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It doesn’t matter how gentle you say it they will do ANYTHING to avoid accountability
2024-07-05 06:49:28
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PalmTreesNParadise :
“Why you gotta bring up the past?” “See you always use what I said or did against me!” 🙄
2024-07-05 06:40:37
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homegrownhaze :
he doesn't actually ever get upset, it's odd. instead he just tells me that the stuff I say happened, didn't happen. 🤷
2024-07-05 10:55:48
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donna_ewing :
Don’t do it
2024-08-12 17:58:06
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Meg_colorado :
My ex said I caused him to cheat because I “let” him move out of state to start his business (his idea BTW). Delusional 🤡
2024-07-05 12:04:02
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kate :) :
“WE hurt each other we BOTH made mistakes” that was said multiple times during his apology speech, lmaoooo
2024-07-23 16:19:51
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Luna🌙Ivy🌿 :
Mine just would deny everything. If I'd show receipts, he would say it was an invasion of his privacy to keep them😂
2024-07-05 12:42:37
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LisaMarie :
Amen my ex wold just say “I feel attacked”. I was like I’m just pointing out the facts that you’ve done to me imagine how I feel as your victim.
2024-07-05 12:21:59
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DeepStateDana :
My mom says: “well it hurts me that you’re saying I hurt you!” Without irony.
2024-07-06 00:28:02
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HDMc1981 :
When I calmly said a couple of things he had done and how he’d treated me he said “if you really believe that I did that, why are you even here?
2024-07-05 15:22:36
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Stephen Krikszens :
Emotional Damage !*
2024-07-05 06:55:44
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MiPhantom :
I calmly talked to her about what really happened and she said I’m not doing this right now, and she hung up the phone😂
2024-07-05 10:53:23
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Laura Marciante Kram :
So true! He was accusing me of something I didn’t do and I asked him if he really believed that? He hesitated, then said yes. I looked at him and said, then why are you still here? He got very angry!
2024-07-05 08:04:16
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Sensual :
When I would accuse on rare occasions they would say 'well you did so and so'🙄
2024-07-05 18:54:45
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Mar0924 :
They turn it around and become the victim really quick
2024-07-05 14:45:32
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Jonathan :
Once again, you’re 100% bang on, Claire. This was entirely my experience. When he was outrageous and I’d point it out calmly, he claimed the fact that I’d done so was the real outrage.
2024-07-05 06:40:47
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🌟Rradiance :
They know they’re lying which is why they’re shocked when you speak the truth when they expect you to be quiet/scared/intimidated by them
2024-07-23 03:08:00
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Manzanita Manor :
Him: “Am I a bad person?” 😳
2024-07-05 14:18:37
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💢Sean Christopher McGee :
Yep... I tried to calmly remind her that it hurt me that she would talk to our neighbor about our private life and behind my back.... She exploded.
2024-07-05 06:43:35
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Doodoobrowneyes :
“We’re not talking about passed issues in this conversation “ not realizing the pattern of behavior is identical to that same issue. That ironically wasn’t solved then either 👀
2024-07-05 14:12:22
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Jennifer Juniper 🇨🇦 🇬🇧 :
Listened to your podcast, 'The Narc Abuse episode 2' and everything resonated! Really well done!
2024-07-05 10:45:47
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Lenny :
mine would say " don't turn it around on me. it isn't about me. it's about you and what you did" I would look at him and laugh and it sat him off lol😊😊😊😊
2024-07-05 09:15:04
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Jenny in Romania :
Natcissists are universally predictable
2024-07-05 07:03:56
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.rwfng :
I change my mind now. I don't think I'm a narcissist anymore. Maybe half narcissist
2024-07-05 06:39:05
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92paa :
I am a victim now. Deeply suffering . I need help 😭
2024-07-05 10:55:57
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Laura Marciante Kram :
Once, when he said I made him do something, I said, really? If I could actually make you do things, I have a list of things I want to make you do! He never said that again.
2024-07-05 08:05:39
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Sunshine :
He would throw a fit if I pointed out how he mistreated me. It’s be a fight and then the silent treatment… or breakup
2024-07-05 20:10:36
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Andrea :
“You have such a bad opinion of me” “you have a list of resents against me” like…wow. The deflection.
2024-07-05 17:04:35
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SurvivingThriving517 :
it's ALWAYS about them.
2024-07-05 13:49:10
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Connie Kaatz :
He never believes some of the shit I reflect back on……like I couldn’t dream up this crap no matter how much I wanted to.
2024-07-05 08:25:10
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🌺Hotty🌺 :
I just said to him that he hide me from social media, i am his wife and i am not exist. He is even"single". His response was horrilbe anger and he screamed he will divorce and disappeared.
2024-07-05 07:50:44
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Kali Walter :
Nothing enrages a narcissist more then accusing them of doing something they absolutely did
2024-07-25 22:58:10
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sassycherry :
Hi I’m the problem it’s me 😂🤣 I can say that & know it’s damn well not me that’s the problem ☺️
2024-07-18 06:35:36
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Siobhan Marie :
There’s ZERO reason to EVER engage in any type of script with them what so ever you are literally giving them more of your precious energy while putting you back in your trauma box
2024-07-07 19:41:49
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🖤 Laura 🖤 :
Also, when somethings said about their behaviour they say, "I haven't thought about it" or "I don't worry about things in the past" but then throw things at me from the past?!!
2024-07-06 09:25:38
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jpeels80 :
Mine lies and denies.
2024-07-05 21:19:47
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pamfitness :
“Oh great now you ruined my whole week with your imagination, I never said/did that!”
2024-07-05 14:04:33
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Samantha G :
I did exactly these “unconsciously” discarding him at the end of the relationship, and his true colors showed and discarded me. He said he would need trauma therapy after me. He needs therapy in hell
2024-07-05 11:52:33
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Amanda :
This✨❤️✨
2024-07-05 11:38:08
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April Edmonson :
Mine literally said my words were like acid when I told him things he did that hurt me. Just last week.
2024-07-05 11:35:17
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Alicia Carruthers :
💯💯
2024-07-05 11:00:18
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Never dim your Light :
Yup
2024-07-05 06:59:50
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sunshine :
💯💔true
2024-07-05 06:49:29
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Happy.is.hard :
Holy hell I literally said that to him!! If it hurts you to hear about what you did to our kids and me..then how do you think the kids and I feel about living through your actions?!? He stormed off..
2024-07-05 06:47:48
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🅿️ :
i tried to calmly and nicely mention things like this, and that he is a narcissist in the NICEST AND LOVING POSSIBLE WAY AND he kicked me out on the street when i lived in a different state.
2024-07-08 21:11:37
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Carrie Bee :
I’m so unbothered by my narc husband. I’m always so calm and he just rages. He doesn’t hurt my feelings anymore.
2024-07-08 00:57:06
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autistic888alchemist :
They actually don’t care. They don’t have feelings
2024-07-07 15:16:32
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bohdan_the_dane :
He said, 'I don't even think I like the guy you are describing.' Like I was talking about a 3rd party. 🙄
2024-07-06 22:50:27
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christwiggs :
Talking about things she had done, I once told mine "imagine this was done to you", her response was "you deserved it though"...so yeah 🤷♂️
2024-07-06 19:45:36
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Mr.Serendipity :
@Nelly OfDoom
2024-07-06 18:08:03
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