Who you saw at the end of the relationship, was who they always were.
2024-06-07 20:40:32
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leane05 :
I honestly think the disrespect they show is because they have to make you into the villain otherwise they have to own up to their own actions… x
2024-06-08 12:10:31
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missy k :
At this point I literally have no idea who I was so in love with for a decade. Almost feels like he was kidnapped and replaced with an evil twin 😢
2024-06-08 19:51:09
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Tashula🖤 :
I say the man I fell for and married either never existed or is gone forever , I do not love my ex I do not miss him I do not care for him, but I do for the man he use to be
2024-06-08 11:08:44
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Teresa 🇬🇧 :
When I discovered his cheating, his switch flipped and I became enemy no 1 even though it wasn't me who broke the marriage. 🤷♀️
2024-06-11 10:16:56
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Cherie :
They say love is blind and i believe it
2025-03-27 21:52:00
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SecondSunRising :
That cognitive dissonance is so hard to overcome and make it hard to heal. I’ve come to think they were just mirroring me the whole time (30 years)
2024-06-08 15:26:39
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JJJELsGrammy :
28 years and I have NO IDEA who he even is..
2024-06-08 06:55:34
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Kel :
My ex husband was always the bad person, I just portrayed my goodness on him. 10 years. Happily divorced
2024-06-08 12:20:46
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Lisa0101xoxo :
This blows my mind too! From lovers to strangers x
2024-06-07 19:27:15
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Emma4ever21 :
21 years of marriage and 3 kids…he threw me away like a piece of rubbish, the emotional and mental damage he has caused to and the kids is huge 🥺
2024-08-12 11:10:15
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Breda :
I think its a mix of them masking to get what they want at the start and then us painting the red flags green so that we can settle and have a family
2024-06-08 14:56:24
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GillSum78 :
They just stopped pretending to be that imposter, that illusion of what you were conditioned to fall in love with. We fell in love with someone who never truly existed. They mirror and condition you
2024-06-08 19:51:24
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Elle :
They was always that person but you only saw it when you started to see your own worth and they became threatened by that
2024-06-08 10:21:32
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chickenlittlefarm :
Then to sit there after such disrespect, say that you’re the one giving up when that line was crossed. The hardest part is having the strength to self-respect/preserve what’s left of your heart
2024-06-08 22:23:53
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Rachael Frances :
Oh my goodness I’ve said this soooo many times the last 18 months. It’s crazy! ♥️
2024-06-09 13:55:58
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786452asd :
Weirdest thing is walking past each other on the street like strangers after 20 years of marriage 3 kids beings friends/lovers and now we act like we don’t exist
2024-07-15 08:40:30
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louisepalmer20 :
Omg you are absolutely 💯 on it xx I thought 💭 I was going insane x
2024-06-08 20:20:07
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Megan jones :
Omg when them glasses come off…… girl you see, you see clearly
2024-06-08 09:50:21
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user5169736997507 :
my husband has disappointed me by revealing who he really was and I never knew till now😞
2024-06-10 17:53:04
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dawnlou :
Yeah, I can’t believe how my husband of 20 yrs is treating me now through the divorce that he left me for someone else
2024-06-10 19:58:04
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Tanya :
Going thru my divorce I had experienced the most hateful man in the world and to this day .. 5 years later he still holds animosity and hatred for me and can’t co parent and has little relationship
2024-06-09 11:10:30
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sandhwild :
took the words out of my mouth 4 yrs on im still trying to work it out
2024-06-07 20:18:41
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AL :
I’m afraid it will be so much harder single parent to 2 than if I just stay in my unhappy but not abusive marriage
2024-06-09 22:08:53
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Cocoa's World :
omg this summaries my 15 Yr marriage completely as it was still made to be my fault. I'm just glad my parents are no longer here to know how it ended. 😔
2024-06-08 06:12:48
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