@tshepi_loves_food: Please help me understand because I’m not trying to be one of them 😒 #bullys #middleagedwomen #middleage #relatable #fyp #bullying #workplacebullying #bully
😁 ill be honest , its an observation we've made. the married ones in healthy relationships are usually chilled. the single ones make hell for us. 💀
2024-05-24 06:41:55
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Tshidi :
I’m 38 and I see this a lot from my friends compèring themselves to ma 2000 and I’m like these are our kids haibo. That time we old and even if we look young but the fact is we Old
2024-05-27 11:36:15
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STHANDWA🤍 :
I think it's early menopause, and lack of intimacy or companionship😏,even nakuthina ma early 30's we are very angry 😩
2024-05-23 10:05:57
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Nomthandazo Ndumo :
they settles, they have not lived the life they wanted to live..
2024-05-25 18:58:19
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Kimmy :
I don't think it's an age thing, It's a personality thing.
2024-05-23 17:25:26
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nosipho dlamini :
They realise that they've been lied to in all the aspects of life. 😩😂
2024-05-23 10:17:22
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Sesame :
I’m 38 corporate, I’ve observed what you are talking about. I think it’s a case of personality, and I really believe it stems from childhood traumas.
2024-05-24 02:41:28
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yaxym :
Ama 70s and 80s... Thina ma 90s let's do better please
2024-05-23 17:26:17
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Pretty_Bird :
The middle aged women in my workplace are so amazing🥺 I look up to them… So kind, so gracious, so God fearing… I wanna be like that in middle age and I’m grateful for them.
2024-05-24 08:57:43
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BonganiD🐺 :
Single is a big factor
2024-05-24 07:39:26
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MelyMel 🇿🇦👸🏾 :
I'm 38 and I can say it's a personality thing. Jealousy cos you're young and doing well,bitterness cos life has dealt with them..nje they are people that are just like that
..MEAN AND ANGRY!
2024-05-24 07:38:31
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UCebile-maZulu🌻🐆🌸 :
it's not age. it's their character nenhliziyo embi of undermining and babying. not mothering because that would be from love
2024-05-24 00:32:55
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disco285 :
At that age those 🧬 genes tsa boloi diyatlhagella😭, kedi apprentice, then haere boma 60, gwa nyewa!! baresotla masigu.
2024-05-28 03:30:51
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Asante Sana🙂🌼 :
I'm 40 and had an old bully too. my observations shows me that it might also have to do with childhood traumer and area where they stay or grew up. so it's personality. I don't do it, I'm the oposit
2024-05-24 11:27:44
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Faithfundi_therealtor :
They are projecting, tell them off!
2024-05-24 16:11:00
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Patty love :
it's not all of us it mostly the unmarried ones
2024-05-25 18:31:37
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Makgxnagalx :
It’s called patriarchy baby. Spent their whole lives being groomed, having to play small and humble but still work twice as harder, belittled, serve and please the patriarchy, never appreciated
2024-05-23 10:26:50
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Xaara :
They also feel threatened by the younger women
2024-05-23 10:09:34
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Matshediso :
They realise that when they were YOUR age, they didn't have half the things you have. They project their insecurities on us! #MyExperience👏
2024-06-19 06:47:14
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Tsoo :
iam 50 .it's a personality😳
2024-05-24 15:47:20
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J❤️Y :
I consciously refuse to be that woman towards younger women! I know women who do
2024-05-24 12:09:16
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Natz :
Maybe you just intimidated by them because you don't feel confident and they have wisdom.
2024-05-29 13:06:45
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Mlu :
Because no one wants to call them to order , they in turn think it’s ok
2024-05-24 10:46:22
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Boske :
Women are just a problem in so many places hey, they don't want peace yoh
2024-05-24 05:23:41
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miemie_eee :
They hate you even more when they can see you’re smarter than they were while their young
2024-05-23 23:22:07
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Lucas Lml-nbf Ranama :
Even men
2024-05-23 09:25:36
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Musa Mofokeng151 :
the ones not married are even worse!
2024-05-27 09:21:36
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MaMshengu❤️👑 :
Especially when they are in leadership positions.
2024-05-25 15:02:46
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villy038 :
you are so beautiful shame
2024-05-24 09:43:10
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Malumekazi la_Gama :
It's a personality problem, it's not like they were nice people when they were young. I'm 32, I couldn't even bother myself abt mothering a full grown adult, even teenagers anginendaba nje nabo bandla
2024-05-24 08:32:50
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Maphangwa Tshifhiwa :
Mjolo nyising prople and responsibilities so yah neh maybe that can be a reason
2024-05-24 04:38:32
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Sewela_N :
It’s not an age thing, it’s a character thing
2024-06-25 06:17:10
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Phakama :
Lonelyness is not for the week at the sametime tiredness play a role 😂😂😂
2024-05-25 23:41:06
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Mathapelo Neluvhalani :
they dont want to age...and they cant see how blessed they are!!
2024-05-25 22:19:38
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nokuthulakhumalo288 :
You get to live the life they can only dream of and abanye babekezele bad marriages, so basically it's unhappy people. Trust me, happy people don't bully anyone 🤞.
2024-05-24 12:10:28
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Bosso_M :
Ke cerebos😂😂😂
2024-05-24 06:23:36
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Marci :
Men on pause 🤣
2024-05-23 23:44:55
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Snelisiwe Baleni :
They don’t care anymore, they do and say whatever they want whenever. It’s gets worse as u get older, try talking to a 70 year old granny 😭 she wil roast u😂
2024-05-23 13:03:17
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𝕃𝕚𝕠𝕟𝕖𝕤𝕤 :
They are fighting with the younger version of themselves that they might feel failed them and caused them to remain stuck where they wish they could get out of… (my opinion)
2024-06-19 21:08:56
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Bontle ba Leago :
I used tell people that I know where I left my mom, to avoid being mothered🤣 they get so angry
2024-05-28 06:23:55
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TeeJay🇿🇦 :
Maybe they are struggling with aging,some claim it's a hormonal thing...Mara Nna ga ke byao neh.. I'm almost 47, I don't allow anything to make me reach that aggressiveness bcos I hate stress stru❤️❤️
2024-05-26 23:48:01
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Morongwa_S :
I think they haven’t dealt with their traumas
2024-05-25 15:00:32
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MpumeRom5v17 :
It could be motherly instincts Nana but the experience they have is not necessarily the best so it comes in a bad way. They just want to mother you but aren't perfect either.
2024-05-24 22:16:40
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Goddess :
Its the ones that are stuck in marriages they hate😩😩 my aunt that age single is loving life
2024-05-24 13:07:23
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$Panda🇿🇦 :
they have that "angesizwe ngawe" attitude 😒
2024-05-24 10:13:47
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queenbeeh :
Adulthood trauma.......
2024-05-24 09:49:19
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Babalwa Puza :
It's a generational thing I picked up before I turned 40.. Ladies be bitter and mean okare they are angry about you being young... I'm now 47yrs divorced and the most chilled person ever 🤣🤣🤣
2024-05-24 08:08:33
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Itumeleng Mothobi :
They let life pass them by in the name of being "ideal women", still didn't get picked and now they are mad at the world
2024-05-24 04:27:01
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