Shawna Lander
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IwasMangoWOWfirst :
the tasks aren't difficult but it's just the constant... there is no break. you love your baby but you're tired.
2024-06-24 18:55:36
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Erica Nicole :
I always say you leave the hospital and realize you’re on a different planet.
2024-06-24 19:53:47
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Renee Foisset- Vecch :
I can still do everything I did before I had kids, they just ruin it now. lol
2024-06-24 18:57:17
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Auntie Millennial :
it's fun for 3 days lol then you realize you have to keep doing it for 5+ years
2024-06-24 20:25:55
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Shelbi King :
that’s why i always say 0-1 kids was the hardest transition
2024-06-24 19:12:37
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claidi :
the seeing humanity as babies thing is SO REAL
2024-06-24 20:12:54
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S_J567 :
no one can understand until they’ve been through it! hardest and most wonderful transformation ever
2024-06-24 18:46:45
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Saaarrraaahhhhk :
The most emotionally validating creator in tic tok ✊️
2024-06-24 18:51:27
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Jackie Bourque :
The hard part for me is not turning into my mother. I understand she was just as overwhelmed as I am now, but it’s not my child’s fault for acting her age. Unlearning and relearning so much is HARD.
2024-06-24 22:15:36
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Eden Parker :
As a mom, i wish more moms could speak on how challenging raising kids is. Yes there are amazing things along the way, but we owe new moms-to-be the transparency of this huge step in life.
2024-06-24 19:12:45
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Kate Louderback :
It is fun!! Most joy I've ever had in my life. The issue is it's neverending. So if you're sick, or exhausted, or someone was really mean to you and you want to just chill for an afternoon, you can't.
2024-06-24 19:00:03
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RyderRay28 :
I say taking care of a baby is the easy part. It’s doing it every single day and night that’s the hard part.
2024-06-24 20:50:09
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Kimberly Brandt :
Wait. I still feel very much like the same person. Am I broken? Delulu?? What’s wrong with me 😫
2024-06-24 20:44:37
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Bex Stone :
Anxiety before becoming a mother was nothing compared to after having a baby. My brain is always running and thinking about my child 98% of the time.
2024-06-24 18:51:27
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GoonieDogs :
The tasks aren’t hard but they’re incredibly repetitive and eventually dull and then you feel terrible for not loving every second
2024-06-25 00:58:08
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111ducking555 :
tasks by themselves aren't difficult, but on 3 hours of broken sleep, with all the tasks layered on top of each other at the same time, that's hard.
2024-06-24 19:41:06
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Jenna Taylor :
Genuinely just curious what that transition is like for people who have done a lot of inner child work beforehand. Definitely not saying that’s a requirement or better, just curious if it makes…
2024-06-24 19:17:56
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aimtee :
After I had my daughter it instantly made me look at every mother I knew in a completely different light. Like whoa, you did this???
2024-06-26 00:41:17
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mdcxoxo :
Mine is almost 9 and I’m still trial and erroring… is it just me?
2024-06-24 19:24:38
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Jellybean :
I had a cryptic pregnancy. Literally got thrown into motherhood after saying I was never going to have kids. Baby also has spina bifida. Genuinely, my experience hasn’t been hard at all. But I can -
2024-07-21 03:50:28
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Hannah Stevens :
Omg this HIT
2024-07-14 23:56:42
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Christian Shipp | Romantasy :
The tasks aren’t difficult. But the mental load is enormous
2024-06-25 12:38:23
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Kat von Mea :
And then you kind of come out of survival mode when they’re 15 and cry all the time that you didn’t enjoy it more but you mentally couldn’t.
2024-06-25 01:58:57
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asksam613 :
This is so me when someone says they can't decide whether they want kids. I feel like they should hear this side too. I only got the good info, it was not helpful tbh.
2024-06-24 19:42:28
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Mary Broeker :
Then the anxiety of something bad happening. Like what if I’m walking them down the stairs and fall and squash them to death.
2024-06-24 19:35:52
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