the question Is, how do you get them to feel again? trying to make it work
2024-06-04 19:52:23
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❤️ :
When this happens… there’s someone else. Period!
2024-06-04 22:20:24
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DeanK81 :
Sometimes the avoidant person HAS communicated a need repeatedly over the years and the partner routinely dismissed it or downplayed it. If it's mentioned during multiple fights, it's a big deal.
2024-06-05 05:16:49
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laylagarrison855 :
Or they never loved you at all.
2024-06-04 21:26:03
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Priya :
Will they ever self reflect eventually?
2024-06-04 18:38:38
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Lili :
Do they ever realize? specially when they go with another person right away? do they develop deep connection again? to start all over from scratch?
2024-06-04 19:08:07
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JennyG1181 :
Will they ever come back around? I miss him so much.
2024-06-04 19:30:52
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Ynez Adsuara :
He was an avoidant. I was an anxious attacher. We clearly did not meet each other’s needs at the time because we were only thinking about our own selves to look at what the other was asking for.
2024-08-08 06:08:24
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MissRoan :
This is exactly what happened to me 😭😭😭
2024-06-04 22:12:58
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Derek :
So if this happened, could they come back by going no contact ?
2024-06-04 20:09:45
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Sarah Knoke :
This is happening to me right now. My partner just flipped 180 on me and it caught me completely off guard.
2024-08-12 01:44:57
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Joshbshredding :
Honestly the toughest thing I ever gone through.
2024-06-04 19:06:25
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Miranda Danielle :
as an avoidant, I so desperately want to stop this. I feel my stomach drop so hard when I suddenly feel nothing and I don't know what's happened. I've been in therapy for years and I still don't know.
2024-06-12 03:52:25
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CJ :
It’s the most painful thing I’ve ever gone through.. I was just trying to be patient, let her have her safe space, love her life but I never knew it was the problem. It hurts..
2024-06-04 18:56:34
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Gun :
I got the “we’re at different stages of our lives” like ok…cool, why’d we even date then? 😆
2024-06-04 20:58:58
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Z :
Thanks for this video, I do blaming my self for this avoidant person when actually they just don’t want to communicate and just want to blame me for his behavior.
2024-08-25 11:08:25
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Amandine :
Exactly what happened.. it’s just not fair.. I was always there for him even if I wasn’t perfect.. he didn’t communicate.. 5 years together..
2024-06-04 19:01:09
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Marli :
After 3 years of no fighting he broke up with me over the phone
2024-06-04 20:32:55
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killingkiwies :
I've been the avoidant. I realised my behaviour was not the best but my mom had just died and everything was way too much. I gave reasons, and left for a month of no contact after some time to breathe
2024-06-14 05:35:18
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MaeVad2022 :
He tries to communicate... I didn't heard, I was too angry. I've hurted him so much and he does the same to me. Now he's gone.
2024-06-09 20:06:51
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Ariane :
that's why just leave them and find someone who is secured. They will only dry you up. It's effing exhausting.
2024-06-20 21:09:45
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Deathblowingbubbles :
I really trying to help my ex but it’s so hard cause he’s avoidant but also not honest with himself, he went to therapy but he kinda “cheats” and not getting into core problems, I feel so helpless and
2024-08-07 01:51:28
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Amyv :
Exactly what I live now. My ex left me cause after 6 years cause he didn't have feelings anymore. But for me it was his choice to bury his feelings and directly chose a new girl instead of me.
2024-06-05 12:20:07
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fernanda :
This is the words he said to me a week after our wedding
2024-06-06 02:52:06
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Tammy :
I would rather they come right out and say that instead of pushing you away slowly it's like just rip the bandaid off already
2024-06-04 23:26:04
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