I get misgendered all the time even though I wear men's clothes, Hella baggy jeans, men's shoes and I cut my hair short. I only dress fem at home and idk how they get a girl from my name
2024-05-28 20:38:02
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Kaiann :
I think when people say that they mean if you haven’t met them before
2024-05-28 18:52:34
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lipton [📼👁/🐀🌕] :
(kinda) off topic but OH MY GOD I LOVE THE SKIRT 😍😍😍
2024-05-24 13:31:28
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Bee ♡ :
I think when they make those videos they're talking about meeting a stranger and misgendering them, not knowing what they identify with!
2024-05-29 22:02:00
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Shark_C0dy🌈🌴/🍋☎️/💭🏝️/🎭🌴 :
JUST WANNA SAY U LOOK AMAZING
2024-05-29 02:14:58
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crona :
me dressing fem because it's the only way I look good rn (it feels like most of my friends don't care that I feel like a guy most of the time)
2024-06-05 00:43:40
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Day 🦂 :
i think that for a first impression you would appear to be a girl, but you can just correct them and tell them your pronouns. But u need to know that it is more likely that someone can misgender you if you dress fem when being a trans man, thats just how people are
2024-07-10 17:41:04
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💫Noah💫 :
like would you misgender a cis man who dresses feminine just cus he wants to? probably not unless you're homo/transphobic
2024-05-23 19:15:30
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Eden :
I like wearing long skirts, i let my hair grow and often have it in ponytails bc it's cute, I can't really blame people for misgendering me atp
2024-05-23 17:02:10
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⦻ OL1VER !! :
YOUR SO ABAHSGAODHGSJABSJSJSJS
2024-05-28 18:58:35
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🇵🇱🏳️⚧️ :
if you were actually trans, gender dysphoria wouldn't allow you such behaviour. trender spotted
2024-05-23 20:10:22
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Snapdragon 855 :
it does not, but don't expect someone to get your pronouns right the first time, if that's what you're referring to
2024-05-23 21:08:14
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_Dazai Relator_ :
I would probably misgender a trans man who dresses in any way feminine just bc I wouldn't know if his preferred pronouns, but if someone corrected me I would use the correct ones
2024-05-23 17:07:47
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Orion's Tail :
as a trans guy. They didn't say you aren't valid they said don't get mad if you dress femme if you're referred to as femme. Don't expect to revolve around you. so I'll agree with those ppl.
2024-08-05 15:09:50
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michi !! ☆ :
yall cant expect people to immediately get ur pronouns if u express urself in a specific way, if u have soft features n clearly wear feminine clothing n makeup ofc people will assume u use she her +
2024-07-30 07:42:14
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✰Ƶαy✰ :
It’s the hair and makeup not the clothes
2024-07-05 11:14:44
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cato ⟢ :
I wanna dress like u
2024-08-07 00:36:55
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Zer0 :
I have a question. Does me addresing you as Him/His but thinking of you as a woman would bother you? I can use my words but thats not changing my mind.
2024-07-18 20:20:56
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LuckyAndLaggy! :
HELL YEAH BROTHER SPEAKING FACTS (plus ur hot)
2024-07-18 04:17:07
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☆★¡zzy★☆ :
omg i love the outfit sm
2024-05-24 13:21:45
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Remy :
dude you are STUNNING
2024-05-27 15:25:39
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evie ♡ :
people forget that some trans ppl just can't pass no matter what they do. some aren't able to fully medically/socially transition OR DONT WANT TO! that doesn't make their experience any less trans. &
2024-05-27 16:22:51
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★ ₊˚𝚅𝚒𝚔 :
People bash on trans people for enforcing "gender stereotypes", through the way they dress while trying to pass but when they don't, they judge too. Pick a side istg 💀
2024-05-24 09:13:08
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TherealClimber :
YOU LOOK SO SLAY
2024-05-27 18:17:36
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Alex :3 :
YOU'RE SO STUNNING AHHHSHSHSH
2024-05-28 05:32:24
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None Of The Above 🦑🐇 :
off topic but where can I get that skirt? also you're gorgeous and msi mentioned
2024-05-28 09:41:51
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Roroko :
Wouldn't you get gender dysphoria from looking feminine?? Like why be in constant pain when ya can just dress masc as a trans man nd feel already lil better
2024-05-24 12:01:37
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emik🌒 :
thats not the point the point is that ppl assume our gender based on our look so if you dress fem their gonna missgender you thats all
2024-05-24 10:07:01
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🎀⭐Leo⭐🎀 :
wellll i dont really think you should get mad at someone for misgendering you, only when you toldnthrm before
2024-05-23 17:40:59
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💅_Rowen_💅 :
People forget that Gender is a spectrum, clothes ≠ gender, Dysphoria can be experiences differently, Some ppl don't experience dysphoria but experience Euphoria
2024-05-27 06:38:57
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Senkuu ♦️♠️ :
You look absolutely beautiful bro
2024-05-24 16:49:49
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Marz :
I've genuinely never seen any trans man who dresses / presents fem get upset at first time misgendering n just politely corrects, these ppl r just grabbing at NOTHING to justify being transphobic 😭
2024-05-25 16:25:09
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Maggot ;p 🌈♾️ :
ok I agree with you n all but Im more focused on the video. CUZ WDYM YOU CAN WEAR A SKIRT WITH PANTS AND ACTUALLY LOOK GOOD IN IT??!! THIS IS AN ABSOLUTE GAME CHANGER FOR ME. ALSO YOU LOOK GORGEUS ❤️
2024-05-23 19:43:38
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SCP-Zallee :
SIR YOU LOOK STUNNING!!!! I LIVE YOUR OUTFIT
2024-05-27 21:56:05
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🎻 KARLLL 🦋 🌈 :
REALL LIKE LET ME SERVE.
2024-05-28 11:48:05
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Vero :
Life would be so much easier if people just stopped assuming people’s gender based of how they look or dress seriously
2024-05-24 12:17:30
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Butcher :
youre a female? if you were really a man youd dress like one
2024-05-23 20:06:02
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Azalea🏳️🌈 :
I think it's the fact that people get mad over others not knowing. if somebody gets it wrong just politely correct them. if they then choose to deliberately misgender them it's a problem
2024-05-23 18:32:35
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daylan :
creía que estabas justificando esas palabras y ya estaba re enojado, pero después leí bien y ahora te amo😋
2024-06-13 22:36:22
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Iris :
"would you misgender a cis man fro dressing fem" a fem cis man doesn't look like a woman
2024-05-24 03:43:52
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Alex ||🎬🔪|| :
real like men can dress feminine but trans men can't?
2024-05-28 21:08:36
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caraphernelia :
ur so handsome omfg
2024-05-28 12:49:18
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Ajax :
Them praising cis men wearing skirts and stuff but when it's a transman suddenly it's wrong
2024-05-28 08:29:02
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lacasa de papel :
Little reminder that the band from the sound is problematic
2024-05-23 18:21:20
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Lusia<3 :
Clothes have no gender 🗣️🗣️🗣️
2024-05-23 17:28:02
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Falafel [⌆] :
Yall clap for femboys and deny feminine trans men
2024-06-13 14:23:42
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robin :
i think it's normal to misgender a stranger if they present some way but identifies as other, even cis people could get misgendered, that doesn't mean your identity is being erased
2024-06-12 11:05:13
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his wife🍉 :
So true but where in the hell are u
2024-05-27 19:37:26
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Yoschicks :
I'm a Cis man and I can dress fem so why shouldn't trans men do it as well lol
2024-05-24 08:28:47
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🌹♡★♡🌹 :
i think you missed the point? isnt it about accidental misgendering?
2024-05-24 04:19:01
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jaystar_ :
If you don’t pass I really don’t understand why you get upset when people say what they see though(I understand if you say your pronouns beforehand)
2024-05-23 23:13:53
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Laurel :
My fear when I came out as trans ftm, I adore fashion and cis male fashion is .. ick
2024-06-23 21:08:29
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๑ Edward ๑ :
exactly, cis men be wearing dresses/skirts and its like "omg breaking gender rules🥺" but when a trans man does it its wrong?? likw hello???
2024-06-22 19:22:02
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VØID :
also have they even met actual trans people? often they're not even rude about it or like "DID YOU JUST ASSUME MY GENDER!?!😡", it's often more like " oh actually I use [insert preferred pronouns]" 💀
2024-06-13 06:20:45
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pop tart :
agreed BUT its human nature to assume gender based off presentation, it becomes an issue when theyve been corrected already but they keep misgendering you
2024-06-09 04:08:44
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that's so kawaii desu~!!! >:3 :
besides, most of us don't even get mad lol, we just correct them and then they get offended😭
2024-06-03 09:58:51
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