Zach Mental Load Guy
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Saturday 06 July 2024 20:45:00 GMT
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godzillasmom :
Simply put, it's like having a coworker that has no idea how to do their job. Why are you asking? Look around and pick a task
2024-07-07 13:51:56
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Mar :
if u constantly were asking ur coworker (not even ur boss) "what do I do?" and implying u dont know how to do ur job... ud eventually be fired
2024-07-11 15:02:56
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ladyankh39 :
Yeah, how is this THAT hard? Anytime I have a question like that, I just answer it with, ask as a multiple choice, not open-ended. Seems simple since it was brought to my attntion.
2024-07-09 02:37:33
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Tauva 💙 :
Mine asks how he can help. I’ve started answering “I’ll get up and look around and see what needs to be done and tell you if you need.”
2024-07-07 00:03:41
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Hunter von Wigglebutts :
Also, “help” implies it is all your partner’s responsibility and you are doing them a favor
2024-07-09 02:05:57
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Charlie :
'Am I doing anything on X day?' - Dude, I don't know I don't keep your schedule!
2024-07-08 10:27:31
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Zara :
I heard it put best "If you see what she sees but don't do what she does... she is doing more unseen labor"
2024-07-10 13:48:54
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Kristin :
You make me feel so validated with my mental load. My husband is working on reading the cues and I appreciate it, but it’s like a total shift in his mindset/habits so it’s a work in progress
2024-07-07 15:37:16
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Amandaaaaaaaa :
It's very simple. They need to ask themselves, "what would I need to do if I lived here alone?" If their only answer is to hire someone to do it, then they need to be single.
2024-07-13 01:22:57
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VikingPrincess753 :
You are a breath of fresh air! 🥰🥰🥰
2024-07-07 12:49:40
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Sheera :
Don’t even ask. Just do what needs to be done. Tell her you’re doing it if you need to. Asking still requires mental load.
2024-07-08 16:51:55
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Gina 🕸🕷🐈⬛🦇 :
my husband ... is an actual adult.. coz he just does it!!!! it's like he uses his own eyeballs...and see what needs to be done...and does it . 🙄
2024-07-08 12:41:08
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Miriam :
So sad that we need to tell husband father to be kind & help 😢
2024-07-07 18:54:19
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Old Lady :
The first time, do a job together so the expert can teach the student. From then on, both are equipped to do what needs done
2024-07-08 16:33:18
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LWV2022 :
The implicit assumption of asking, how can I help is that it’s 100% her job and you’re being a good guy by doing a little bit of it. All of it should be both of your responsibility.
2024-07-10 20:24:03
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Kat Nanshin Blehm :
I can’t love this enough. 😍 My 3rd (& last) husband was like this. He was absolutely phenomenal with helping, learned it all on his own. He passed, 9+ years ago. I won’t have another.
2024-07-08 18:01:21
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ScottyMcHaggis1 :
mine built me a mini game room under the stairs and locks me in there away from the kids 😂🥰😂
2024-07-10 09:51:50
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Kat :
I’ll take a “how can I help” over nothing which is the usual. He comes home and flops on the couch and tv goes on. No help ever getting ready for a trip. It’s always on me.
2024-07-08 11:35:04
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Bama :
❤️❤️❤️
2024-07-07 10:28:28
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rin :
“What can I do?” Use your EYEBALLS 👀 Look around and pick something!
2024-07-07 20:58:57
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Gibby :
My ex would ask “what do you need me to do?” Open your eyes, Jacob, I need you to open your damn eyes.
2024-07-08 20:28:01
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sun541ne05 :
Better yet, just do it. Stop narrating everything you see. This is the "period" version of the "how can I help" question. Maybe it's just my ADHD flaring up lol but omg, stop talking and just DO
2024-07-07 15:17:00
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Jenelle McDuchess :
Imagine if men did this at work. Only doing tasks when explicitly asked by their boss and taking zero initiative to see what needs to be done. How would they even retain employment that way?
2024-07-08 12:44:28
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James :
So she working too
2024-07-07 13:50:54
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brmusic19 :
it's almost like what you can do with a toddler, rather than asking an open ended question, ask if she'd rather have you do A or B
2024-07-08 13:10:00
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