@elisemicheals: When we really love our parents, but we know internally, they have done something we see as wrong, It causes us to create a skewed relationship with what we know to be the truth. we subconsciously make excuses for their behavior, which only sets a seed for making excuses for bad behavior once we become an adult. in order to help completely eliminate the need to continue these behavior patterns that are destroying our adult lives, We need to be able to make peace with the fact that our parents are not the gods we saw them as as children. Learning how to love your parents for who they really are and taking them off the pedestal will only help you feel more freedom in the decisions that you make, but also in the way that you love them. for help with this, make sure to click the link in my bio to join our Betterman membership 🙌🏽 Elise #m#mensmentalhealthm#mensmentalhealthmattersm#mindsett#traumahealingm#menscoachi#innerchildi#innerchildhealingp#parentwound
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Sunday 02 June 2024 17:08:45 GMT
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Why are we here :
Eventually you become aware of their faults and thr excuses you made for them. Typically once you become a parent. Then become resentful. Going g through this with my mom now.
2024-06-02 20:43:44
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Bot001 :
Experienced that. Almost cost me a relationship with my partner because of how much I keeps making excuses for my mom and always dismissed my partner feeling. Turn out my mother is a covert narcissist
2024-06-03 08:38:04
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ChrisCraft85 :
Your post atd so inspiring
2024-06-04 01:39:14
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Jacob Faske :
Took me 40 years to see it and admit it. Some reparenting exercises really helped me
2024-06-02 17:48:12
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Sensation Master :
once I accepted the fact my parents would be better people if I were their parent I was at peace. they were dysfunctional but I know I could have helped.
2024-06-02 19:59:00
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ssamuel_son :
I left my parents at 20 ad they were toxic. Haven’t had a relationship with them for 40 years.
2024-06-02 19:34:00
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Hung Lo :
My ex parents cheated a lot. She followed in footsteps. Never had a successful relationship, but calls themselves a relationship coach.
2024-06-02 17:32:56
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btalkie :
Beautiful channel with healthy advice. Bravo
2024-06-02 17:24:34
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user6813171587108 :
Seems when we are young, we don't understand what our parents were going through! Realistically, our perception and our feelings are collateral
2024-06-02 18:08:51
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1WastedHumanLife :
I appreciate you allowing us to see inside your daily routine & life. Thank you for all you do
2024-06-02 17:24:20
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L a u r e n :
Bravo! It’s wild how ultimately everything eventually comes back to family of origin. But powerfully from applying Truth we set ourselves Free.
2024-06-02 18:10:27
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livfree303 :
When i became an adult, I didn’t rely on their protection.
2024-06-03 00:21:03
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MEH :
Sometimes there are excuses… that’s reality. They are living life for the first time too… nobody is perfect.
2024-06-05 03:11:09
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LordBanzai :
💯, went from Love to Judge, then Forgive & Gratitude
2024-06-02 17:48:19
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Bill Rose101 :
represented and well understood you covered a lot of the bases I got a lot of people go through and helps understand one piece at a time thank you🥰🥰
2024-06-02 22:54:24
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jennyjennjenn :
This is so spot on
2024-06-06 08:50:46
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Blonde Goddess :
Very true
2024-06-03 03:56:54
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moepar1 :
Hugs
2024-06-03 03:05:32
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tigerthom67 :
hi, have you contacted me via your back up account today?
2024-06-02 17:23:59
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JasonMichael :
My father “had an Irish temper” but would be super apologetic while hiding because the aforementioned excuse.
2024-06-02 19:48:17
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779311 :
No I didn't idolize them. There are things about them that I admire now. But they were abusive. Actually alot more than just abusive.
2024-06-30 01:12:54
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