may our boundaries always be stronger than our empathy
2024-07-01 20:40:31
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Carla...Samantha :
my therapist told me, "if you go out while you're bleeding, you're going to attract sharks"
2024-07-02 03:36:34
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Shelly ann :
I had this issue and then I realized that I wasn’t a magnet for them. I was just willing to accept their behavior when others weren’t. They were spraying and praying.
2024-07-01 18:03:34
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SamHil :
An old boss gave me great advice that applies to relationships too: “Be slow to hire, but quick to fire”
2024-07-01 19:07:23
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DizzyDean☮️ :
if you've experienced childhood abuse, be cautious of people who feel familiar or like home to you.
2024-07-02 08:43:32
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Dawn :
Let me tell you this, the further you come along your healing journey, the lonelier it becomes because you start seeing all those unhealed ppl and the walls go up and your circle shrinks.
2024-07-01 21:28:54
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BestestAsbestos :
In my life, I allow for people to be imperfect. Manipulation often seems like imperfection until it’s too late.
2024-07-01 15:41:42
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The Art & Soul of Witchery :
I was perfectly raised to give everyone around me “understanding,” grace, benefit of the doubt… It’s the perfect set up.
2024-07-01 17:27:22
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Krissy :
Repell them with boundaries, cuz they hate those 💜❣️
2024-07-01 17:03:27
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_chaos_goblin_ :
With increased awareness of mental health, we often focus too much on creating safe space for others and ignore the red flags that dismantle our own safe space.
2024-07-01 16:41:53
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Ally K :
I learned that I gravitate towards them bc it reminds me of what’s familiar- my own mom 💔
2024-07-01 16:31:11
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beela2010 :
This is so true. Narcissists and energy vampires try this on everyone. Boundaries keep them away.
2024-07-03 10:16:32
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Dr. Sarah Hensley :
Yep. The secure walkaway. The insecurely attached
2024-07-30 00:45:24
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KindHappyLove :
Omg! What a great metaphor!
2024-07-30 15:15:10
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finickymuseict :
I realized after therapy that I am not so special or unique that these people only do those things to me, they do it to everyone. It’s my lack of boundaries that contribute to the carnage😳
2024-07-02 17:37:34
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AnnKat :
What if you can’t recognize the lioness in time? Some toxic people seem normal at first.
2024-07-03 13:28:49
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Nurse_Petty_AF :
😳😳😳😳 Oh. My. Goddess…😳😳😳 this is 💯 on point!
2024-07-29 10:39:45
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B Squared :
So leave at the first red flag or when you’re not having fun.
2024-07-01 17:14:36
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JustAly4ya :
There is a lesson you havent learned. I attracted those people until I learned the lesson and then it stopped!
2024-07-03 12:42:45
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robynbanks08 :
My therapist said “his type of damage and your type of damage just met one day. It wasn’t personal.” The only way to prevent in the future is to heal
2024-07-02 03:58:21
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JoyBellaFemme :
The hard part is being on your healing journey & not wanting to let someone go even though we know they aren’t good for us. Choosing ourselves can be so hard sometimes.
2024-07-01 17:58:57
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Talulah :
I've heard this analogy before and what my therapist and I added was that lionesses can be injured too, but that doesn't mean I need to heal them. 🙃🙃🙃
2024-07-01 17:17:46
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Anita Grace Brown :
E V E R Y O N E is wounded
2024-07-02 12:58:05
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Rose's Favorites :
The emotionally unavailable seek out the emotionally unavailable. It feels safe and familiar.
2024-07-03 17:02:25
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