aya | side quest queen
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Quibly Hub :
I agree, you’re describing conversations. Those other people act like it’s an interview
2024-06-25 18:50:27
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MarbleMink :
As a super socially anxious person this is so helpful 🥰
2024-06-25 17:58:53
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Kelsea :
"i got a cosmo 😐"
2024-06-26 00:31:26
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Rosa Rugosa :
Golden advice! As an extrovert I never think about how it works I just chat to everyone. This is ✨gold✨ advice if it doesn’t come naturally to you! ✨
2024-06-25 18:47:59
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︎︎︎ :
Embarrassed cause I actually need these tutorials 😭 like I think I was born inept at conversing
2024-06-25 22:57:31
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Eli Jakob :
I think a good tip for starting conversation is using observational skills. Commenting on something that is happening in the space puts you on level ground because youre both experiencing it in real🕕
2024-06-25 19:54:27
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𝒦𝒶𝒾𝓎𝒶 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝒞𝓁𝑜𝓌𝓃 ★ :
I have this vibe but sometimes people literally look at me like “didn’t ask for all that info” but idcccc
2024-06-25 19:46:16
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Alma :
i like hearing random or tangentially related stories! agree with your advice
2024-06-25 20:56:07
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uh oh :
thanks for tip #2. I always assumed it's rude to offer info without being asked so I just keep asking questions desperately hoping they ask one back. I should balance that out a bit!
2024-06-25 19:56:09
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✨ Cosmic Swamp Witch ✨ :
As an AUDHD girlie this is blowing my bund bc this is a very neurodivergent friendly set of guidelines lol
2024-06-27 17:29:47
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Sarah :
I love that moment when “I’m Sarah by the way” 🫲🏽
2024-06-27 23:40:55
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ManInTheWind :
Reminds me of the article “Good conversations have lots of doorknobs” and the pros/cons of conversational givers/takers and how the two can interact meaningfully. Interesting read.
2024-06-25 20:05:59
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A :
I hate hearing about “responding with a story about yourself” is being a bad conversationalist. Like obviously you’re not trying to make it about yourself it’s just the dialectic of conversation
2024-06-25 07:00:32
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Geoffrey Alan :
This is honestly one of the best pieces of advice I’ve ever heard.
2024-06-25 01:33:47
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anth-umbra :
#3 is very true. I love sharing a story and hearing another person’s, as long as they aren’t being really weird or mean about it, like talking over longer story that the first person was telling!
2024-06-25 19:01:38
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elisa :
ok literally waiting for the question to be asked back is sooo real, like i told you my thing now you tell me yours, i don’t really have to ask you
2024-06-25 21:59:09
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Andrew :
I like to be funnily blunt sometimes but it’s situational. I just say “so what are we talking about??” Or I’ll say “what’s your life story” Works well with friends of friends.
2024-06-25 21:05:27
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cavedogpdx :
open ended questions > yes/no questions
2024-06-26 21:48:03
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edeflne :
when I talk to someone I've started pretending in my head that we're already friends and I just yap accordingly. The right people will like my vibe and do the same I think
2024-06-28 18:52:20
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c1975stark :
When someone talks to me I immediately go from 😐 to 🤗🥹 like omg someone wants to talk to me?? 🧚🏻🎀🩷🌸✨so always take a chance
2024-07-18 03:29:37
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Petitetati :
I just start yapping about anything and then we don’t stop talking 💀
2024-06-25 20:45:23
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User639 :
As a audhd individual - thank you!
2024-06-25 20:47:36
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Inscony :
I know these things, but sometimes I need a good reminder lol, so I appreciate these popping up in my feed every so often
2024-06-25 13:15:53
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oAtMeAL :
Ok but “I got a Cosmo😐😐” is just like…my natural state of speaking 😂
2024-06-25 21:10:09
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Lumira Eyewear :
I feel weird talking about myself sometimes because I always feel like ppl are like “show off” oh really?? You went to Paris?? Must be nice.
2024-06-25 23:54:30
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