My last relationship: "You don't have to change, but here's what I need to stay." Boundaries are not mandates. But if you want to keep the relationship, best pay attention.
2024-06-02 01:19:23
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Amber :
mine just said "you'll never change". I'm filing Monday after 21 years
2024-06-02 01:40:57
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Jennie 🆘🇺🇸 :
I’m working on my exit strategy and I’m getting close to make my departure for me and my daughter. Your videos give me strength and help me stay focused. 💕 Keep em coming
2024-06-02 01:03:51
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Danielle :
ouf, I have done a lot of therapy and my partner hasn't, we're working together and I'm noticing a lot of things that I wish I had and feel like I'm doing almost all the emotional labor...it's hard.
2024-08-15 00:55:03
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ZaDria :
Mine says “you always bring up the past,” but literally did what I’m asking about the day before. It’s exhausting
2024-06-03 23:54:20
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audreygotobed :
i told a friend at one point when she was close to leaving: rn it doesn't matter if he's malicious or just incapable of seeing the problem. he's not safe. you don't stay if it's not safe.
2024-06-02 02:07:02
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Lala Day :
My covert narcissist emotionally abusive husband called me negative and said I worry too much...but it was because he ignored issues or procrastinated, or sabotaged stuff so things were always going
2024-06-05 14:54:06
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Joe Ferone :
Ok fair but then explain why after 3 years of dating do they would leave then go into a relationship a month later
2024-08-23 19:35:35
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John Gunn :
This one hits hard…12 years of marriage hard…
2024-06-02 00:18:29
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Jess AB :
Ooh. This is really good! ❤️You very succinctly put into words why I left my first marriage. I definitely was not without fault but I couldn't continue my healing journey in a toxic environment.
2024-06-02 11:11:23
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mogs 🆓🇺🇸 :
But how do I talk to a loved one struggling with this without them just feeling attacked again?
2024-06-02 11:34:22
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Tressa :
I'm on my healing journey and now I'm told that I'm ruining our home life by doing so. How's that for accountability?
2024-06-03 16:44:54
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bear :
I loved my spouse. part of me still does. but them refusing to do the work to heal was hurting our relationship, hurting me, and not only slowing down my own healing, but making me regress in my
2024-06-03 12:28:38
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Freedomgypsy. :
I always said I never kicked out my ex. I kicked out the abuse alcohol drugs etc. He just left with it. AFTER 23 yrs of tolerance.
2024-06-02 02:20:59
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frankie dangerdays :
they always got so upset and cried if i ever pointed out a way they'd hurt me, so i just stopped trying to communicate and make it work. if you're not healing, i'm not interested.
2024-06-03 19:11:50
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Sara Beth :
I took responsibility for my own life and my own happiness and left a toxic situation almost 9 months ago and I could never ever make excuses for another human like that again. 👏
2024-06-03 22:47:01
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nataly :
How do we navigate when that person is our mother? Her behavior doesn’t warrant no contact yet it’s constantly frustrating.
2024-06-03 17:44:57
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Donnielle Mondello :
Yep, my ex husband
2024-06-02 00:25:29
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