I love my man. 5 years. But I have avoidant tendencies + a lil anxious, & his temper going 0-100 during serious convos has made me 100x more avoidant w communication.
2024-06-10 18:22:47
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Design Brat :
As a preoccupied AA, so true I stick it out through anything!!!
2024-09-28 22:54:20
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World From My Eyes :
It’s wild. Iwas so secure until dating my avoidant. I’m finally beginning to feel secure again!
2024-05-26 00:20:30
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SNRLRI :
All over text of course, because having a real conversation is too much for some people 🤷♀️
2024-05-26 14:47:21
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rosieval_ :
Mine offered me a “beautiful friendship” after breaking up with
2024-05-26 02:22:17
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simon_girthy :
if you translate every DA's complaints into "I am a child and will make you miserable because of my own immaturity" you'll never be confused again
2024-05-26 04:54:24
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Pylledogge :
"I've never been much for feelings or love"
Right... Well Thank you for making me waste 9 months of my life 👍
2024-05-27 04:39:16
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Ashley Ray :
Wellllllll this is familiar 🫠
2024-10-03 04:29:15
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NeptuneDesigns :
yep! they get all mean and distant until you leave them!
2024-05-26 15:44:39
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Alex :
It’s crazy, I thought I was so secure until I dated a DA😂
2024-06-01 19:21:26
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HaroldCrick :
oh fun a play about my last relationship
2024-05-27 20:42:39
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ー :
This happened to me pretty much word for word. Do they ever openly feel remorse…?
2024-05-26 01:17:57
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Kyt :
“But if you start backing off at all I’ll also switch it up and start putting in way more effort… until you open up again that is”
2024-05-26 18:00:45
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E :
As a DA, none of that ever crossed my mind. I would only ever want to avoid talking about the things that I didn’t like because it might cause a fight. Id rather just dip. 🤷🏻♂️
2024-05-27 12:54:12
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mnc420 :
And as an preoccupied anxious attachment I will actually make you do the hard thing bc I’ve done nothing wrong so I’ll stay through anything 🙃
2024-06-21 16:09:54
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Julia :
But then when you do finally break up with them they beg you not to and say theyll do anything to get you back so you try again and its the exact same thing every time
2024-05-26 14:21:55
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Jessica :
Did they ever actually love you if they wanted you to break up with them?
2024-05-26 00:47:44
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Savvy and Cleo 💜 :
Is this why you guys just ghost? Is an avoidant someone who ignores their feelings?
2024-05-26 03:12:54
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lily :
I want to SCREAM ABOUT THIS
2024-08-14 04:17:07
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jefferiah34 :
3 year relationship literally ended this way… thought I was gonna marry her. But yeah, didn’t show her colors till it was too late.
2024-05-26 06:45:01
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christi.an :
the way this literally just happened to me 😗😗 after being lovebombed for a month
2024-05-26 17:49:54
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simplyrae23 :
This flared my anxious attachment like word for word 😩😒
2024-05-26 04:53:41
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Jordan Groat :
OK, I struggle with this very much show and I don’t know how I can fix it. What do I do?
2024-08-13 04:41:30
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Niningun :
Literally describes my last relationship so much. Except it was a Thursday evening not morning lol
2024-05-26 13:49:33
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