The "boring" guy is the marrying kind. the chemistry and sparks happen slowly over time in all the small thoughtful things he does.
2024-06-19 12:46:22
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Tuber Rose :
I married the “nice guy” but he has crossed my physical boundaries too many times, he’s gotta go.
2024-06-19 12:45:29
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Chris :
People so often mistake the “they’re my type” for “they’re my pattern”
2024-06-19 19:28:49
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RootingForAnAntiHero :
As someone who's had to figure this out, That line between boring and stable can be a FINE line and it's the smallest of things that make the difference 😩
2024-06-19 14:09:12
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More Than a Mom :
I married the boring guy. He stayed boring.
2024-06-21 23:41:34
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Gibby :
My bf and I have what others would call boring. But he feels like home to me. He’s my safe space.
2024-06-19 14:00:58
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Kari_S :
This is so accurate… took until my 50’s to figure this out!!! I am marrying my perfectly consistent, normal, non toxic “nice guy” in two months!! It’s a beautiful thing!!!
2024-06-19 12:31:59
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Mia • Creative :
How can you separate boring / attachment styles from settling? I am trying to love the boring, but why can’t things be also exciting and have an emotional connection? I’m afraid to settle.
2024-06-19 15:54:52
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Belle :
I never found my guy boring cuz we were friends first but I was definitely scared before I said yes cuz I knew it was gonna be the real deal finally. Best decision I ever made 🥰
2024-06-19 15:03:14
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Angelina Eloise Allen :
yeah but you’re inevitably gonna get bored regardless so you’re just wasting each others time atp
2024-06-19 14:09:13
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🇺🇸 Julie 🇺🇸 :
Many people mistake boring with stable
2024-06-20 09:27:34
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Rachel Gottberg :
it's this mentality that trapped me with a guy I didn't love for 5 years because I kept rationalizing it this way. consistency is nice but you should still have feelings for your partner
2024-06-19 16:07:47
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Maybebaby81 :
Being called out here…. I really do try to be okay with boring!
2024-06-19 16:30:33
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Sw_native :
I married the “boring” one. But he is the most fascinating. Wonderful. And compassionate person. Chemistry is always different
2024-06-19 14:57:16
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Littlepissy boo :
How dare you ☹️🫣😮
2024-06-19 18:14:19
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Kiki :
Learning that chemistry ≠ connection was such a 🤯 for me. Also mistaking anxiety for butterflies
2024-06-19 18:10:45
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Vanessa 💰💔 :
she confusing comfortable with boring 😭was used to being in something toxic it’s tiring now i’m in a comfortable relationship and don’t have to break my back to earn his love
2024-06-19 15:57:03
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bringonvitality :
i mean, I love this soooo much! alllll of your videos. I'm just curious of the Unicorn you speak of. I mea are there REALLY healthy relationships? I don't know that experience at 49, it makes me sad.
2024-06-19 23:12:57
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Victoria :
Soooo it’s my destructive coping mechanism or he is just boring???? 🫠
2024-06-20 02:10:18
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Christina Sherwood :
Is it really worth a relationship if your relationship is super routine and nothing happens ever? You don’t go on dates, u just come over and sit in bed? And repeat? How is that what I should settle
2024-06-22 12:24:12
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SharksGoChomp :
Jimmy please have mercy, it is 9 am and I've been targeted like this.
2024-06-19 13:10:11
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Gamelobby1337 :
Boring can definitely be a deal breaker depending. If they don't ever want to take you out, just come home watch TV and go to bed when you're more outgoing then it just won't work most likely
2024-06-19 18:26:35
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Nici :
The moment I realized this I gave the boring guy a chance and then he immediately had a mid life crisis and bailed 😂😭
2024-06-19 14:38:35
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jojo diggs :
Ouch jimmy
2024-06-22 16:36:52
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