@therapistinrecovery: Replying to @Motava sometimes us codependents have to let things be undone, let things fall apart. This can be a necessary part of breaking the cycle. Then you can start anew in more balanced relationships. #codependency #codependencyrecovery #codependent #codependentnomore #codependentrelationships #relationshipadvice #letthemgo #divorcetok #breakuptiktok
I never considered myself to be egocentric, but damn this proved me wrong. Thank you for explaining!
2024-06-30 19:43:16
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bakedbeans376 :
I have this problem at work. I tried so hard to leave tasks to other people but now am spending hours going through and fixing mistakes
2024-07-02 21:22:07
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Nan2147 :
I recently distanced myself from a relationship like this and they IMMEDIATELY replaced me with someone else
2024-07-02 07:18:13
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glomping24_7 :
also a point i would bring up is that sometimes with codependency, it seems like "important stuff" when really the only person stressing or worrying about it is you.
2024-07-08 18:30:17
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A :
youre helping me so much!! thank you kindly
2024-07-01 17:04:41
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Kim Redwine :
I wish that were true. I 💯 know that things will not get done if I don’t. I’ve watched and know it will not. If I forget something, it’s not done. Nobody has my back. 💔
2024-06-30 20:07:52
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𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒂 :
I learn to think that my „correct” way of doing things is actually one of many variations and not the best. It helps with the feeling that no one will do stuff as well as me if I don’t control
2024-08-03 21:03:51
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T. Monet :
It would go on, but would I be as efficient? 😎
2024-07-03 17:45:49
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cbowmo :
Are there steps or ways of recognizing when you are behaving in a codependent way? Like in that moment. So we can step back a second and correct.
2024-07-12 14:25:52
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Bitsygill :
Or, I guess if it doesn't get done others don't think it is as important as you do
2024-07-07 22:08:17
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kungfumom :
The house would be a disaster ALL THE TIME. I can’t stand it. I don’t want the house to look like a tornado went through every day.
2024-07-10 11:42:37
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nyeshanolan :
Oh my god the read!!!!!!!!!
2024-07-01 04:42:41
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TMG :
You really keep popping on my fyp calling me out today. 😂 Oof
2024-07-08 16:00:08
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Alimabobima :
The heartbreaking thing is medical stuff being neglected and leading to ER trips/big bills when I don’t do it 😔 Had surgery and bf refused to lift a finger to help
2024-08-20 22:49:48
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Claudia H. :
Gaaaahh, you did it again 😭😭😭
2024-07-08 01:00:14
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LifelongDebt :
How do I do this in a relationship where we live together?
There are lots of chores that I'm catching myself in the cycle of codependency, but my SO lived in a house where he didn't do some chores as often because he had so many sibling and a disabled sister who did all the cooking. I find myself codependent when it comes to sleep because he doesn't have a proper sleep schedule but he doesn't handle it and sometimes it affects me because we ride together to work or have events with friends.
I can't afford a therapist right now so I can't work on this officially, so I appreciate any suggestions to try.
2025-07-02 16:32:57
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deasaster :
Your first video and this comment response have opened my eyes in way they’d never been before. Thank you
2024-07-13 06:07:33
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TaneshaSpeaks :
THISSSS😩🎯
2024-07-09 05:05:45
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Laura ics :
Thx for this, hard but you gave me so many to think about. You re great!! ❤️
2024-07-08 15:36:56
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Jamnqb :
👏👏👏👏👏👏
2024-07-08 00:11:19
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T. Monet :
Rachel why ya talking about me like this 😭😂
2024-07-03 17:45:05
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Sincerely Sophisticated :
…!!
2024-06-30 20:12:47
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olgavietlap :
So did you guys get your coworker a late birthday card? Lol
2024-06-30 19:45:10
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Marsha Maynard :
Good reminder
2024-10-29 18:37:42
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