@theyogacouple: 📖 The Inner Work of Relationships is available now in our Tiktok Shop! PRIMARY EMOTION: Hopelessness TRIGGER: Inability to cope and overwhelm ROOT PROGRAM: What’s the point? TRAUMAS: Age-inappropriate responsibilities, abuse, life-altering loss/change, overwhelming circumstances, compounded negative consequences, poverty UNMET INNER CHILD NEEDS: Feeling supported DEFENSE MECHANISM OVERCOMPENSATING: Refuse to ask for help, Saying “yes” when they don’t have the capacity, denial of limits, self-sacrificing, malnourishment DEFENSE MECHANISM UNDERCOMPENSATING: Depression, Dissociation disorders, detachment, isolation, anxiety, PTSD, paralysis, numbness COMMON RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS: Constant arguing over the stresses of life, one partner feeling like they have to do everything, one partner being depressed and apathetic, exhausting shared life circumstances, extreme financial struggles and debt, difficulty co-parenting, struggling to get by and make ends meet #theinnerworkofrelationships #theinnerwork #theinnerworkalbum #relationshipproblems #redagsinrelationships #marriageproblems #husbandwife #marriagecounseling #relationshipadvice #relationshiphealing #consciousrelationships #relationshiptips #couplescounseling #couplestherapy

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claudialebronn
Claudia Lebron 🇲🇽 & 🇺🇸 :
I was Ok with the “Calm down” but the “make me a list” made my eye twitch 🤣
2024-06-21 13:54:16
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tkco91
Tanya :
"make a list of things fir me" like yea, why don't I add yet ANOTHER task to the overwhelmed day... 🙄
2024-06-21 18:20:02
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theholliwould
Holli Would :
"Just make me a list" makes me internally scream every time 🙄
2024-06-21 22:05:59
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mom_tchr_crazylady
Mom_Tchr_CrazyLady :
Doesn’t saying “relax” always make her relax?? 🤣
2024-06-21 00:56:00
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cattalvarez
cattalvarez :
making a list is more work...
2024-06-21 12:58:57
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user80441657
user804416 :
That’s so sweet. Tell me why that second one made me cry
2024-06-21 01:43:39
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rachelvivianla
rachel :
They forgot the scenario of “Ok, let me get out of your way!” Goes back to watch tv
2024-06-21 21:03:26
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kaiyahdesirae
Kaiyah Desirae👸🏾 :
Must be niceeee
2024-08-09 05:40:58
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stars2bright
Stars2bright :
I must have a wound of overwhelm. The healed version of the skit made me tear up! 👏 Well done
2024-06-21 23:53:26
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vanessa.symone
vanessa.symone :
Are we all deprived? Cause we all crying ha 😭
2024-06-21 19:52:45
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mounjarolife
MounjaroMama :
😭😭😭 I wish these were real. in all of my thirty seven years , i've never seen a man like this.
2024-06-21 22:56:24
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domimarie1.6
DomiMarie :
I’m confused about what’s wrong with a list. My bf and I both make lists for eachother. We’re both adhd and overstimulated easily. I never know where to start with things and we both forget things
2024-07-31 18:09:18
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elishalunaruiz
Elisha.Teddy.Berry22🧸🫐 :
dude I'm messed up lol I didn't even like know what was wrong with that until you showed the better version; I cried. lol
2024-07-18 20:16:29
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haydentwinters
Hayden Winters :
if he doesn't know what you need help with how it's he suppose to help? make me a list doesn't never an actual list it's a metaphor
2024-08-01 09:32:26
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thechaosmamareader
SavoryC or ThechaosmamaReader :
when my son's dad texts from his place. sitting on his couch. doing nothing. "how's your days" and my response is "overwhelmed. I am raising 5 kids. 5 different emotions. essentially on my own."
2024-07-15 16:04:14
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followingmybliss2
FollowingMyBliss :
My ex would NEVER say that! I'd love to meet someone like that though. Don't say calm down, though. 💙
2024-06-20 23:04:10
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redheadedbookie
Red :
my husband always does the 2nd one with me🥰
2024-06-22 01:39:41
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leximae2793
LexiMae :
Could you read it if you’re single though?
2024-08-02 03:10:43
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breannagetchell
Breanna Getchell :
Okay, but why do I reject this behavior and think it always has nefarious intentions ?
2024-06-21 20:01:45
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theewisesage
Sage✨ :
What do you do when you are both triggered by wounds in the moment… because it seems like one person just has to compensate which is fine but when you are both going through it …
2024-08-03 01:33:58
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tiffanyprice4116
Tiffany Price443 :
I’m single and overwhelmed w myself! Where do I get help w that? 🙄😂 Seriously being a single mom w serious debilitating diseases is very overwhelming. I had such bad exes my thought was I can’t take
2024-07-29 21:57:33
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victoriah68
victoriah68 :
the fact that the second scenario made me cry tells me that i apparently have an unhealed overwhelm wound 🥲
2024-06-26 18:09:51
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peacefullyrelaxed
peacefullyrelaxed :
The first time my hubby did this I cried 😭 This book is life changing and we’re only on chapter 4
2024-06-21 21:26:56
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theofficialitgirls
The Official It Girls :
Best TikTok shop ad
2024-07-19 19:07:16
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notgonnadoit14
Kristen Nichole :
so that's what support looks like
2024-06-21 19:41:16
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