@keith.crossley1: Those grappling with the fear of being left alone often set up tests for their loved ones, pushing them away to see if they’ll stay. When they leave, they point fingers, not realizing they instigated the departure. They say, ‘You were always going to leave,’ but in reality, their own actions brought their deepest fear to life. It’s a cycle of self-destruction that fulfills its own prophecy.
I just detach and leave before I'm left. Stay cold, Stay gold. ✨
2024-05-23 15:01:43
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💕cornsh pixie mel 💕 :
very true 😭
2024-07-05 21:00:37
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Dmichele 🆘🇺🇸 :
Abandonment issues are the worst
2024-06-17 17:28:24
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Laleyna Vail :
I’m just detached from everything and I don’t care anymore
2024-05-22 06:03:06
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nkathakanini :
We sabotage any situation that makes us comfortable
2024-06-17 19:22:42
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ClinicalInProgress| 🧠 :
My Ex 😞😞😞😞
2025-01-23 07:57:44
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JunkJournal30 :
I believe this is one trauma that can never and I mean never be cured.
2024-06-04 13:30:52
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Evabliss :
Exactly 👌
2024-07-28 10:36:03
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David Kowser :
You described my relationship perfectly. I adapted I adapted it just got worse until I had to quit and give up.. she never believed my warnings
2025-02-08 05:30:56
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spicy_lola5 :
So how do someone break that cycle?
2024-05-22 21:59:27
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Aurora 👑 :
it only takes a strong person to know how to date us and don't give us the reminder of abandonment. The overly confident, well communicating, overly loving man.
2024-06-20 09:26:28
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Harley Quinn :
Well....... this is why i've become the avoidant. Can't handle the fear anymore
2024-06-07 00:19:19
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itskiki943 :
In my case I just build walls when meeting new people bcs I’m convinced that if they see past that and make an effort to get to know me they might take longer to leave and be “worthy” of my time and affection ☠️
2025-02-02 11:45:52
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Hellena :
I do this. I also constantly leave and hope they'll follow me 🥲
2024-06-17 03:24:55
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Elizabeth :
Sadily thats me 😞
2025-05-09 01:23:12
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Nafisaa :
🥺🥺I feel so guilty
2025-09-04 18:56:07
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plebtoprincess :
Omg this is me 😭- how do we change
2024-05-22 09:12:23
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yourmomsbaguettesonmyface22 :
How do you fix it though 😭
2024-06-16 20:44:21
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MJ Collection@001 :
My principle in life is trust your instincts no matter what.
2024-06-18 17:06:55
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fitzy_blue :
i poked the bear for a solid 12 months. Celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary last month. The special ones stay ❤️
2024-06-16 20:28:13
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tratonlions :
If I feel home with it I don't have to pop anything because I fee it.
2024-06-21 19:18:35
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user2025 :
I am a poker 😏
2024-08-03 14:43:52
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Hotfuzzz :
He kept asking "Are you sick of me yet" and kept pushing me away. It worked eventually and yes I got sick of him.
2024-05-22 09:55:22
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Rania Pariyar :
he keep doing this for 5 years. 🥺 tired. i also have childhood trauma yet i go to therapy and doing my best to heal.
2024-08-06 03:38:55
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