@dank_dame: If you have a family member that helps you with your children, consider yourself so blessed. I am sick of my kid, not having grandparents to rely on, people in the family to rely on. It’s just us. And for a parent to say that they could use an hour break without feeling guilt??? that’s a whole other story we can talk about a different day. My son deserves family, and to see all these kids running around with their grandparents and aunts/uncles/cousins and it kills me. It absolutely tears my heart apart my kid doesn’t have that and I have fought for it. No more.