@thecommentssection: Am I insane for thinking this? #greenscreen #relationships #redflags

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falco4077
Falco4077 :
Typically, I see the differences between 1-6 months.
2024-06-01 19:28:24
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kalinkamarie
Colleen Burnett :
I was taught to approach relationships with marriage in mind. If that’s not how you are approaching them, then you are going to run into these things later,
2024-06-02 01:56:57
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my.tiktok.user
my.tiktok.user :
Check back in 2 years
2024-06-04 08:25:12
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brandon.ericson
Brandon :
I feel like that chart is more geared to teenagers and kids in their early 20s lol
2024-06-01 18:43:52
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bemusing
Bemusing :
There are things you can't know until you live together and see the person day in and day out.
2024-06-02 14:27:18
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jrbaxter6
J.R 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇬🇧 :
3 month rule. you should know your differences around then. then make a decision if they are worth putting up with. only one of my relationships got past 3 months. and he's now my husband.
2024-06-03 08:49:55
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drwreckerr
Mick :
Not wrong. That's what the talking stage and going on dates are for
2024-06-01 18:39:58
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omaj3012
omaj3012 :
My morhers best advice was..you know within six months if he is marriage material. if not don't waste any more time
2024-06-01 21:28:22
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xeflon
Xeflon :
Exactly, like 2 years is way too long
2024-06-01 18:52:10
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main_fg
🆘🆘🆘 :
Good video😍
2024-06-01 18:46:15
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cassgirlnto
Cassie Schaneman :
Oh my love . We never completely know your partner. This is completely right. 2 year and then 7 then 11. But pushing through is what strengthens your relationship. People change.
2024-06-01 23:43:13
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romerthegnomer
Romer/hermes🪽 :
My gf and me have so many differences and we love each other because of it ❤️
2024-06-01 18:40:01
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njapoet
Sam Pierstorff (NINJA POET) :
The seven year itch is real. Two year itch? There’s probably an ointment for that.
2024-06-01 23:15:25
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meganmcall5683
Megan :
We need to normalize talking about the big deal breakers early on. I think that's what people get too scared to bring up (kids, religion/values, home/work expectations, money)
2024-06-04 15:53:37
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yeis_oo
. :
Totally agree with you! 👍
2024-06-02 00:38:11
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doggolord2
doggolord2 :
Yeah no Fr, I know nothing about relationships and have never been in one but, yeah I agree
2024-06-01 18:40:48
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debraperry11
Debra Perry :
1. People like especially in the beginning. Not lie but force compatibility. 2. People evolve and people grow apart. It’s how you grow together in the tricky part.
2024-06-02 13:13:01
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laangelitalokita
laangelitalokita :
Married my husband after 8 months. All long distance (he was military and deployed and later stationed in a different state). We did a LOT of talking. Today is our 18th anniversary!
2024-06-02 00:30:09
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genuinely_jazz
♥ⒿⒶⓏⓏⓎ♥ :
This; my husband and I laugh that our first date was more like an interview. We talked about everything. Kids; house, retirement, jobs, politics, religion.
2024-06-01 21:52:52
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sour_patch_family
SourPatchFamily :
This new generation is crazy. If we ain’t on the same page by max 6 months then that’s when you should call it quits.
2024-06-01 19:54:15
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evogirl_x
Rev, Wrench & Escrow :
Year 2 I feel like is where you start feeling scared for commitment. I think that’s what it means
2024-06-03 14:46:53
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bluejayequestriancenter
Bénie :
As I said before & I'll say it again the key to a successful marriage is compatibility. This can be determined pretty quickly by being yourself, no games, & frank conversations. A PsyD Married 21yrs
2024-06-03 00:11:05
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berryman40
Berryman40 :
You’re not the only one you’re just a smarter one. 🙏🏻
2024-06-02 02:43:15
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heatherfeather115
HeatherFeather🌛 :
It took me 3 months to know that I wasn't compatible with somebody.
2024-06-12 21:36:55
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kaijasnicale913
Kaija Snicale33 :
they say you don't really know a person until yr 2-3
2024-06-04 09:33:59
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none_ya61
None_ya :
For the first 6 months you should be looking for reasons to end it. Also it’s hard for people to hide their flaws longer than that.
2024-06-04 06:57:14
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muttsnsheps
𝐌𝐔𝐓𝐓𝐒 𝐍’ 𝐒𝐇𝐄𝐏𝐒 :
I agree and disagree, to a certain extent. I wouldn’t say its differences, but more like.. when things get really rocky.
2024-06-03 10:19:58
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ksladybuggirl
Kayla :
Nowadays everybody seems to waste time.
2024-06-02 16:35:27
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skyspirit464
Skyspirit :
I would say right at the beginning!
2024-06-02 07:33:09
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thisismystory89
This Is My Story :
uh. did we forget what the point of a date is?
2024-06-02 01:52:02
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hmartin2465
hmart2465 :
Yes it’s before the I do. Not after!
2024-06-01 23:43:15
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beardedbuffbro
namesrgood :
No that’s definitely something you should know by at least date 3
2024-06-01 23:24:02
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justcallmeanxious323
Amanda B :
Yeah you can date 10 yrs, but once the marriage happens yr 2 and 3 real real. I’m 44…and hind walked out yr 15 🤷🏼‍♀️
2024-06-01 23:01:08
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solid60ish
Mike :
Before you're married is the time to determine compatability...
2024-06-01 20:20:22
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__treesus__
The :
I think her point was that it’s normal to think about and we shouldn’t feel ashamed or guilty if we think about it. That’s what I got from it
2024-06-01 19:25:09
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jwolfg
Jwolfg :
What a concept!
2024-06-01 19:07:58
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therosebloom16
Gina ⍲//⍱ :
Year 2!?!?!? Girl it took me less then a year with all of my exs. My husband is the longest standing relationship I’ve ever had which is just over a year
2024-06-01 19:05:08
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mack.telford
ΜaϲƘεƞzιε Ƭelford 📌 :
She said 6 months -2 year and I don’t believe she’s talking about basic differences. I think she’s talking about the things you don’t realize about each other until you move in .
2024-10-28 16:07:52
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tierbear34
Tierney L :
I wasn't ALLOWED to break up with someone at the 1.5 year mark because our parents were friends and they didn't see the issues...circle back year 3 and they FINALLY see it🙃
2024-10-16 22:49:38
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blaquerose55
Ty K. 🆘️🇺🇲✊🏾 :
Clearly she is dating wrong. This is my issue with the current dating culture. People don't know themselves and therefore struggle with qualifying (or disqualifying) potential partners. Smh.
2024-08-05 16:49:20
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terriasaysamowitz
terriasaysamowitz :
My cute single son has 4 first date questions… I think he’s wise beyond his 23 years.
2024-07-26 13:02:06
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avostiktok_
Avos ✞ :
Before u even start dating 😭
2024-07-25 22:20:18
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sd.owen32
SD Owen ❌ :
Men don’t want to date women who plan to break up with them every 2-years. Believe it or not, we don’t to waste 2-years of our lives on people when we know we are not compatible.
2024-07-10 18:30:39
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mrcrensh
mrcrensh :
you should know your differences by month 3. also the "normalizing breaking up with your bf" is stupid. you will NEVER find someone 100% compatible with
2024-06-24 16:46:16
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thenextjohnwayne
I am The Duke :
No you are RIGHT!! and also Correct!
2024-06-21 18:55:37
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heatherfeather115
HeatherFeather🌛 :
The first month was the best month, The second month started to get shaky, But by the third month I knew we were going no where.
2024-06-12 21:38:50
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