@koachknussi: Effort. For years I wondered why I saw no change in areas of my life I wanted to push forward. I knew what to do but still yet felt confused. It looked easy for others yet I couldn't do it. There was only one thing missing that I wasn't doing and it was putting int EFFORT. Making sure what I did was to its highest effort possible and nothing least. You just have to do and do it with all your heart. The you can watch the things you want turn into reality. THIS IS WHERE WE GROW. THIS IS WHERE WE GET BETTER.