy Knowles :
Some people won’t let you leave the room during a conflict, that’s a really big deal and most likely a crime :(
2024-05-18 12:47:57
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Michael Saltamachia :
just had to do this to my mom for the second time!
2024-05-18 19:18:51
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ᵀᴴᴱ Ｉｎｓｐｉｒｅｄ 🌷 Ｗｏｍａｎ :
I tried this today! It worked! I told him if he continued to speak to me that way, I was leaving for the day and taking our son with me (it was about our son)
2024-05-19 21:06:51
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kimnelson152 :
So I did that. I told my (ex) husband if he does xyz again, I am going to go upstairs or sit somewhere else. When I did get up and move and that’s when the verbal abuse started, I was a b… an as..hol.
2024-06-07 00:15:18
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morninglistens :
holding my boundaries with my narcissistic ex is when he got dangerous. when he wouldn't get the reaction he wanted he would call my mom, the cops, or reach for a 🔫
2024-05-19 12:45:51
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Savannah Pickup :
what about when a woman falls in love with a man who has been emotionally abusive but they use their mental health as an excuse for their behavior say they love you and cry about their actions
2024-06-17 13:59:14
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Brittiney Selby :
But then you’re punished for setting the boundary and having the action. For example I’m leaving the conversation…. They follow you around the house screaming… you leave the house… they turn off your
2024-07-05 01:15:49
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🎷✨Regina✨❤️ :
LMAO oh honey. If I tell my dad something bothers me a.k.a. boundary, he will devote his entire life to doing that thing repeatedly all day every day. He will do that thing on Xmas and my birthday.
2024-05-18 14:47:24
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Blahblahblah :
Had to do that with my dad... been no contact essentially my whole adulthood and him not breathing down my neck like he did for 5 years def helps...
2024-05-20 10:04:50
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Stark Raving :
You can set boundaries by leaving the room for 30 minutes when they call you names, but they will find creative ways to punish you for having done that. Always escalating. Always keeping score.
2024-05-19 19:53:56
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JennaBenna :
I'm not allowed to walk away to calm down. if I try to, it starts a whole new fight, or he just follows me wherever I go.
2024-06-13 13:07:25
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Trinidad Faith :
except I always get told this is an ultimatum, and that their boundary is that they don't deal with ultimatums
2024-06-21 14:49:10
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𝕿𝔞𝖞𝔩𝖔𝔯 🖤 :
When you leave for 30 minutes bc a boundary has been crossed and they act like you’re the angry one for leaving 🫠
2024-06-16 07:54:51
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Breanna Autumn :
This helped me feel a lot better about my relationship. I’m at no contact right now and trying to move on but it’s hard to bc I loved him
2024-06-20 15:33:30
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MommaBear930 :
Narcissists don't listen to anything other than their own thoughts & expectations. I've spent so much time trying. No contact is the only way.
2024-05-19 03:27:55
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Penny :
I really really wanna know what to do in a situation like this when it’s a parent and they literally physically won’t let you leave
2024-06-10 13:55:32
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