@coach.ryan0: When the avoidant ex offers “friendship”, it’s an opportunity to hold a boundary #friendzone #friendzoned #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #insecureattachment #heartbroken #emotionallyunavailaible #discard #discarded #breakup #divorce #attachmentstyle #relationships #dating #situationship #relationshipcoach
He offered me friendship but I couldn’t do it, sitting on the side line while he was entertaining others while he knew how I felt, I walked away.
2024-07-04 13:37:30
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amitaparikh :
My DA ex said this and then did nothing hadn’t said a word for months. Avoidants are awful and should not be dating, ever. Just run.
2024-07-04 15:00:32
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Lily :
why do they say ”lets stay friends”, keep you on their socials but never reach out again?
2024-07-04 14:22:24
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❤️Donna❤️ :
They need to leave people alone period.
2024-07-06 12:28:42
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Rocki Awsum Abernethy :
"friends" is not what I wanted. it would hurt to just watch him start over with someone new. he promised me a lot. it was all bullshit. so I blocked and went no contact.
2024-07-14 02:33:24
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patty92117 :
They want to have supply. Just in case they need someone new they have supply to pick from. They talk about friendship a lot.
2024-07-05 00:46:26
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newman24 :
….. and they can keep you in the friend zone while they go out and play the field. Don’t let them. If they want to be ‘friends’, walk away and don’t look back
2024-07-04 16:29:32
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Rory Thomas :
What is that act of friendship down the line is a way to test the waters again? It could be both are working on things and down the line a friendship could be a way to start afresh if both partieswant
2024-07-04 18:23:27
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Kami :
I tried the friends thing only bc I still wanted the person in my life. It was too difficult. Only bc I kept thinking about how we even got to this point.
2024-07-05 00:45:14
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tryingtodoitall :
He offered me friendship and ended up ghosting me 🥹
2024-07-04 13:30:08
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Morgan :
Friendship is just a way to put a bandage on the emotional led on that they did to you. Block them and move on! It’s hard but healthy ❤️
2024-07-04 22:56:53
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Lree :
I had the text book experience of this. I’m proud of myself for saying no to the friend zone and telling him it’s all or nothing. He chose nothing, but I know being in the friend zone would be my ruin
2024-07-04 21:07:55
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Ashley Inscore :
No romantic relationship, no relationship at all.
2024-07-05 04:31:20
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amy.lou314 :
He slow faded while living with me. It was crushing.
2024-07-04 22:25:40
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🌟 Madalina_Roxana🌟 💫 :
that's a big NO. wouldn't trust them not even as friends
2024-08-06 08:54:57
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Alessandra Rocchi I Autrice 📚 :
I told him that it could not happen because I don’t know how to love less and that kind of relationships do not last. I think I broke something in his mind. He was more hurt than me 🙁
2024-07-04 20:55:19
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QueenShera14 :
so by actually saying no and leaving he can say I told you they always leave.. no matter I'm not a door mat
2024-07-04 15:32:18
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user6940386040739 :
This is 100% on. Ive made a lot of mistakes but one of the best things ive ever done was to do just that and reject his false offer of friendship, what you said in this video abt the self worth is tru
2024-07-04 19:09:06
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common sense :
he still wanted to have "some kind of relationship", but didn't like that I said " all or nothing", so I moved on but hurting....
2024-07-05 03:44:53
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giorgio :
I’m friends with my avoidant she says she wants to date again but later this year when her life is better. I’m her “right person wrong time”
2024-07-04 13:31:14
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MoonRonin :
I talked with her about being friend zoned, lead on or given false hopes. She said she wasn't that type, she would never do it. 🙄 silly me 🙈
2024-07-05 17:00:47
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Jill no Jack :
He triggered my abandonment so why can I trigger his back 🤷🏻♀️byeeeee
2024-08-12 17:10:43
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alenchen 💚 :
He told me I was the first person he could be his true self, he even fell asleep in my arms (he was never able to do this before) and felt comforted by my presence or calls we had. but he dumped me💔
2024-08-29 19:31:48
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HumanApprentice :
This is what my husband of 40 yrs said to me after I pushed him to be accountable for how he treated me. 😳
2024-07-04 14:26:29
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nancihall527 :
OMG here I thought I was dealing with an advoidant...I just realized that I'm the avoidant😂
2024-07-04 17:36:39
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