@sheisapaigeturner: I think it’s incredibly important for new dads to do part of the overnight shift with their new baby. Often times, because men go back to work soon after having children, women will take on the bulk of the overnight responsibility. But this can create a dynamic where men miss out on the opportunity to bond with their child and learn about their child and it leaves mom the default caregiver. ##newbaby##newborn##babysleep##newmom##newdad##newparents##caregiving##dadlife

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kylanhe
Kylan Heiner | The Alpha :
1 week old in my house - my wife gets baby from 9pm to 3am while I sleep. I get baby from 3am-9am while she sleeps. We both get a 6 hour sleep. This is our 4th baby, and this has always worked best.
2024-06-27 01:16:54
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v1era_
viera :
People say "dad shouldn't be sleep deprived at work" as if being sleep deprived while taking care of a newborn is perfectly safe 💀
2024-06-27 12:08:17
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kmg981
user6212470222816 :
It’s way more work to take care of a baby all day than go to work. They don’t need more sleep than moms.
2024-06-27 00:57:32
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sarahsboombox
SarahofArc :
For SAHMs, the cycle is neverending! We do nights followed by the 14+ hour day and then into the night again
2024-06-27 00:51:38
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khric0_0
Kristiina💕 :
This would makes sense if the mom were to work as well, i don't, i can nap through out the day he can't, i will continue doing the nights.
2024-06-28 00:12:02
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sam.needs.help
Sam. Needs. Help 🇺🇸 🆘 :
We did blocks. I went to bed early. Like 7-8pm and slept until 1am. Then my husband switched off to me. Getting that chunk really helped.
2024-06-27 00:22:21
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ashleylauren1127
Ashley Jones :
um no if dad is working and I'm off for 6-8 weeks I'm letting that man sleep
2024-06-28 07:50:07
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scdo3
📚 Syd 📚 :
My husband did every single middle of the night diaper change so I could get ready to breastfeed and/or pump. It saved my sanity!
2024-06-27 12:29:54
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moneysavingmidwestmom
moneysavingmidwestmom :
My hubby would get up 75% of the feeds with me to change the diaper, and then rub my feet or head while I nursed. It made me feel heard and not so lonely during those night feeds/pumps.
2024-06-27 00:16:56
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prettyful_butterfly101
prettyful_butterfly101 :
That doesn't work for most breastfeeding babies. But if babies aren't settling after a feed, they should definitely be helping.
2024-06-27 03:00:13
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ashmb11
Ash :
It IRKS me when my husband says “I’m sooo tired” I always just give him the death stare. And he responds “sorry”
2024-06-27 18:21:02
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haaaleeeeyyy
Haaaleeeeyy :
This is such good points. Will be showing my husband bc I’m already stressed about this at 4 months pregnant
2024-06-27 00:21:39
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jessicawithag3
Jessica G :
This makes total sense if the moms works as well. But for me since I stay home and exclusively breastfeed I have to be up either way. Makes no sense to me for both of us lose sleep when I have to
2024-06-27 00:15:46
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andreaanha
Andrea :
Yes. My husband made it a priority for me to sleep during my first month PP. he did all the overnights for the first month while I slept 9 hours.
2024-06-27 13:38:22
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erikahirsch206
Erika Hirsch 🍉 :
💯 👏Its like one parent is taking a Spanish class in high school and the other moved to Mexico and became fluent because of the immersion experience. This creates a significant rift between parents.
2024-06-27 01:29:06
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beigedad
Beige Dad :
Yesss!! It especially helped my wife (csection) because she couldn’t lift our son. So I got him up, changed his diaper, handed him off for feeding, got him back to get him back to sleep.
2024-06-27 00:13:39
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keslie.stout4
Keslie Stout :
I can’t believe that dads in this day and age are literally just sleeping through it. My son is 14 and his dad and I shared nights. Demand more.
2024-06-27 04:55:22
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black_cats_are_better
Black Cats Are Better :
A mom once asked me for advice on how to handle sleep deprivation as a new mom, I said swap off nights with the baby like me and my husband did and she told me she meant advice from competent women 😳
2024-06-27 00:15:14
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jenna.marinelli
Jenna Marinelli :
My husband did EVERY night with all 3 kids, including a set of twins. He said, “you do days, I do nights”… it worked for us.
2024-07-01 22:31:03
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clurly
Clurly :
My husband says some of his best moments with our son are in the middle of the night
2024-06-27 04:17:25
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ohalysssa
Alyssa Bova :
Me watching this as someone who’s husband works night shift 👁️👄👁️
2024-06-27 02:30:11
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shamarshantel
Shamar Shantel :
Phew . Do we all live the same lives
2024-06-27 14:22:56
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pieghb
G :
My husband did overnights every night for the first six weeks. Now that he’s back at work he does overnights on his days off. Works great for us
2024-06-27 04:40:12
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kyrawilson21
Kyra.TheTeacher.TheMom💕 :
Yes! I do 9pm to 2am my husband does 2am till 7am
2024-06-27 13:29:05
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