@jason.vanruler: Have you ever been in a relationship like this? #attachment #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #datingadvice
Sometimes you genuinely care for and love them but you have to distance yourself from their unhealthyness they're unaware of
2024-07-09 11:18:30
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Leebra❤️ :
During the week, he’s cool spending time with me. When the weekend comes along, I’m not part of his weekend plans.
2024-07-20 13:28:38
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TheEnd :
I just do my thing now.
2026-08-03 19:56:11
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Susan Z :
My EX was an Avoidant and said "I have my own life to live and that takes time. Go live your own life, you're such a bottomless pit of neediness." I moved out and broke up with him. Good Riddance
2024-07-15 01:57:21
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KellyKellz :
Basic info!! I love how he simplifies it❤️
2026-03-29 02:51:19
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Joker :
When they prioritize the neibor or there sister who might call your partner 3 times a day and the sister knows everything about your relationship not good
2025-09-30 22:27:58
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🥷🖤🫂 :
Prioritize your peace of mind and mental health
2025-09-26 18:16:45
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Blue Dress :
Why would someone do this? Why would someone tell you how important you are to them but then not show it?
2024-07-07 00:09:13
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ALITA :
Husband of 30 years
2026-02-27 09:13:46
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m_eliesarsdottir :
Your timing is impeccable
2025-10-31 20:17:13
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🏳️🌈April🏳️🌈 :
I lost a lot of friends/family this past year by holding them accountable to “I love/miss you” This was my year for them to PROVE IT. And only ONE put their time where there mouth is ❤️🩹
2024-07-08 20:59:21
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開心 :
There should be an exclusive time with him
2025-08-19 00:25:01
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victory_lighthouse :
I was the fool who thought the ppl I had as friends and good colleagues turned out didn’t even care and I didn’t matter to them
2024-07-19 11:44:38
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CAT :
Unless they are on their own healing journey. Be kind.
2024-07-07 13:25:44
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Lainey :
Exactly. I get crumbs.
2025-05-04 18:56:12
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jennybeegoodenuf :
Yep
2024-07-13 15:06:15
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Matt McMillen Ministries :
So true
2024-07-06 19:11:55
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Joker :
Or putting off intimacy and creating excuses or making themselves busy with whatever is going on around them rather then focusing on you and her.
2025-09-30 22:29:23
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💗 :
Or they have social anxiety and have told you this, but you just aren’t a good match, because there are different expectations
2024-07-06 13:44:48
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Amy :
Exactly why I stopped responding to him
2024-07-20 20:21:16
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Boriska Kipriyanovich :
sad truth
2026-11-07 03:14:21
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Jean Pino Lukina Sajulga :
me I interested in relationship in afam
2025-04-07 10:20:15
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Trixie :
It always like be understand for them.😒
2024-08-04 13:06:59
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Crystal :
Or it’s just a sign of how they were taught/learned to care. Still not a good relationship if you need more. But not always about a lack of care
2024-07-24 09:55:17
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Jane Doe :
Spending time with you or spending time with you while they are on their phone. Cause the second one isn’t going to work.
2024-07-19 03:22:26
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