@heartofdating: The 90 day rule is one of my biggest pieces of advice as a Christian dating coach. I cannot stress it enough! So what is the 90 day rule? I encourage that you date someone for at least 90 days before getting into an EXCLUSIVE relationship with them- AKA becoming “bf/gf”/ getting IG official, etc! Why do I encourage this time frame? I know 90 days may seem like a pretty long time to wait to go exclusive BUT a lot of people can put on a facade at first. That’s why it’s so common to get into a RELATIONSHIP with a version of a person which really doesn’t exist. And that’s why it’s also easy to miss RED FLAGS in the early stages of dating. I also wouldn’t recommend this if I hadn’t tried it myself but it seriously CHANGED my dating life and eventually helped lead me to meeting my husband. In the past, I had a history of committing TOO SOON to people on a relationship level before I truly knew enough about them to know if they were someone that I should actually be giving my heart to. For me, it was a WISE decision (made within community and counsel), to do a 3-month non-exclusive dating challenge. Drop your 90 day questions in the comments and I’ll try to answer as many as I can ⬇️ . . #christiandating #christiandatingadvice #christiandatingtips #christiandatingcoach #christiandatingstory #godlymarriage #godlycouple #christianpodcast #datingpodcast #godlyencouragement #datingencouragement #healingquotes #singleness #single #christian #singlechristian #christiangirl #christianguy #dating #datingadvice
