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✨✨✨ :
This is genuinely what concerns me about getting into a relationship. I am terrified to end up like my mother where I pour my heart and soul into a relationship and a husband and get nothing back but an occasional bouquet of flowers.
2024-06-27 20:31:21
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cay cay :
5 years divorced.. i am the happiest I’ve ever been. neverrrrr sacrificing my peace for a man again.
2024-06-28 14:44:53
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Just E :
I also have a question, how does this translate into raising boys? I don’t want him to be a people pleaser but I also want him to care for the feelings of others.
2024-06-27 22:17:33
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Nicole 💙✨ :
Love this explanation so much! The potential is there and a secure/sincere man will listen & learn how to reciprocate. But if there’s no interest, it’s the clearest red flag.
2024-06-27 21:01:35
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Blue Dress :
The metaphor that really stuck with me was digging a ditch versus cultivating a garden. A good relationship is a garden. Most dudes dig the ditch & call it a day.
2024-06-28 02:31:16
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mswigg84 :
To be loved is to consistently be known, considered, thought of, included, cared for & exist by another. If you want to know if u love a person they must tell u bc love is not a self proclamation.
2024-06-28 00:32:25
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Nesryn247 :
Loved this explanation. I said to my teen son the other day "you'll have to inspire my desire to go out of my way for you, with some reciprocation of thoughtfulness and consideration first buddy!"🤣
2024-06-28 07:44:43
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Jewels :
I just realize that I do not know a real good man.🥺
2024-07-05 02:40:19
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lil.SUSig :
no no no no one loves for the sake of loves love is for what u give me and what I give you a man loves who a woman who takes care of him a woman loves a mam who takes care of her
2024-07-05 08:57:48
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MillionireDen :
I want a woman to admire and respect someone who i do stuff that makes them happy someone to.please and make happy someone I seek their approval I want someone who will be proud of me a
2024-06-27 22:42:28
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Gandalfslongstaff :
Extremely rare is the man that naturally understands this. I'm so thankful I was lucky enough to find one.
2024-07-05 19:15:22
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Selflove Caz :
This is why ALL my rships have been short and I've been told something is wrong with me. I always found it unfair that I gave 💯 and got 0.1% I thought it was my choices but TT validated me.
2024-06-28 22:40:52
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Sophia ✨🦋 :
I just have to tell you that you look so much like Vanessa Kirby and Anya Taylor Joy 🌹 and you have wise perspective ✨
2024-06-28 05:40:28
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Self Centered Healing :
🎤 drop. 👏👏👏👏 This is exactly it.
2024-06-27 23:45:37
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bookishliberosis :
Anyone have recommendations for practical applications for raising the next generation of boys? I'm divorced & not dating, and dad is npd.
2024-06-30 17:24:56
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Fa FFou :
My god I love all your videos and this one is another one that is straight to🎯we all humains and capable of deep mutual connexion it take works but we all capable!
2024-06-28 12:34:33
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LaSonia Seay :
right! I saw a woman on social media who was a good cook and my husband immediately said I bet she can find a husband& I pointed out why does what she do automatically have to benefit a man?😳
2024-07-15 15:01:48
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Heather :
This response was so good
2024-08-12 20:26:26
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Just Passing By Life :
Love your content. So piercing
2024-07-20 08:14:18
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Killerwhalegirl :
If they could just show care
2024-06-29 08:45:31
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bella_boop24 :
You explained this so beautifully! The ease in which I understood the Care Principle-🥰. Men are very externally gratified and ill motivated to do for others and It makes so much sense!
2024-07-12 15:33:59
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Magnetic Life ®️ :
care is not love.
2024-06-28 13:24:14
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persephoneslounge :
I don't think romantic love is a myth. I just think it's a matter of priorities and what each person values. I definitely agree with it being the care principle.
2024-07-16 06:56:56
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TheAriaAvalon :
Thank you for this explanation! This applies to the workplace too. “Caring too much” isn’t weird. It makes sense. Just a problem when it’s not reciprocated.
2024-07-10 09:09:42
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