I’m so upset you are still referring to him as your husband 😭
2026-07-30 22:09:03
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504 Girl :
Because a lot of men like the idea of having a family and being married in theory, but not in practice
2024-06-10 23:03:01
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thejeannieb__ :
He needs to be single
2024-06-10 19:49:22
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NoKaylasHere :
The thing that I don’t get about men like that is “hanging with the kids is like a job” but NEVER “sahm must really need a break!”
2024-06-10 19:26:50
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Julia fox :
OK, you might not get that time back, but it’s never too late to start!!! Thanks for sharing ❤️
2024-06-10 22:21:04
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✨️thephilosopherspinster✨️ :
it's so sad bc when he's older he's going to wonder why he and the kids aren't close
2024-06-10 20:14:18
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Ms Nina :
People made me feel guilty for not centering my husband. I did a lot of things alone with my children. It made it very easy to leave the marriage with young children as well. No regrets.
2024-06-10 19:28:08
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Nai | Mama 💕 | Teach 👩🏽🏫 :
I’ve been telling my sister inlaw to do this. When my daughter was very little I started just doing things on my own because my husband never wanted to come. My daughter has so many experiences
2024-06-10 19:31:43
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Theresa Esparza207 :
Am sorry people are attacking you. I don’t think they understand what you’re saying. You still have time to make memories with your kids.
2024-06-10 20:45:10
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Icarus :
I felt relief when you said the ages of your kids. They’re still kids so there’s so much time to make up for stuff! Some people don’t realize until their children are grown and no contact lol
2024-06-12 07:02:28
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oh_0711 :
Make up the time now. My husband was that way. So the kids and I did stuff without him. 3 years later he starts complaining he doesn’t feel part of the family. I said you’re not. But you chose that.
2024-06-12 20:25:22
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missrosyb :
Just talk to your kids and apologize and ask them to please not make the mistake you made. Sometimes we need that reminder
2024-06-10 19:35:34
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laurawinn848 :
Just dumped someone who was like this. Nice to hear I made the right choice!
2024-06-10 18:29:14
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ReeBaeBee :
Your kids will appreciate it if you tell them what you just told us.
2024-06-10 19:30:33
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Dolly Lostaunau :
I feel like so many moms need to hear this, thanks for sharing
2024-06-10 19:47:57
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teetads⁷ 🦋 :
Maybe it will help some young woman not make the same mistakes. Thank you. 🤎
2024-06-10 17:23:25
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k_i_k_i084 :
There’s a saying where I’m from ‘when a person wakes up is their morning’. You’ve woken up now, don’t beat yourself up over the past, do things differently now. 🫶🏾
2024-06-10 21:39:42
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SolaceSoulless :
❤️I am learning now that I need to center myself and my daughter. If he wants to join that’s a bonus but I am trying not to give him so much power over my choices.
2024-06-10 17:52:53
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Kaj090 :
Granted, my father was abusive, but my mother continues to center him to this day. I resent her so much. I will never do that to my son(and also why I left my ex). Children come first. Always.
2024-06-10 20:39:11
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Loving Lemon :
My dad worked every single day all day and still did EVERYTHING with me and my mom that was any second he wasn’t working. He had no free time- it was us time, and I’m forever grateful for that.
2024-06-10 19:35:33
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cvance1984 :
My ex husband was like this. I just took my son on my own.
2024-06-10 20:24:50
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Salma🩵 :
They’re still young, the beach and Disney land is still fun to at 12 & 14! Even more so for you!
2024-06-13 05:27:59
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Lisiwe :
I love how you unapologetically share your truth. 🙌♥️
2024-06-10 17:20:09
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