reading 48 laws of power convinced me everyone is trying to manipulate me for this reason lmao
2024-07-02 14:38:02
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Nat :
yes I can feel the manipulation immediately lol it's very salesman-like
2024-07-02 02:12:06
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Mitzi :
It’s icky. I hate it. I instantly feel like the person is trying to manipulate me.
2024-07-03 05:07:12
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Chairman Meow :
It feels like a sales pitch instead of a conversation
2024-07-02 04:36:58
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Elizabeth :
My boss will use my name when he’s annoyed with me. Drives me insane. Feels patronizing.
2024-07-01 23:53:47
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SaintsNation :
Right? Instantly suspicious. 😅
2024-07-02 00:05:09
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Neva King :
I use the name trick to remember names because I am bad at name
2024-07-02 01:26:30
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Goddess.com :
I do this, but have never read the book 😬
2024-07-02 05:12:37
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whitb003 :
I was a bank teller and we were required to use the customers name twice during the transaction. Hated it.
2024-07-02 00:09:29
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Gabtheory :
As a salesperson this works but you can’t be so heavy handed with it
2024-07-02 12:38:23
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Kev :
It’s because you’re acknowledging your existence by using your name, and most people don’t feel acknowledged or seen.
2024-07-02 07:45:42
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jennifer1989_99 :
Depends. It can be condescending or nice.
2024-07-03 12:48:06
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Kristi :
I HATE when people say my name. I feel like it's a power move & they're trying to assert dominance over me. I will immediately NOT do anything they want lol
2024-07-09 22:44:46
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Matte. :
YESSSSSS. One time this dude asked me about my mum’s name and at the end of the conversation he was like “say hi to Esther for me”. Like I know what you’re playing
2024-07-05 03:08:44
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Angel :
People who unnecessarily say your name mid conversation are lowkey scary…
2024-07-17 06:52:08
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⚡️ Electro 💋 Cliche ⚡️ :
It’s unnerving not disarming
2024-07-02 05:49:16
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Shu :
Intent plays a big part in how it is perceived. Subtle energy speaks volumes ⚡️
2024-07-08 12:32:19
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Dany Encinas :
If i know someone is trying to make me like them i instantly like them 😅 i think is cute
2024-07-05 05:13:56
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juski :
Instantly assuming that someone who says your name is trying to use a technique from some book is unhinged.
2024-07-29 00:03:21
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freddycharcoalgrill :
I liked learning that people love hearing their name—that’s true for me! So I started using names more to bring that little bit of extra joy to people, and it helps me remember names better 💕
2024-07-02 07:26:00
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emptycanvas55 :
When someone talks to me like that, I already know it’s strategic. Just straight up say what you want from me!
2024-07-03 07:25:11
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hairy squatter :
instant red flag for me
2024-07-02 06:01:13
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rocked4 :
They overuse it! Much like you have here. When done properly you don’t notice but subconsciously it hooks you.
2024-07-03 19:19:05
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Ben :
Dale Carnegie vs Dale Carnegie
2024-07-05 13:15:08
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heathlucy811 :
I’ve always disagreed with him saying “using their name is the sweetest sound” like absolutely not. Annoys me more than anything.
2024-07-03 07:49:22
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