@nadeenhui: this is something that's been on my mind for awhile... any of you girls feel like this? i'd love to hear your experience in the comments and also share mine more if that's something you girlies are interested in it was very hard growing up having to be the rock & safe harbor and emotional support that my family leaned on... definitely seemed like my needs and emotions came last behind everyone else's and it most definitely contributed to my "selflessness" which was just repackaged low self worth in my past relationships #hyperindependence #eldestdaughter #datingadviceforwomen #girltalk
52 yo eldest daughter of an immigrant. I've always fantasized about having an older brother. Somebody in my life that would look out for me, for a change.
2024-06-12 21:37:49
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Angeline Kai, ACSW :
This made me cry 😭💕 absolutely yes to all of this 🥺
2024-06-12 21:29:46
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zmochi00 :
When I got married I checked out as an eldest daughter/sibling. I took care of my sibling since babies. Now it’s just me and doing my own thing. I was tired.. I’m healing now.
2024-06-14 20:14:06
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shan :
Someone who would simply choose you over anyone else in the world regardless what other people can give them BECAUSE they are not you is my dream man.
2024-06-14 18:33:27
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melon :
what do i do when my golden retriever energy partner has intention but poor execution 😭😭
2024-06-16 09:48:49
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Nisha :
Your man is supposed to add value to your life. Until that is found, stay single and don’t waste your time or others ❤️
2024-06-15 17:56:32
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rawr XD :
Cries in eldest daughter 💔💔
2024-06-14 22:04:32
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Minttttt997 :
I am so tired of being strong. I am stresssedddd
2024-08-05 16:01:26
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m❀ :
we'll always be seen as selfish when we start to prioritize ourselves 🤧
2024-06-16 18:11:08
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Me :
Because we’ve become our own protectors of our emotions it’s so hard to trust that you’re not going to be disappointed especially when it’s happened regularly, we weren’t given that grace…
2024-07-23 14:14:27
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Kaiya :
This is such a LOUDDD RETWEET
2024-06-14 23:06:27
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4icebear :
Personally. That type always disappoints me. I need a man that puts me first and has my interest as his priority b/c I have to be strong for the world. I need him to be strong for me so I dont have to
2024-06-12 23:12:22
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bobastraw 🪭 :
Ty for the free therapy sesh! You hit all the points 😭
2024-06-15 04:16:45
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sana andrea :
i’ve always had a hard time explaining this it into words and you said it perfectly🥹🫶 i’m the eldest daugher of an immigrant family too but i also have 7 younger siblings which has been tough😮💨
2024-07-10 18:17:03
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selina 双双 :
i have never felt more heard in my life ❤️🔥
2024-06-14 02:26:41
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nori | nursing & lifestyle :
THIS, THIS THIS! I literally made a similar video talking about this & why I’m so thankful for my man for finally letting me tap in my feminine energy
2024-06-15 21:31:58
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Zaini :
Girl I get it. I experienced the same thing
2024-06-12 22:23:47
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beanie.tiktoks :
This is literally me! I'm also the eldest cousin on both sides of the family, which adds an extra layer 🥲 I want to go from taking care of everyone else to being the one taken care of!!
2024-06-15 21:34:34
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tereyakisauce :
Say it louderrrr 🗣️🗣️
2024-06-13 21:04:39
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holly :
absolutely
2024-06-15 04:17:06
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Hinal Patel :
Yes. Yes. Yes. To everything she said
2024-06-14 20:45:21
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trish_ashx0 :
We get it 💕💕
2025-01-10 15:09:22
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Anita :
I’m the only child of immigrant parents. My parents called the other day to ask why I haven’t taken them on an all expenses paid trip yet KNOWING FULL WELL I M UNEMPLOYED RN
2024-06-16 23:36:40
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Diana🩷 :
YES YES YES!!!
2024-08-29 21:45:01
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