@attachmentnerd: No matter how well we care for our children and offer them secure guidance: there will always be judgment from others. Our job is to do what we can to advocate for ourselves and our kids and to stay focused on the aupport of people who are putting the same level of care and kindness out into the world. Love on. #parenting #raisingsecurelyattachedkids #secureparenting #attachment #therapistadvice

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unchainedmalady
unchainedmalady :
You were so brave for confronting that first woman! I bet you made an impact on her
2024-06-17 14:26:59
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anirbasdneif
Sabrina :
I love that you're girls were being cats. When my daughter was being challenging she became an obedient dog. So helpful.
2024-06-17 17:44:23
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kcsunshine33
Kerren’s Perspective :
So glad you shared this with us! Good example of how one little act of kindness can go so far.❤️
2024-06-17 17:49:30
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je55abe11e
Jess :
I’m glad you said something to her. People need to be called out for making unnecessary rude comments like that.
2024-06-18 23:33:53
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mmmaxx321
mmmaxx321 :
We,me plus 3 under 7, were clothes shopping and my boy was impatient in girl section cause he loves clothe shopping and wanted his turn. I was struggling to keep calm and gretting more and more frustrated while looking for the 2 girls and dealing with him. A lady said I can’t believe what a good job you are doing. Your patience with&helping him be calm is really paying off. I would have lost it by now. That meant so much to me, she’ll never know. Now I try to do the same for other moms
2024-06-17 18:12:40
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Bev_wallen :
I’m glad you said something to the rude patron behind you. I’m hopeful she found value in your interaction.❤️
2024-06-24 13:06:19
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chloefrank10
Chloe Frank :
Good for you!!
2024-06-17 22:11:25
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leah_in_wa
Leah :
Thank you for sharing your experiences, both were helpful.
2024-06-17 20:33:27
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catherinekopels
catherinekopels :
Eli you are an amazing human being
2024-07-24 12:29:29
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wow.its.lerin
wow.its.lerin :
My babies (5&3) cosplay as cats too!! And you find shorts that you like at 2nd-hand stores. Love you 🥰
2024-07-09 03:34:08
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krystalynweaver1
Krystalyn Weaver :
I’m crying about it too! You deserved that comment, but it’s so rare that people say good things which makes it so precious
2024-07-12 23:50:28
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lithandriel
lithandriel 🇺🇸🌍🌎🌏 :
"... were viewed as a burden, so she sees children that way." 🤯 /mindblown
2024-07-05 19:22:23
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user223614880712
user223614880712 :
I love these stories. Thank you for sharing them.
2024-07-09 15:05:26
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ohmydogpetportraits
ohmydogpetportraits :
I always try to compliment moms when I can! (if they deserve it lol!!)
2024-07-03 00:05:15
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anico71
anico71 :
Why do u give a sh*t what someone else thinks? Shoot her a look, & then smile & say something like "bless ur heart, & here I thought I asked for ur opinion."
2024-06-17 22:07:03
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meesacap
Melissa Capple :
You are amazing for sharing this and for approaching that first woman with such love ❤️
2024-07-09 23:25:50
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highvibetrybe
🔮🌙The Crystal Coven🌙🔮 :
Some people are just broken, and what comes out of their mouth is no reflection on the person receiving the comment.
2024-07-04 17:47:01
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squarefootgardening4u
SquareFootGardening4U :
In the ER and a woman had to bring her small child in to help her mother who was in a wheelchair. Some guy was picking on her about the child not being dressed warmly enough. Like EMERGENCY dude!
2024-06-27 20:01:20
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catnmck
Cathy Marlow :
You are an amazing human. To see what could’ve made her behave in such a way & help her see how hurtful it was is incredible. I hope she felt guilt not shame & learns to be kinder to others & herself
2024-06-23 12:26:51
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trom70119
Turnaroundsly :
Yes! 🥰 I taught 3 year olds for 7 years and I am constantly smiling at moms with toddlers. Young moms do not need the same judgements I got when I was young!
2024-06-22 00:26:40
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poconnor814
Pam :
I love you said something. I've been so frustrated by people commenting about kids in public (2yo twin, 5, 6yo).
2024-06-23 17:39:32
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notamugl
Not A Mugle :
Wow
2024-06-21 23:06:43
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katecoughlin8
kate :
when I was pregnant with twins I stopped counting the number of times I heard "better you than me" from absolute strangers. more people should be mute
2024-07-02 19:47:30
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sally_broken_legs
sally broken legs :
When ever my psychologist compliments me on my parenting and how it’s been all me why my children are amazing I turn it into a joke because i feel awkward
2024-06-19 14:27:46
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