@brightblackhoney: Its not about having to be perfect. Its about how we behave when we arent. Mistakes and injuries are an occupational hazard of relationships. So we have to become good repair people #marriage #friendship #weaponizedincompentence #resentment #divorce #microaggressions #laststraw #repair #datingadvice #emotionalintelligence #apologylanguage #accountable

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pushingtolove
Deborah Davis :
You lost me at the third time. Simply get your own bottle of shampoo. We can’t control other people.
2024-06-27 10:23:21
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budsandbooksinthegarden
budsandbooksinthegarden :
My therapist taught me the phrase “what kept you from considering me?” for situations like this.
2024-06-26 17:22:07
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penelopiee__sheebah
penelope shiba :
I dont know how I can keep this😭😭😭
2024-07-28 07:17:37
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briknowss
b :
this is like the story on reddit with the ladies husband who overtightned jars over the course of years and she left because of it
2024-06-26 17:57:34
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nimibofha
Sharon :
I love when really smart people can put words to experiences that are deemed trivial
2024-06-26 20:34:01
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swagmunnyhunny
bella :
Trying to explain this to a man is like just a huge SIGHHHH
2024-06-27 01:46:37
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louie.ge
Louie_Ge :
Small things matter, and that was the last small thing that was neglected.
2024-06-26 16:27:42
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digital.kash
kashish :
to be considered is to be loved. you have to consider in order to truly love.
2024-06-26 22:44:25
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m._.e._.v
mary emily :
Thank you for this! This is exactly what I needed to hear!
2024-09-24 14:15:17
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thelouiphotography
Wedding Photographer | Meg :
I once read that we view our mistakes as what our intention was, but we view others mistakes as what their impact was
2024-06-26 23:48:19
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wstephanie
Stephanie Williams :
and I think a lot women care for everyone's needs around them and most of it is the "unseen " labor. so when it's little things for us we feel unappreciated
2024-06-26 20:31:43
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jaehubbell
ChristineJae :
My therapist explained it like a jar of pennies. Every nice thoughtful thing puts a penny in, every small hurtful thing takes one out. If the jar is full you don’t notice if you take 1 or 2 out. If
2024-06-26 22:13:39
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pinkdrinkdream2
pinkdrinkdream :
I wish more men would take the time to understand this. I’m sure most of them would scroll past this and not even care to listen. It’s exhausting
2024-06-26 18:11:16
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elio.azul
Elio 🍉 :
my husband let the door slam in my face last night when I had my hands full of groceries. it threw me off for the entire night.
2024-06-26 18:41:53
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astoldbykev
astoldbykev :
Confirmation that this break up is ok
2024-06-27 15:33:43
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goodknightly
GoodKnightly :
An aunt by marriage came on holiday and borrowed our car to travel. Returned the car with no gas and no oil! 😩 Damaged the engine
2024-06-26 16:48:51
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oosocksoo
Socks :
This is why I’m walking away from a group of male friends I’ve been gaming with for 4 years. They aren’t very considerate and I’m sick of having reminding them that my experience and feelings matter.
2024-06-26 16:41:50
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notshayna.nigans
notshayna.nigans :
Validating for me sometimes feels like belittling. Because if you can recognize how this could/does make me feel then why do you keep doing it
2024-06-26 18:31:18
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psbrunetti
PS_ Brunette :
My bf watched this and it completely blew his mind your describing our relationship word for word. Tbh idk how we’re all having the same horrible experience
2024-06-27 01:26:34
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eastcoast1111
Kelly 🍉 :
My husband drank my last coffee pod even tho he had 2 of his own flavor left. Threw me off for the whole day. Like he never considered me
2024-06-27 12:02:57
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bbysoftkiss
bbysoftkiss :
The way you explained grace and the feeling of safety of being able to rely on someone consistently really healed something within me
2024-06-26 18:20:25
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zesty.bit
Orange Girl 🍊 :
It wasn’t what we broke up over but man I will never forget the tension that came up for me when he’d offer to make dinner. Proceed to ask me what all was in the pantry … so small but so big
2024-06-26 17:57:39
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teeoharewhy
Hi I’m Tory😻 :
Not only the carelessness of another person, the carelessness of THEIR person.
2024-06-26 22:43:00
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jasminlyricc
jas :
My ex never understood that I just wanted him to simply consider me. 😣
2024-06-26 23:55:11
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doralburnett
doralburnett :
That 90/10 metaphor is 🔥 because if we good 90% of the time that 10% wont be taken so personal because its not routine enough to be a trigger😎
2024-06-27 09:08:36
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