@nursehadley: This is how I handle these conversations when they don’t go as my patient hoped they would #hospice #nocontact #nocontactwithparent

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pnw_almostemptynester
Jillisa Smith :
Coming from a no contact child, you did the right thing. Thank you for that. Most people chose to quilt trip us.
2024-06-27 17:08:10
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johnathanliker
Johnathan :
“Did you tell him I’m dying? You should’ve told him he had to come.” That’s all we needed to hear.
2024-06-27 18:36:04
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tacobear99
That Escalated Quickly :
I will not go see my father. He stopped talking to me bc I make him uncomfortable.
2025-08-26 22:59:37
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swagymilkman
Sarah langer :
I hope the son doesn’t regret this. I don’t know their relationship but forgiveness is also so important
2024-06-28 00:50:38
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mockkristi
mockmockme :
I never question family dynamics.
2024-06-27 17:11:47
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jverb_
Joël Verbeek :
As a hospice nurse AND a no contact kid... I feel this
2024-06-27 17:11:19
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krisslosingit
Kristi :
You did the right thing. It isn’t fair to try to make you the healer of their relationship.
2024-06-27 17:11:23
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sweetsimonee
Simone 👑🪷 :
I'm a no contact child. I don't want to know when she passes, be called, or attend any funeral
2024-06-27 19:17:32
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wublover222
ash 💗 :
anger is always a secondary response to the initial emotion which is typically emotional pain :(
2025-08-15 10:42:19
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savedafishies
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My mom poured boiling soup down my shirts, would drag me down the stairs by my hair among many other horrifics and people think I’m a monster for not visiting her. Thank you for respecting them 💕
2024-06-28 00:03:41
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ladyvet88
ladyvet :
as a no contact child ...THANK YOU! My mother tried to get her doctor to "make" me come. once a manipulator always a manipulator
2024-06-27 20:28:44
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karendavery
karendavery :
“YOU SHOULD’VE TOLD him that he HAD to come” that is how he prob was for 80 yrs 😕
2024-06-27 18:29:13
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faithy_p_
Faith P. :
My husband is no contact with his parents. If he treated you that way, imagine how he treated his son? You did the right thing ❤️
2024-06-27 18:59:56
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theresanun41
Theresa Queen B.44 :
That's harsh.. 😫😔😭 I couldn't imagine not being there when my parents died obviously at 10 years old I couldn't be there when my dad died but my mom I was there...
2024-06-27 19:19:26
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jheaux_cos
jheaux :
I’ll never forget the first patient I ever did postmortem care for. His son came to get his things and I said “I’m sorry for your loss, he was a good man” and the son said “don’t f’ing lie to me” 😭
2024-06-27 20:08:59
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wandering_winner
Alexis Winner :
As a no contact daughter, I really am dreading that moment because I really don’t know if I would go or not. Probably not.
2024-06-27 20:23:27
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amandabarnesart
Amanda - embroidery artist :
As a no contact adult child - my mother was in late stages of dementia and I agreed to speak to her over FaceTime. The first time she didn’t know who I was & was polite.
2024-06-27 20:41:39
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hecate423
Liz 🍯🕯️ :
I’m so sorry that couldn’t have been easy hun
2024-06-27 17:03:52
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daughter_of_dirt
𝕯𝖆𝖚𝖌𝖍𝖙𝖊𝖗_𝖔𝖋_𝕯𝖎𝖗𝖙 :
I haven't spoken to my parents in 20 years, I'm an only child. I didn't even know this was a thing/never crossed my mind. New fear unlocked. Hospice nurse call.
2024-06-27 23:26:31
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katiestravelingcircus
Katie S :
Are these calls usually handled by the nurse and not social work or spiritual? I’ve been an oncology and hospice nurse for over 18 years.
2024-06-27 18:53:45
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rylon_w
Rylon_W :
As someone that is no contact with a parent: you DID do the right thing!
2024-06-28 10:31:53
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jennysofiestrandberg
Jenny ᓚᘏᗢ :
I’m a no contact kid as well and I want to know when he eventually passes, but only because I want my inheritance. That’s going to be the only little thing he will ever do to me and I believe I -
2024-07-01 10:30:59
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luu.cifer7
LuCifr :
I shouldn't have been there when she died. She just told me again that she wished I was never born. That was the last thing she ever said to me.
2024-06-27 22:57:25
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lolakai730
Lola :
I had darling customers for years (in their 80’s) whose kids avoid them. You nailed it on the head when you said you didn’t know them the first 80
2024-06-27 18:43:12
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brandyginvodka
Brandy O :
any time I hear a story that goes something like "oh his/her kids weren't even there, it's so sad..." I immediately say no, don't do that. you have no idea who the dying person was before.
2024-06-28 15:39:02
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