@stephanne221: Emotional neglect wounds are a reflection of the relationship that we have with ourselves. This relationship to our needs was role modeled by influential attachment figures in our life (parents, grandparents, teachers) and we learned to internalize it. We then grow up to be adults who respond to our own needs by attacking them, thus working AGAINST ourselves. This just so happens tends to breed a lot of self-hatred :/ Thankfully, this is a workable process. Meaning, it doesnt always have to be this way :) follow along if you want to heal your emotional neglect wounds 🤍 #adhd #disability #chronicillness #neurodivergent #emotionalneglect #neglect #healing #healingprocess #HealingJourney #attachmentstyle #therapy #therapytok #therapist #trauma #childhoodtrauma #cptsd #ptsd #SelfImprovement #selfgrowth #neurodivergent #MentalHealth #mentalhealthmatters #emotions #fyp #foryou

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kimisjustokay
kimisjustokay (he/they) :
I am always afraid I am "in trouble" or "going to get yelled at" when I am resting, as an adult- just constantly on edge
2024-06-07 02:29:16
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hello_bucket
hello_bucket 🆘🇺🇸 :
I found that video so helpful. My daughter has ADHD and what you said hit home.
2024-05-23 01:40:57
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cybrpanther
🖤 Barry 🖤 :
This must be why whenever I need to do something, my brain always thinks of how hard everything will be instead of what I need to do to get it done…😔
2024-05-23 22:52:02
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igotstupidbitchdisease
Mahxs 🆘🇺🇸🏳️‍🌈 :
Ouchie 😭
2024-05-23 02:16:38
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ash.dempsey
Ashley 🖤 :
And I’ve spent 5+ years trying to reprogram my brain to talk nicely to myself and ask for help when I need it 😮‍💨
2024-05-23 18:42:12
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unplayabull
Unplayabull :
You explanations have helped me more than you know. I’m finally starting to understand my trauma and self.
2024-05-23 02:03:11
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adaron
Cameronaise :
I'm the divergent sibling, at almost 37yrs old, dude... when you said how we attack ourselves as adults, I broke down in tears. It validates my lifelong struggles of self-loathing TYSM 🥺
2024-06-06 19:22:50
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ladyhollyann
hollya :
Can you talk more about being "flooded" in middle of a task? what is that?
2024-05-23 02:11:52
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fabuouslyrandom
FabuouslyRandom :
I wasnt diagnosed until I was an adult. Now, I’m parenting 2 neurodivergent kids. Hearing this, I realize that I’m still doing some of the same things to my kids at times. Time to break the cycle. 💜
2024-06-03 18:12:29
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atair2958
Atair :
why is this literally me 3 (middles) of us are neuro divergent 2 (oldest, youngest) neurotypical
2024-05-30 02:13:20
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deathlesscat369
Deathless Cat 369 :
You just describe my childhood. 🫠
2024-05-28 07:48:32
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sameyeam9
Sameyeam :
I knew there would be more people following you eventually! your breakdown on mental health is soo comforting and understandable! love that for you 🥰
2024-05-23 03:38:05
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worshippingmama
614 garden mama :
Yes. I need help with this. For real.
2024-05-23 02:03:53
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elbereth_g
Starkindler :
no diag (considering it but...task paralysis/overwhelm ugh) but this is my and my brother to a T. it comes so easily to him! I'm 5yrs older and feel like the failed younger one all the time.
2024-05-23 01:50:52
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_..love.lee.._
love.lee :
This is so helpful as a parent to two kids like those you described. Good to reframe my support.
2024-05-23 01:21:18
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night_pheonix4
Heather Sandy-toes :
This visual is so accurate and helpful!
2024-05-23 01:14:41
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tinybloomco
Tinybloomco :
Can you teach us ways to help our kids practically in different scenarios?! 🙏🏻
2024-05-23 01:27:20
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user895234726
Vicki 비키 :
It's interesting cause my sibling is also neurodivergent and my parents (when i waa young young) never outright said i wasn't doing good enough, but i put the pressure on myself because i wanted to(1)
2024-07-01 23:03:34
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tabbcatt
Tabby :
My parents were pretty nice. My sister constantly said I was slow and stupid.
2024-05-23 02:01:27
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rojhae.damon
Rojhae Damon :
23,999 other people watched your video and resonated with it. Simultaneously happy yet sad that I'm not alone in this
2024-05-24 23:29:05
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nilsj0berg
✨Ashley 🌙 :
I was just diagnosed with adhd and this hit me. I have a really terrible critical inner voice because I was always made to think my mistakes made me lazy or irresponsible & I always wondered what was
2024-05-24 17:13:52
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kiffenly
Kiffenly :
Makes so my sense why tasks take me longer. I always struggle with how to start.
2024-05-23 04:56:04
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burnsmandalynn
BurnsMandaLynn :
what do I do when there is no one to help push. nothing but me and the same wheelbarrow.
2024-05-23 06:45:17
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al_e_uh
Ali :
This was so validating thank you so much 🥹
2024-05-23 22:46:26
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deerobz.official
DeeRobz :
I'm 28 y/o self employed, currently discovering I may have undiagnosed ADHD. it's super hard, I do a lot of the things that you've shown in your video. I've been self medicating with (MJ 🍁) for....
2024-05-28 05:20:49
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