@nursehadley: This is how I handle these conversations when they don’t go as my patient hoped they would #hospice #nocontact #nocontactwithparent

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Thursday 27 June 2024 16:58:08 GMT
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sweetsimonee
Simone 🍑🎂 :
I'm a no contact child. I don't want to know when she passes, be called, or attend any funeral
2024-06-27 19:17:32
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pnw_almostemptynester
Jillisa Smith :
Coming from a no contact child, you did the right thing. Thank you for that. Most people chose to quilt trip us.
2024-06-27 17:08:10
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savedafishies
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My mom poured boiling soup down my shirts, would drag me down the stairs by my hair among many other horrifics and people think I’m a monster for not visiting her. Thank you for respecting them 💕
2024-06-28 00:03:41
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fluffymeowcow
Serena :
No contact child here, I'd appreciate you so much for not making me feel bad for the difficult choice it is.
2024-06-27 18:40:29
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johnathanliker
Johnathan Liker :
“Did you tell him I’m dying? You should’ve told him he had to come.” That’s all we needed to hear.
2024-06-27 18:36:04
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jverb_
Joël Verbeek :
As a hospice nurse AND a no contact kid... I feel this
2024-06-27 17:11:19
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ladyvet88
ladyvet :
as a no contact child ...THANK YOU! My mother tried to get her doctor to "make" me come. once a manipulator always a manipulator
2024-06-27 20:28:44
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amandabarnesart
Amanda - embroidery artist :
As a no contact adult child - my mother was in late stages of dementia and I agreed to speak to her over FaceTime. The first time she didn’t know who I was & was polite.
2024-06-27 20:41:39
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miachase16
Mia Chase :
as a no contact child, whos mother did pass I can say for some of us it's a struggle. it's a struggle to not go, its still a struggle once they're gone.
2024-06-29 20:42:08
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wandering_winner
Alexis Winner :
As a no contact daughter, I really am dreading that moment because I really don’t know if I would go or not. Probably not.
2024-06-27 20:23:27
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mockkristi
mockkristi :
I never question family dynamics.
2024-06-27 17:11:47
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karendavery
karendavery :
“YOU SHOULD’VE TOLD him that he HAD to come” that is how he prob was for 80 yrs 😕
2024-06-27 18:29:13
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daughter_of_dirt
𝕯𝖆𝖚𝖌𝖍𝖙𝖊𝖗_𝖔𝖋_𝕯𝖎𝖗𝖙 :
I haven't spoken to my parents in 20 years, I'm an only child. I didn't even know this was a thing/never crossed my mind. New fear unlocked. Hospice nurse call.
2024-06-27 23:26:31
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hecate423
Elizabeth :
I’m so sorry that couldn’t have been easy hun
2024-06-27 17:03:52
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thekristenelizabeth
Kristen Elizabeth :
Coming from a no contact child of one parent and a lot contact child of the other parent, we stay away for a reason. Thank you for all you do
2024-06-29 03:40:42
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mama_p_21
Faithy P. :
My husband is no contact with his parents. If he treated you that way, imagine how he treated his son? You did the right thing ❤️
2024-06-27 18:59:56
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krisslosingit
Kristi Musick :
You did the right thing. It isn’t fair to try to make you the healer of their relationship.
2024-06-27 17:11:23
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theannaliviams
Anna Lívia Marques26 :
It takes a lot for a son to go no contact. There must be deep deep reasons and we need to respect that
2024-06-27 21:49:21
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rileyjparsons
Riley Parsons :
From a no contact child that was constantly guilt tripped about not seeing my terminal father before he passed.. thank you. Being sick doesn’t magically change years of trauma.
2024-07-05 06:51:59
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jennysofiestrandberg
Jenny ᓚᘏᗢ :
I’m a no contact kid as well and I want to know when he eventually passes, but only because I want my inheritance. That’s going to be the only little thing he will ever do to me and I believe I -
2024-07-01 10:30:59
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plbrune
Paula B :
Them yelling at you is probably how he treated his son. He feels entitled still to this day you did the right thing. ❤️
2024-06-27 18:44:36
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rahhlady4
Sarah 🌵 :
As someone who is no contact and knows my mom is coming to the end of her life… thank you. My mom is quite the charmer so she could easily be someone’s all time favorite patient but that doesn’t
2024-06-27 20:11:09
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rylon_w
Rylon_W :
As someone that is no contact with a parent: you DID do the right thing!
2024-06-28 10:31:53
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thisairlineagent
thisairlineagent :
i was no contact/minimal contact with my father for my whole adult life. he ended up in the hospital with a life threatening infection and i decided to visit. it was good to reconnect briefly. But...
2024-06-27 19:05:56
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