@expatriarch: Replying to @lyman_80 Advocating for men and raising awareness about often ignored issues is great. The issue is men's rights advocates only talk about men as a means to disrupt and decenter conversations about women. Even the platforms dedicated to talking about men's issues only talk about the problems men face and never the solutions. The same people who constantly remind us of the incredible rates of fatal self harm among men, are those who deny toxic masculinity and the harmful masculine norms that are proven in study after study as the leading risk factors are anything to be concerned about. #toxicmasculinity #Relationship #datingadvice #feminism #positivemasculinity #mensmentalhealth #MentalHealthAwareness #thetinmen
I’m interested in all sides of this, but Tin Men has a large body of content at this point. Picking one to debunk is fine, but I’ll keep following him
2024-06-03 16:35:44
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🏴Nana89♾️🍉🐢 :
Excellent explanation
2024-06-03 08:45:16
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Lux :
Perfect!
2024-06-08 01:04:53
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PatrickJane&Co :
Facts
2024-06-03 12:08:46
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Jen Wick :
thank you
2024-06-04 21:38:45
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tempura peach :
thank you for your work 💜✨
2024-06-07 02:27:43
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hope🔥tattoolover :
exactly this 💯
2024-06-09 15:07:58
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chuchu.july :
🙏🏻💖
2024-07-19 13:58:01
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none none962 :
Holdon. I have an issue with this. Several of those issues are external, the norms for a society are built by those living in it. Working on yourself only internally doesn’t change those perceptions?
2024-07-05 04:27:20
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Miss UnderStood :
Since men make those norms. They need to change those norms ❤️🩹
2024-06-03 10:26:24
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farmboy :
masculinity is just inherently toxic in my opinion. makes hating myself and my gender really easy for the harm we cause to society
2024-06-03 11:39:05
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MayZoe :
As a therapist, I love working with men w/ patriarchal trauma - watching men heal, getting back in touch with their need & ability to emotionally connect with themselves and others is profound.
2024-06-03 13:42:21
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ThisKittyHasClaws 🍉🐾🌈 :
If your "rights" include the oppression of other ppl, they aren't rights. And many men think their rights include the oppression of others.
2024-06-03 16:42:11
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JakeFromStateFarm :
If men can’t advocate their rights or issues, why can women?
2024-06-04 17:38:48
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RainbowZephyr :
Women’s issue > Men’s issues. men are the cause of their own problems and nothing for women to do about it
2024-06-03 18:21:36
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JessMac :
Just like white women often to do disrupt conversations focused on racism and the black experience
2024-06-03 13:00:26
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Snadra :
Men accuse women of talking to much about silly things and again studies show its projection.
2024-06-03 13:55:12
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bunnythings :
This is a great post but sadly males won’t care for it
2024-06-03 15:09:48
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Russell :
Therapist here who works primarily with men. Agree mostly with this though minimizing men’s rights/needs isn’t a solution/path forward or further your critique/the issue.
2024-06-03 18:27:43
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RainbowZephyr :
I said what I sad. Men need less rights and more not harming women.
2024-06-08 02:18:17
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Marilyn :
Men’s rights = me control women and women shut up
2024-06-03 12:58:52
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ViviAnnaAuthor :
these men blame women for their problems and then then expect women to solve them for the men
2024-06-08 16:24:52
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Ivy Epsilon :
I think you should phrase it as men "re-centering themselves" or "derailing conversations about women's issues" not "decentering women" bc women aren't centered in society anyway
2024-06-03 17:57:55
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