@blackloveinc: Who’s side are you on—and how can we learn from THIS?! 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏾♂️ Cause, LISTEN!!! 👏🏾 …The debate is debatin’ and we need your input so we can go eat our lunch in peace. 🤣🤦🏾♀️🤦🏽♂️ #blacklove #blacklovedoc #bts #coupledebate #trickquestion #genderdebate #marriagecommunication #communicationskills #emotionalintelligence
ask the question you want answered? communication.
2024-05-23 03:50:11
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bohemiancam :
are we married to the same man😭
2024-05-23 01:42:22
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AbsurdistGrey❌👑 :
Come on...they want to know who you had lunch with obviously. Saying neither and nothing else sounds like a dodge.
2024-05-23 17:08:51
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Adoregabby :
Simple response, neither with Jake. 🤦🏽♀️
2024-05-23 14:02:10
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detroit.finesthp :
They don’t want to ask the question bc they don’t want to sound nosy. But they are nosy
2024-05-23 07:38:20
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Old account :
Asking Open ended questions vs closed ended questions. Ask the right question gets the information that you want.
2024-05-23 05:05:19
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Jay Jay :
it's literally a debate of conversation vs interrogation
2024-05-23 05:17:00
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Jay :
Logic vs Intuition 🤣🤣😭
2024-05-23 05:30:46
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Drew✅️ :
He knows how to answer, he just doesn't want to tell her. Then he will come around at a later time with a bunch of information about something she doesn't care about or ask about.
2024-05-23 21:37:16
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Kiara :
If she asked “who did you have lunch with?” he’d say “oh, a friend” or “my homeboy”
2024-05-23 04:45:54
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S.D. :
Say what you mean, mean what you say 😅
2024-05-23 14:27:22
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Discover Your Gift🎁✊🏿🦁🍴⚓️❌ :
The fact that she thought he was insame is why it makes sense to stay single.
2024-05-23 14:13:29
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JWP28 :
Why does he have to “interpret” what you mean? Just ask the question that you want know the answer to!
2024-05-23 02:33:03
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Shaun_Wick :
Ask the question you want the answer to. 🤷🏾♂️
2024-05-23 01:06:34
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the.danie :
Any other time people can answer the unasked question lol. But SOON as you ask or imply you want to know who they were with, they arguing the semantics lol 🙄
2024-05-23 01:17:36
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Seymore Persey :
Simply ask the direct question....whatever you ask will get you a very simplistic answer..that's it...no more no less!
2024-05-23 12:14:39
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Carmen :
Everyone is saying ask the question directly but what happens when he responds “a friend” and I still am back to the OG question 😭 listing/guessing names!
2024-05-23 04:57:17
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Combatsailor :
There’s a difference between asking:“So you know what time it is?” and “What time is it?” The first is a yes or no question.
2024-05-23 11:41:26
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JFoldgers :
That’s internationally being obtuse. Esp if that’s naturally the next question asked.
2024-05-23 15:19:08
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Chinamike_ :
He is right just ask
2024-05-23 11:10:33
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Love_Talks LLC :
Husbands are so STRESSFUL🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
2024-05-23 07:17:05
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Joseph Harvey :
it's wild this has to be explained..
2024-05-23 14:52:34
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NatashaTash960 :
Say what you mean and mean what you say.
2024-05-23 11:26:03
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strwbrry8987 :
🙄🙄 She really did ask that tho.
2024-05-23 04:42:39
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Calico :
They’re both right lol
2024-05-23 02:17:47
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Philly Boy 616 :
He gave a very lawyerly response to her question.
2024-05-26 17:22:43
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kimmiepoo :
You know I'm fishing so just give up the answer. 😂😂
2024-05-23 01:32:39
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Laura Ashley :
😒 the frustration
2024-05-23 01:09:59
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Solo :
Why does it matter who he had lunch with?
2024-05-23 13:17:23
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Chef Khari :
Just ask a direct question.
2024-05-23 13:03:21
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Nadia :
Im the man
2024-05-23 04:07:08
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Iyonna Jones :
I get that ppl want to make this an “indirect question” however to act like the partner isn’t withholding information is insane… if I have to watch how I ask this question I don’t want you
2024-05-23 14:53:24
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Gerren Sprauve :
This is still a classic. 😂 May this vid live on FOREVER!!!!!!! 😖😖😖 “BUT YOU’RE NOT!!!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
2024-05-23 11:02:31
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HumanExperience626 :
Lmao, this only works with like minded people! Cuz if he said neither, I'm asking - oh so who you go with then? 😂😂
2024-05-24 02:14:32
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FLYSports :
Telling the truth while avoiding the truth is a lie. A person not asking the exact right question doesn’t mean that you don’t understand what they’re asking. It’s intentional and manipulative.
2024-05-23 18:04:56
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ELaw :
They bs’ing unless they’re on the spectrum. Any of my guys if I did that they say nah I had lunch with whoever that persons name is. Most Men aren’t oblivious like. They know social cues.
2024-05-23 15:22:54
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Jason Long :
The point I see being missed is while someone MAY know what you want to know if you’re not specific you risk not getting what you want.
2024-05-23 13:15:54
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Who Knows :
I have ADHD so you may get either too much information or not enough information depending on the day
2024-05-23 12:52:45
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reset the world :
assume vs asking is insane
2024-05-23 12:47:21
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CockyMF :
Let's be real. She don't want to ask cause she don't want to be seen as nosey WHILE BEING NOSEY.
2024-05-23 03:12:07
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Lineh_nyc 🇯🇲 🇨🇺 :
I don't do "let's interpret the question" I'm a straight shooter. Why do I keep getting men that think like the women inside of men who think like the men. Ask me the question you want to know the answer to. I'm on the the husband's side.
2024-05-23 02:50:02
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Mrs. JNikole 🍒 :
But then you feel interrogated and start getting defensive if I do ask the questions the way you say you want 🙃
2024-05-23 01:42:52
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Old account :
@SPENCER I’d like to hear your take on this lol?
2024-05-24 12:42:42
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Kjay4prez24 :
It’s not like he’s wrong but sometimes you have to know your partner lmao 🤣
2024-05-23 16:50:52
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conw77 :
We need to increase the prices of podcast equipment….
2024-05-23 15:43:28
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Screaming_Silently09 :
I see all sides here 😂😂😂
2024-05-23 15:04:04
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Patrice W. :
While I understand direct communication is proper, why do they act as if they don't know what we're conversing? They are selective communicators.
2024-05-23 13:31:48
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